posted April 01, 2013 07:40 PM            

If you have no future but you love him and want a future with him, seeing him isn't a good idea IMO. I was in the exact same situation last year. It'll just be harder to let go when you inevitably have to. It's very painful to let go, but it's better than staying in a relationship that is not going anywhere.

posted April 01, 2013 10:56 PM            

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Originally posted by so square:
life is what happens when you're busy making other plans. go for it. there is no wrong decision. it's hard enough to find love as it is. you seem to love him. he seems to love you. tomorrow, you may both feel different. enjoy today.

and don't rely too much on astrology. most of it us a load of bs you know.

sam.

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posted April 02, 2013 08:07 AM            

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Originally posted by so square:
i didn't say "i think" most of it is a load of bs, i said "most of it is a load of bs", as in statement of fact.

you just have to look at 90% of the posts here to know that. they are purely speculative. it's one person asking "is it my so & so in such & such that does this or makes me like that?"

and then you get dozens of differing replies, "no it's this, no it's that, i think it's the other". they all contradict, they're all just guesses, nobody knows.

generalisations sometimes work, but so many of them use a catch all technique, so there's bound to be something somewhere that fits.

then you get discrepancies between western, vedic, house systems and so on and so forth.

then you get people who say astrology works, but i don't believe in synastry or some other part.

i just choose not to delude myself that most of it is anything other. not all people are like me in that respect. they can merrily go on for years with blinkers on.

as for why i'm here - i find some of it entertaining. why are you here? if you don't have an analytical mind allowing you to sift through what is and what isn't bs, what can you possibly hope to gain by being here?

there's no need to feel threatened by my presence though, i wouldn't want that.

consider life. most of it is bs. again, statement of fact. playing the same mindless game over and over again, watching television, watching adverts on television, doing mundane repetetive tasks for no real reward, hanging out on forums, getting into arguments with people we don't know or even care about.

most of life is bs. but we still do it. we all partake of it. but we don't usually have someone questioning our motives for being here, for being alive. it's for the other 10%.

hope that helps.

and i didn't really want this thread to be hijacked. frankly, i thought my answer was good - don't rely on astrology, rely on yourself.

sam.

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Can I be totally honest with you?

Why are you here, then? And I don't even mean that in a hostile way, I'm saying it out of genuine confusion. Because it's not reading like you're someone that's on the fence about astrology, or even cynical, but like you've already made your mind up that it's totally worthless. And if that's the case, aren't you really just wasting your time and frustrating yourself unnecessarily?

Note - this isn't me saying that there's something wrong with you not believing in astrology - everybody has their own thing, and that's fine. I'm talking strictly about the senselessness of what you're doing - it's like a staunch atheist planting themselves down in a forum for devout Christians and then being surprised and annoyed that they're sitting there talking about Christ.

And I think it's safe to say that most of us here use astrology as a tool and a contributing factor in terms of decision-making processes, but not as the be-all, end-all; for you to assume otherwise about a bunch of people you don't even know and then start giving condescending life-advice on the subject, was honestly offensive.

Really it makes a lot more sense for you to go to a forum on a subject you do actually believe is valid and have interest in, instead of insulting the intelligence of the people around you because they're interested in something different from your personal preferences.

posted April 02, 2013 10:16 AM            

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Originally posted by mir:
The truth is often more close than we think.
To keep it simple; if he has true feelings for you, you should know (!!! *sorry*). And if you have any doubt about it you will ask him, talk about it or as a typical Scorp-moon (= me) blame him indirectly of cheating per text (in any case, the risk of losing great sex is one you have to take)..

it always works for me. I can't live with that insecurity anymore, it's soo frustrating.
Well yes, once I could but my nerves became too old for that. Maturity is what they call it but it's just nature I tell you

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posted April 02, 2013 10:19 AM            

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Originally posted by starmoon:
sounds like a characteristic pisces - and 'not wanting a relationship' is actually a good thing for them... pisces like to yearn for people and martyr themselves, so if he believes he is doing that it probably makes him quite happy. oddly, they would rather be miserable apart than happy together. worst thing you can do is chase him for what you want... they just run off. and not to belittle anything you feel or have with him, but sex with any pisces is great .. they have a great spiritual nature and passion that seems to transcend anything - it's like that w/other pisces men too. my pisces makes me literally cry buckets during sex - pisces guys have a way of being deeply passionate, but they also know what they want and if he wanted you badly enough you'd be more than FWB. post a synastry chart for you/him in Personal Readings - it might shed light on other aspects of the relationship and dynamics that aren't making it work out well

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posted April 02, 2013 10:23 AM            

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Originally posted by so square:
life is what happens when you're busy making other plans. go for it. there is no wrong decision. it's hard enough to find love as it is. you seem to love him. he seems to love you. tomorrow, you may both feel different. enjoy today.

and don't rely too much on astrology. most of it us a load of bs you know.

sam.

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posted April 02, 2013 10:25 AM            

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Originally posted by starmoon:
it's ok that skeptics are here ... astrology is like any branch of science or study - some people will buy into it and others will not... and various theories abound, some of which might be proven over time and others which are just speculation and guesses :-)

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I use it along with knowing a person and their background but from my experience the personality traits are rarely wrong. I seem to attract Scorpio, Capricorn and Taurus. This man is my first Pisces experience so I am still learning.

posted April 02, 2013 01:24 PM            

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My feeling is that he does have feelings for me but that he is avoiding the storm that will come from his mothers child.. I have felt this for a long time but I didn't know if I was caught in something real or if this was just the way he is. I am afraid of saying too much to him because I dont want him to swim away, he has enough pressure as it is.

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posted April 02, 2013 01:50 PM            

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Originally posted by sunflower-moon:
Yeah, you should definitely post your synastry info! That would help a lot. I'm kind of interested to see it lol.

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posted April 02, 2013 01:52 PM            

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Originally posted by mir:
I understand. Yes, if he has a lot of baggage you can't expect more than he's already giving. And if you can deal with that, no problem. But if you catch yourself too often on doubts about him it might be because you feel he isn't able to give you the future you need/want. I'm thinking about a ticking biological clock for example and those are truly serious matters. Just looking at your age you know.
I broke up with pisces-ex because *we* couldn't give each other what we really wanted from life, expected from life.
And the worst or maybe saddest thing of life is that it's almost *impossible* to cut out those expectations you have from life, even when there's nothing you wish more. And in case you *will* sacrifice yourself there will always be somehow a dissatisfaction *PLUS* an expectation from the one you did this for.
Pisces seems so aware of this all ... the fact that in most cases there's simply *no-way-out*, which makes it so very hard for him to pin down on anything.
This is how I see Pisces + my experience with Pisces + my own 12th house sun speaking.

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posted April 02, 2013 02:02 PM            

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Originally posted by starfairy:
Is your Venus in the early degrees of Virgo?

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I think I may have read it wrong, my Birthday is on the 7th and Virgo enters on the 9th. Prior to that it is in Leo starting on June 6th.

posted April 02, 2013 03:50 PM            

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Originally posted by so square:
it's entertainment. that's why i'm here. and i don't close my mind to anything (that works both ways you know - you might even say it's the gemini way - to see things from both sides of your fence). can i ask you, just what exactly was wrong with my initial advice before this thread went awry?

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So, let me get this straight. You aren't close-minded to astrology, but you think it's "bullsh**t" and told everybody here to stop using it, and doing so is entertaining to you.

posted April 02, 2013 03:52 PM            

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Originally posted by gen75:
I think I may have read it wrong, my Birthday is on the 7th and Virgo enters on the 9th. Prior to that it is in Leo starting on June 6th.

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Huh?