posted April 04, 2013 10:07 AM            

Am I the only one who thinks cutting hair is a sign of sexual submission?

posted April 04, 2013 10:50 AM            

Only 2 months ago i started talking with a guy and went off to meet him... only to sit there for an hour while he tells me his favourite positions and moving closer znd closer till i just want to gut him for such rudeness.

But i kept the libran smile and ran off from him the moment i had the opportunity...after that i found out some nasty things about him too...bad history

But i have faith that some men out there are much better from this kind of freaks and il definetly find one

posted July 03, 2013 11:23 PM            

Thing is plenty of women are seen as interested, sexual, etc, just for being nice, and plenty of men believe that women who attract him are doing it on purpose. The most extreme case I encountered was a drunk guy complaining about how 10-year-olds were always trying to seduce him, but no one else. And I read in the Malleus Maleficarum where 2 Dominicans claimed if a man lusted for a woman then she put that lust there on purpose.

I've sure been accused of leading men on enough times when it didn't even occur to me to think of them that way, and I have a Libra Venus.

It's true that every Scorpio Venus I know either has at least once displayed and/or received what I consider an unhealthy sexual obsession, many of them with a history of it, but I'm not convinced its their Scorpio Venus doing it as it's not limited to them.

posted July 04, 2013 02:46 PM            

I actually had a guy pretend to be into me for weeks, we slept together, and then he said (afterwards) that I was a great FRIEND. He then proceeded to give me a bro hug and walk me towards the door.

I asked him to clarify because I thought we were dating (we had gone on dates) and he said he was sorry for the mixed signals, but he didn't find me physically attractive.

SAY WHAT?!!

I went off on him and told him his little soldier sure was attracted to me because he had a major stiffy for me and he was the one that seduced me/initiated the sex!!!

What the ....... is that crap ?!

posted July 04, 2013 02:51 PM            

When I was 12 (just 12!!!) I started getting sexual advances from older men. My stepfather threatened the lives of many and punched many in the face too.

posted July 04, 2013 03:34 PM            

I can relate to unwanted attention and it is especially creepy since so much of it comes from older guys. Normally, that wouldn't be a problem, since I'm into older guys (Venus trine Saturn, whoops) but it's NOT OKAY when I'm barely legal and they're in their 40s and 50s.

Especially because I certainly don't look older than my age. If anything, I look significantly younger - very petite build, big eyes, BRACES.

When I was a high school senior, a guy started flirting with me at the library while I was wearing my potato-sack school uniform with baggy sweatpants and an over-sized sweatshirt. He mentioned he was in his 20s, but as the conversation dragged on, I mentioned that I was in high school, and he mentioned that I looked like I could be a FRESHMAN.

Why would a 20-something be hitting on a freshman???

posted July 04, 2013 03:38 PM            

I’m knee deep in Scorpio placements (including Scorpio Venus) but they’re all in the 6th House. All that sexual energy is frozen by the 6th’s sternness and seriousness. The sexual and seductive advances are not explicit at all. In fact I seem to repel and intimidate others.

posted July 04, 2013 04:18 PM            

venus scorpio conjunct pluto all in 8th house and with my aries rising it just probably intensifys it haha i have no idea but sex motivates me for a looooottttt of things in life, like i really only want to do sexy things or only get interested in things that are appealing in some way hahah idk how to explain it ovbiously but yea, unwanted attention everyday all day but it seems like its never from the guy i want it from :'( theyre probably intimidated, i hear a lot people assume ive had sex a lot but when i tell them my number. hm shocker!!!!

somebody mentioned something about aries and their vibe, idk its hot definately but it just seems like immature playing around, like ugh idk theres just something about that scorpio energy!!!!! it seriously sucks you in. i have a friend with scorp mars and she is just so fine compared to my other friend who has aries mars, her energy is more dry energetic but she seems a lil naive and just annoying at times hardly any standards its pretty much non existent. either that or shes just into weird lookin people lololol, scorp is just always so damn sexy!!!! powerhouse

posted July 04, 2013 05:44 PM            

To see how disturbing it gets...
http://www.racialicious.com/2008/12/21/original-essay-the-not-rape-epidemic

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Not rape was all those other little things that we experienced everyday and struggled to learn how to deal with those situations. In those days, my ears were filled with secrets that were not my own, the confessions of not rapes experienced by the girls I knew then and the women I know now.

When I was twelve, my best friend at the time had met a guy and lied to him about her age. She told him she was sixteen and she did have the body to back it up. Some “poor hapless” guy sleeping with her accidentally would make complete sense – except for the fact that guy was twenty-five. He eventually slept with her, taking her virginity, even after he figured out how old we were. After all, it’s kind of a dead giveaway if you’re picking your girlfriend up at a middle school.

Another friend of mine friend shocked me one day after a guy (man really) walked past us and she broke down into a sobbing heap where we stood. She confided in me that when she was eleven she had a child, but her mother had forced her to put the child up for adoption. The baby’s father was the guy who had nonchalantly passed her by on the street. We were thirteen at the time, a few weeks shy of entering high school.

Later, I found out that she was at school when she met her future abuser/baby daddy. He was aware she was about eleven – what other age group is enrolled in Middle School? At the time, this guy was about nineteen. He strung her along in this grand relationship fantasy, helping her to cut school as they drove around and had sex in the back of his car. When she got pregnant with his child, he dropped her. However, living in the same area means she would run into him about once a month, normally leading to an outburst of tears or screaming fits on her end and cool indifference (with the occasional “you were just a **** anyway”) from him.

In high school, I had two Asian friends I was fairly close with. We would often end up hanging out after school at the mall with all the other teenagers our age. Occasionally, we would take the bus to the really nice mall in the upper class neighborhood, so we could be broke in style. It was there – in the affluent neighborhood – that my Asian friends dealt with the worst of their harassment. I can remember that each friend, on different occasions, was approached by older white men in their thirties and forties and quizzed about their ethnic backgrounds, ages, and dating status. These men always seemed to slip cards into their hands, asking them to call them later. My friends smiled demurely, always waiting until the man had gone before throwing their number away.

The years kept passing and the stories kept coming

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posted July 09, 2013 07:46 AM            

I, on the contrary, don't have any aspect to ASC and I have Virgo Sun so from my experience, I'm far from being attractive and hot. A friend once said that only my unknown soul mate could see my sexiness. lol I also have it conjunct Pluto.

The intensity and deep feelings of Scorpio are there. But it seems it is me who is attracted to unavailable people.

posted June 28, 2014 01:37 PM            

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Originally posted by WarriorPrincess7:
is venus in the 8th the same as scorp. venus? same effect? I have it and relate to all your posts

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It's not the same. Venus is the energy, the sign is how the energy works and the house is where it works. You may relate but it's not the same, the sign would more powerful.

posted June 28, 2014 04:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Azurenite:
I have Scorpio Venus, Sun trine my ascendent. I've managed to align the vibe/magnetism, whatever you want to call it, and make it come out more light-hearted - sort of. I still get intense on occasion but I hate it when it drives people away, so for me I make fun of it in a way. Try not to take other people's reactions too seriously.

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I have a Scorp venus/conj asc and over time the intensity has mellowed, or maybe it just suits my age better than an intense teen/20 something, iykwim.

posted June 28, 2014 05:31 PM            

have to try its just "there" i love the energy and i usually seem to attract scorpio venus myself probly cuz of my scorp sun and mars/moon pluto action lol but i feel like

posted June 28, 2014 05:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
It's not the same. Venus is the energy, the sign is how the energy works and the house is where it works. You may relate but it's not the same, the sign would more powerful.

Mine is at 1 degree and I attract people like moths to a flame. Old, young, creepy, weird, any and everything. Complete unwanted attention all of the time.

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posted June 30, 2014 03:00 AM            

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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
I have a Scorp venus/conj asc and over time the intensity has mellowed, or maybe it just suits my age better than an intense teen/20 something, iykwim.

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