posted April 02, 2013 03:48 AM            

do they come off as having strong sexual vibe?

i feel like this is definately a karmic position in the natal since it seems no matter what people view us as sex objects...

starting to think this is more bad than good unless somebody else can match us and understand

i have this placement and ill never forget one time i was trying to get to know someone, just talking, and he randomly asked me why i thought i was a sex
object......it really hurt me, i was wearing
no makeup, hair was pulled up, wearin baggy clothes, i definately wasn't looking slutty...it had to be my "vibe"

not only that but it seems all my life ive attracted unwanted attention, especially from older men, blatantly staring to the point i stare back and we start having a staring contest lol, i would get to the point id start to make really ugly faces on purpose so guys would stop staring, stalkers, bad reputation in middle school ( whole different story ) just on and on, just seems people like to judge me negative first then they get to know me and find out im sweet and actually LOYAL...god, i feel like this even interferes with girlfriends, attracting lesbians, or girls not wanting to be friends/distant, cause dont trust me, judge me think im "sexual" who friggin knows

posted April 02, 2013 04:27 AM            

I'm a male Venus Scorpio for the record. I've had three married women tell me they had feelings for me, I'm still pretty young too. I was just being my normal self, I don't particularly feel like I go around draping myself over furniture or trying to be 'sexy' but maybe it is just that. It's that not trying to be sexy, actually makes you sexier. I have been asked all sorts of, suggestive questions, and those you wouldn't find in every day conversation between two people.
I don't think it is wrong, I'm just surprised and need a bit of time to figure out where this came from.

Astrology always bangs on about Scorpios' being the sexually transformative sign. Maybe they are, maybe they aren't. However, it could be the Scorpio general interest in sex as a means for transformation that subtly draws these people in.

I would say it's a mixture of these things actually happening, and our perception that these things must be happening. So half of it is real, the other half we live on our minds.

- Chris

posted April 02, 2013 07:57 AM            

i think scorpios fascination with sex shines through...only if u have venus scorpio, maybe moon

cause sex is like our number one thing how we express our love...thats why i think this is karmic, its detriment, its lust, selfish, love-hate, unless you are evolved i think scorpio love becomes pure and unconditional

i read once scorpios are sexy without trying cause they have this calm confident aura, yet have this fire in them that peopl can sense

posted April 03, 2013 12:53 AM            

foxxyxo: "i read once scorpios are sexy without trying cause they have this calm confident aura"

This makes sense to me. I'm not overtly sexual, I don't wear tight or "hot" clothing by any means, and although I'm pretty self-conscious, at the end of the day I kind of don't care what people think of me....love me or hate me, it won't make a big difference because I choose who matters. I think, though, that this sort of behavior is just plain attractive to either of the sexes: apathy drives us mad as human beings, makes us want a person treating us that way that much more...you wanna feel like you can "win" someone over. You also mentioned stalkers....I have had my fair share of guys who just don't get the hint and are intensely persistent, and I've even had several that reeeeeeally toed the line on stalker-status...I'm not sure if Venus Scorp is at play here as a placement that inherently attracts this sort of conduct, but maybe that sort of aloof, detached energy is something that the placement/trine aspect to it might manifest in natives, behaviorally...meaning that simply our cool indifference makes people wild over us.

Swift Freeze: "I have been asked all sorts of, suggestive questions, and those you wouldn't find in every day conversation between two people."

I get that crap all the time too. Men, for some reason completely unbeknownst to me, think it's okay to ask me really sexual things, and often really soon after meeting me (i.e. totally inappropriate!). I don't even do anything that would prompt these sorts of questions or comments, and they used to catch me off-guard a lot of the time, but I'm just used to it now.

posted April 03, 2013 11:24 AM            

I am ok looking, but I´m definitely not an attention seeker, and lately I´ve even cut my hair really short in order to repell guys (Yes, I don´t want to be approached, especially for my looks), and it´s gotten even worse.

I get harrassed at uni, and lately my crush has been teasing me too, even though I know he liked me at one point. In other words I attract bullies, and even the guys who like me end up hating me for some reason.

posted April 03, 2013 11:24 AM            

jeez...

posted April 03, 2013 11:29 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
are you'll complaining about being incredibly sexually attractive?

jeez...

all those people who spend fortunes to be sexually attractive are rolling their eyes now.

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Are we though? That sexually attractive, I mean? I think it´s just the weirdos who findus sexy. Most normal guys (wich I´m interested in having a relationship with) are scared of approaching me.

I´m not complaining about attracting guys, I´m complaining about attracting the WRONG guys!

posted April 03, 2013 01:19 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by Orange:
are you'll complaining about being incredibly sexually attractive?

jeez...

all those people who spend fortunes to be sexually attractive are rolling their eyes now.

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lol Kind of frustrating when Venus in Scorpio just wants to be appreciated for what is inside though. Physically attractive or not, we are magnetic and it is relatively rare to find people who are capable of seeing us beyond that magnetism.

We suffer from "well if you didn't want the attention, you shouldn't have warn the skimpy dress" in sweatpants and no makeup (and God forbid we go outside looking nice). For those of us who are not super models, watching others who are not physically attracted to us struggle with our magnetism is an interesting experience. In some cases it can even result in hostility. Being sexually attractive is nice, but not being able to turn it off is a bit of an ordeal.

Imagine exuding sexual attractiveness in the following places:

Work
Place of spiritual practice/worship
At the doctor's office
Around in-laws
Doing charity work
Getting a massage

etc...

posted April 03, 2013 06:28 PM            

i relate to what everybody says...i attract people with same intensity as me, but they alwaya tend to have some type of problem. just not ur average joe lol which im totally fine with cause im in no way average myself....but its just the unwanted attention that really bothers me about this placement

being around family, work, gym, school everywhere can get uncomfortable..not like im giving anyone the "eye" lol hell no, just comes and
comes aggressively

other night i had to literally run out of the gym i go to cause this guy wouldnt take
no for an answer...he
kept trying to talk to me and i kept telling him i wasnt interested, and he refused....what the hell lol

posted April 03, 2013 06:44 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by foxxyxo:
hm makes me wonder, does aries asc have a sexual magnetism aspect to it as well? ovby not as intense but is there a degree of it you think
anybody?

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posted April 03, 2013 06:50 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by Xiiro:
lol Kind of frustrating when Venus in Scorpio just wants to be appreciated for what is inside though. Physically attractive or not, we are magnetic and it is relatively rare to find people who are capable of seeing us beyond that magnetism.

We suffer from "well if you didn't want the attention, you shouldn't have warn the skimpy dress" in sweatpants and no makeup (and God forbid we go outside looking nice). For those of us who are not super models, watching others who are not physically attracted to us struggle with our magnetism is an interesting experience. In some cases it can even result in hostility. Being sexually attractive is nice, but not being able to turn it off is a bit of an ordeal.

Imagine exuding sexual attractiveness in the following places:

Work
Place of spiritual practice/worship
At the doctor's office
Around in-laws
Doing charity work
Getting a massage

etc...

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posted April 03, 2013 08:23 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
well thats because sexual attraction is all about looks, you cant just get rid of good looks. well you could but that would require letting yourself go. Even though I could kind of see how getting all that attention could get annoying I would still say getting too much attention is better than not getting any at all.

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Sexual attraction is definitely not only about looks. The archetype of attraction (Venus) can manifest in any sign and therefor the variety by which a person can be attracted to a given thing is dynamic. You state the problem as "too much attention" but the actual problem is "unwanted attention brought about by uncontrollable circumstances".

It's like walking around with a huge birth mark across one's face that says "Hey Baby" and absolutely EVERYONE you meet assumes you are trying to flirt with them. Occasionally, you meet a creeper who has a thing for people with huge birth marks across their face and he is convinced you are his soul mate. But you're not, because you have no control over the fact that your birth mark happens to spell "Hey Baby".

posted April 03, 2013 09:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Hot girl problems..

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Something like this, it does sort of work the same way for men as well.

I'm not a gorgeous man so to speak, but, and it is a huge but, Sun Trine Asc and Scorpio Venus/Mars/Jupiter and Venus sq Moon means I tend to be the "dark" to others "light".

A good friend in that milleu explained to me he only wants to date "the top 3%" meaning fitness models.

And believe me when I say, that is not unusual.

Do agree with the women though, having someone just throw themselves at you is just off putting.

posted April 03, 2013 09:49 PM              

I remember last summer at the beach and I wore tight tight short shorts (I forget what they're called, NOT speedos)
and I got a positive response overall even if it was ridiculously revealing.

posted April 03, 2013 10:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
I was just kidding.
Well in my experience men can get away with being oversexed. I do feel bad for op since prudish people judge her for her sexed up persona.

I remember last summer at the beach and I wore tight tight short shorts (I forget what they're called, NOT speedos)
and I got a positive response overall even if it was ridiculously revealing.

I have venus on the asc (and second dominant planet) and honestly It seems I can get away with murder, I've never been held accountable for my own actions in my entire life.
Also venus is in fall in scorpio so perhaps it is difficult for them in many ways.

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Oh sure, to me the reality is people, men or women, (most)adore attention, even if it comes with sexual strings attached

Though have come to learn that praise is a form of control ie, "we like that, don't change it or we may not like it (and you) any longer"

I knew a quite beautiful young Venus in Scorpio woman who literally shaved her head just b/c the attention was so overwhelming for her.

Reason why I bring that up is most just assume that being attractive is this wonderful thing all of the time, it's not, it can become a burden.

INOW, careful what one wishes for.

posted April 04, 2013 12:58 AM            

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Originally posted by bridgetostars23:
Haha, Padre, I shaved my head for sort of the same reasons. Perhaps my Venus in Scorpio was why.

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Exactly, and she is now a dear friend of mine who did grow it back out (and is indeed quite lovely).

When she had it shaved we'd speak Mandarin and have been friends ever since.

Quite young, maybe 20 now, thought it rude to ask of of a friend tbh.

For me the spikes and skirts or toney dressing, is all fun, but it does get to be a bit annoying after a time.

When one appears to be sex on a stick that is how one is viewed..and Venus in Scorpio knows it and can feel it.

My underlying point is, men can feel it as well, the smile held a bit too long, excuses to be around etc. The empathy of Scorpio is there for women and men.

posted April 04, 2013 10:00 AM            

The good thing about it though is that scorpio mars will work even harder to prove themselves. That´s why you see so meny men with this sign who are very ambitious and sucessful.

Idk if the same goes for venus in scorpio. I´ll be honest, all the venus in scorpio women I know (including myself) seem to be a bit of emotional wrecks. Not speaking for all wome nthough!