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Topic: Scorpio's disappearing acts
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joyful1
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From: MI. United States
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posted March 27, 2013 01:17 PM
  
Blue Raven: Thanks for your insight. It helps to hear from someone dating one also. You said previously that he waited a month with no contact? Is that right? I have no patience for that. lol. Is that an excuse for them to screw around or do they really go that emotionally deep and need that much space?
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Originally posted by BlueRaven:
He got in deep because he is a Scorpio and that's what they do. They certainly have an intensity of emotion and spirit and for me the Pisces rising in me fell for that within a matter of hours.
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joyful1
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posted March 27, 2013 01:20 PM
BlueRaven: And yes, for my first experience with a Scorpio, he definitely is intoxicating and speaks to my side that needs passion. I was with an Aquarius for the last 3 years and he was rather aloof and laid back. This passionate/emotional Scorpio is providing a nice change for this Leo girl =) quote:
Originally posted by BlueRaven:
He got in deep because he is a Scorpio and that's what they do. They certainly have an intensity of emotion and spirit and for me the Pisces rising in me fell for that within a matter of hours.
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BlueRaven
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posted March 27, 2013 01:29 PM
Well I should clarify that within that month we were also in different States at the time, but still when I got back there was a period of time that still passed before we got back together. I am not sure about Leo/Scorpio compatibility, but with my Pisces rising it's hard for me to separate emotionally from him. This is both good and bad. IP: Logged |
CherryVodka
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posted March 27, 2013 01:45 PM
I'll tell you right now this is more of a man woman thing than it is about Astrology I know Scorp men who aren't like this and i know other signs who are like this.Just something to keep in mind IP: Logged |
joyful1
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posted March 27, 2013 01:52 PM
That's what I wondered. I can be patient with a guy if he's withdrawing due to sorting out feelings/life. But not with a jerk who's just game playing!!! "Aint nobody got time for that"  quote:
Originally posted by CherryVodka:
I'll tell you right now this is more of a man woman thing than it is about Astrology I know Scorp men who aren't like this and i know other signs who are like this.Just something to keep in mind
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swampys
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posted March 27, 2013 01:57 PM
Sorry! But does anyone think a man with Mars in Scorpio is also capable of the same thing?IP: Logged |
tgem
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posted March 27, 2013 02:17 PM
What about a man with scorpio ASC...do they play the mind games as well? IP: Logged |
BlueRaven
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posted March 27, 2013 02:21 PM
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Originally posted by swampys:
Sorry! But does anyone think a man with Mars in Scorpio is also capable of the same thing?
My Mars is in Scorpio. I would say I don't play those kinds of games in general, but I do like my privacy in general, but I think I would simply be direct and let the person know that. IP: Logged |
lalalinda
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posted March 27, 2013 03:09 PM
Hello joyful1! Welcome to LL  ------------------
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swampys
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posted March 27, 2013 03:10 PM
quote:
Originally posted by BlueRaven:
My Mars is in Scorpio. I would say I don't play those kinds of games in general, but I do like my privacy in general, but I think I would simply be direct and let the person know that.
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joyful1
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From: MI. United States
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted March 27, 2013 03:28 PM
Thanks =]. Love the site. quote:
Originally posted by lalalinda:
Hello joyful1! Welcome to LL
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joyful1
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Registered: Mar 2013
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posted March 27, 2013 06:05 PM
So the way I met this Scorpio is he is a cop in our town that has helped me out with my crazy ex. My ex is being horrible tonight and I may end up needing to call a cop to be there when we do the "kid exchange" so I texted the Scorpio to give him a heads up since he's on duty. I told him my ex is being an ass again and I'm not playing games so I want to give him a heads up I may be calling for a cop... I would think at this point if he doesn't text back that he's an a$$ and just used me for sex? IP: Logged |
joyful1
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From: MI. United States
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted March 27, 2013 06:05 PM
So the way I met this Scorpio is he is a cop in our town that has helped me out with my crazy ex. My ex is being horrible tonight and I may end up needing to call a cop to be there when we do the "kid exchange" so I texted the Scorpio to give him a heads up since he's on duty. I told him my ex is being an ass again and I'm not playing games so I want to give him a heads up I may be calling for a cop... I would think at this point if he doesn't text back that he's an a$$ and just used me for sex? IP: Logged |
joyful1
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posted March 27, 2013 06:29 PM
Idk why this posted twice!!! quote:
Originally posted by joyful1:
So the way I met this Scorpio is he is a cop in our town that has helped me out with my crazy ex. My ex is being horrible tonight and I may end up needing to call a cop to be there when we do the "kid exchange" so I texted the Scorpio to give him a heads up since he's on duty. I told him my ex is being an ass again and I'm not playing games so I want to give him a heads up I may be calling for a cop... I would think at this point if he doesn't text back that he's an a$$ and just used me for sex?
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joyful1
Knowflake Posts: 93
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Registered: Mar 2013
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posted March 27, 2013 09:05 PM
So I texted the Scorpio giving him a heads up saying I needed a cop to help me with my ex tonight and that I understood if he wanted to make sure he wasn't the one to answer my call. He never texted back. Then I go to meet my ex and which cop shows up? Scorpio. With a smirk on his face. Asks me what's going on and talks to me like nothing happened. I then said " I gave you a heads up so u wldnt feel obligated to come out." He just smiles. I said "if you didn't want to talk to me anymore you could've texted me back and told me." He again just smiles and says "I'll call you." How in the world do I take this? More confused then ever. Maybe if he calls he will clarify whether or not he still wants to talk and why he dropped off the face of the earth for 5 days. IP: Logged |
mir
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posted March 27, 2013 10:23 PM
***How in the world do I take this? More confused then ever. Maybe if he calls he will clarify whether or not he still wants to talk and why he dropped off the face of the earth for 5 days.*** *WILL*?? No, he HAS to.. ! You gave your *body*! My.. a constant red flag here when reading this thread, even wanted to shout; quote:
If I didn't text him back right away he would text and say "are you not talking to me anymore?
This is what YOU have to do now!! (and in case you already *did* text him that, then throw this man overboard as quick as you can!) I'm a Leo with Scorp-Moon and my first was a Scorp (3 years together) and he never ever ignored me.. he's simply not that into you if he's playing like that after you gave your *BODY!! Respect! IP: Logged |
joyful1
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From: MI. United States
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted March 29, 2013 01:03 PM
Joy: Mir you are so right! I don't need this grown man's games. I kicked him to the curb and deleted him out of my phone and off facebook. He can play his games on someone else. Scorpio or not, I can't handle that bs. quote:
Originally posted by mir:
***How in the world do I take this? More confused then ever. Maybe if he calls he will clarify whether or not he still wants to talk and why he dropped off the face of the earth for 5 days.*** *WILL*?? No, he HAS to.. ! You gave your *body*! My.. a constant red flag here when reading this thread, even wanted to shout; [QUOTE]If I didn't text him back right away he would text and say "are you not talking to me anymore?
This is what YOU have to do now!! (and in case you already *did* text him that, then throw this man overboard as quick as you can!) I'm a Leo with Scorp-Moon and my first was a Scorp (3 years together) and he never ever ignored me.. he's simply not that into you if he's playing like that after you gave your *BODY!! Respect![/QUOTE] IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow
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posted March 29, 2013 01:43 PM
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Originally posted by CherryVodka:
Why deal with this garbage from someone. Who wants to play games all the time, I don't. I'd say tell him to have fun playing alone.
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bridgetostars23
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posted March 29, 2013 02:10 PM
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Originally posted by joyful1:
I went out with a Scorpio male (11/7/1974) and he seemed really into me. Called/texted all the time. Pursued me hard. We went out and he asked me many pointed questions almost like an interrogation and said he could read me and that I'm stubborn. We had sex and it was of course the most amazing sex ever. After the sex he confided in me about some personal things in his life which he's typically pretty mysterious about. He said "if you ever research me (hes a well known Cop in our little town) that he wanted to be the first to let me know some personal matters of his. He then asked if we were going out again and I jokingly said "I guess we will see..." I have only heard from him once since. Now it's been 4 days of him ignoring me. The stubborn Leo in me texted him 4x. Did he use me for sex and now he's done with me? I felt a huge connection and honestly thought he did too. HELP!!!!
I will admit to sometimes disappearing, myself. I am not a Scorpio sun. I am a Scorpio moon conjunct pluto and a scorpio venus. What might happen is this; for whatever reason the planets align and I am able to have an intense emotional connection with someone. (Which I crave of course but which rarely happens.) And then I am away and I need to be alone and breathe for a while. And then I start worrying that I said too much or that the other person wasn't actually feeling that intense connection. And so I don't call. Or I disappear. Despite having a great time. Sometimes BECAUSE of the great time. The dude could also just be a jerk. But this is what I have unfortunately done in the past. IP: Logged |
joyful1
Knowflake Posts: 93
From: MI. United States
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted November 12, 2013 04:13 PM
You may be right on with this. He disappeared for awhile but we have been chatting the last month again. Who knows. This guy is confusing. I'm not holding out any hope for a relationship. But he will all of the sudden blow up my phone. He remembers everything about me and about when we went out. We talked for 3 hours the other night. confusing!!!He is the only Scorp I've dated. quote:
Originally posted by bridgetostars23:
I will admit to sometimes disappearing, myself. I am not a Scorpio sun. I am a Scorpio moon conjunct pluto and a scorpio venus. What might happen is this; for whatever reason the planets align and I am able to have an intense emotional connection with someone. (Which I crave of course but which rarely happens.) And then I am away and I need to be alone and breathe for a while. And then I start worrying that I said too much or that the other person wasn't actually feeling that intense connection. And so I don't call. Or I disappear. Despite having a great time. Sometimes BECAUSE of the great time. The dude could also just be a jerk. But this is what I have unfortunately done in the past.
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Kerosene
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posted November 12, 2013 04:54 PM
I wish scorpio men would disappear away from me.....
I'm not into being mindfucked sideways by some sociopath I hardly even know.
Thank goodness I've never let that happen because I usually see right through them.IP: Logged |
joyful1
Knowflake Posts: 93
From: MI. United States
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted November 12, 2013 06:00 PM
LOL!!!I love a good challenge. I usually date Aqua's. But definitely not into mind games :/ quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
I wish scorpio men would disappear away from me.....
I'm not into being mindfucked sideways by some sociopath I hardly even know.
Thank goodness I've never let that happen because I usually see right through them.
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NeptunianSag
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posted November 12, 2013 07:02 PM
Get done with him, scorpios test each woman they come across and then test each one like labrat experiments. Life's too short for giving your worth to someone who doesn't deserve it. I've had experiences with scorpios, although I admire their intelligence and not thinking like the norm, they will drag you to hell with misery and prevent you from being happy. Just think of hades and Persephone, he will drag you to his dark world and will do anything to keep you there.IP: Logged |
joyful1
Knowflake Posts: 93
From: MI. United States
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted November 12, 2013 10:24 PM
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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
Get done with him, scorpios test each woman they come across and then test each one like labrat experiments. Life's too short for giving your worth to someone who doesn't deserve it. I've had experiences with scorpios, although I admire their intelligence and not thinking like the norm, they will drag you to hell with misery and prevent you from being happy. Just think of hades and Persephone, he will drag you to his dark world and will do anything to keep you there.
Why in the world would they do this? It's on purpose? They try to make you miserable? Can't wrap my sun shiny mind around that one... IP: Logged |
joyful1
Knowflake Posts: 93
From: MI. United States
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted November 12, 2013 10:33 PM
To clarify, I don't trust this Scorpio. I'm actually still hung up on an Aqua I dated  Ugh a whole different story... I'm just curious as to why Scorps act this way. I have many guys chasing me and I admit I like the chase but can't stand it when they throw themselves at me. The Scorp intrigues me with his hot and cold.... lol------------------
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