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Topic: Can you even be romantic to an Aquarius Venus?
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virgolotus Knowflake Posts: 1082 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 02, 2013 04:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by ail221: What about watching a few good movies and order some of his favorite food and yours then giving him a altoids after he's finished eating so you don't taste the food. LOL
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StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 610 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 02, 2013 04:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by virgolotus: Wow! Perfect you can give me the scoop.. Is your aunt still single? What does she typically like when on dates? If she isn't single.. what's the story of how she fell in love~
If your friend is anything like my Aunt, the way to his heart is to be a really good friend, listen to him, talk to him, be chatty and supportive. This is how my Aunt's friends are. She has a group of friends she has known since college and she is still in touch with them and they socialize together. She never married because she has a PhD and was hoping for a Doctor or someone with a PhD and never got lucky. She does have friends from college she cherishes still and sees them all the time and they mean the world to her. Maybe the one you like is similar to how she is? Might not be the same house placings so he could be more into dating instead of those friendly social gatherings, especially if Venus falls in houses 4, 7 and perhaps 8. IP: Logged |
moonlightx Knowflake Posts: 86 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted April 02, 2013 04:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by virgolotus: I gave him a bouquet of sunflowers for his b-day and he totally digged it Yeah nothing big.. more like, he thinks he's going to lunch or whatever with a friend but instead it's with meeeee hahaha and I'm there looking all sexy with some kind of exotic flower.. eh? yey or nay? then after we go lay in some hidden place I know of with a body of water and stargaze~
Aww you sound so sweet. I like that idea. The only thing I'd say is, because he thinks he's going out with a friend, he may not fix himself up as nicely or whatever. But I don't know if that'd be a problem or would matter to him. I just like to try to look my best when I'm with a romantic interest. Otherwise, the hidden spot with the water and stargaze sounds perfect. IP: Logged |
virgolotus Knowflake Posts: 1082 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 02, 2013 04:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: If your friend is anything like my Aunt, the way to his heart is to be a really good friend, listen to him, talk to him, be chatty and supportive. This is how my Aunt's friends are. She has a group of friends she has known since college and she is still in touch with them and they socialize together. She never married because she has a PhD and was hoping for a Doctor or someone with a PhD and never got lucky. She does have friends from college she cherishes still and sees them all the time and they mean the world to her.Maybe the one you like is similar to how she is? Might not be the same house placings so he could be more into dating instead of those friendly social gatherings, especially if Venus falls in houses 4, 7 and perhaps 8.
WOW -.- This totally sounds like him... he's going to study Biochemistry. Ugh IP: Logged |
virgolotus Knowflake Posts: 1082 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 02, 2013 05:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by moonlightx: Aww you sound so sweet.I like that idea. The only thing I'd say is, because he thinks he's going out with a friend, he may not fix himself up as nicely or whatever. But I don't know if that'd be a problem or would matter to him. I just like to try to look my best when I'm with a romantic interest. Otherwise, the hidden spot with the water and stargaze sounds perfect.
He always looks good so it doesn't matter to me.. I doubt it will to him. IP: Logged |
virgolotus Knowflake Posts: 1082 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 02, 2013 05:37 PM
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starmoon Knowflake Posts: 497 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted April 02, 2013 06:44 PM
my long-term bf is aqua sun and 0 degree aqua venus and i have 7 planets in libra, so i'm super romantic, but it doesn't always resonate with him. aqua venus and libra venus are quite different b/c aqua venus is just not romantic in the traditional/libra way. from what i've noted about my aqua guy, he hates surprises. he can be very loving/romantic, but it takes forever to come out so don't expect much for months, even years :-) think outside the box for your dates - nothing traditional, go for more unique outings, like art galleries, local fairs/events, shooting range, piantball, open-mic places, etc. - just think differently - they really are unique and respond to thoughtful dates over super-romantic ones. as a libra i have to say he's rather 'cold' sometimes, at least from my perspetive. flowers and candy and those trappings are lost on him :-) gifts that have gone over well were engraved items, items for the home/personal use, things for the car, and gadgetsIP: Logged |
Venusian Moon Knowflake Posts: 288 From: Nyc Registered: Feb 2013
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posted April 02, 2013 10:27 PM
Ughhh stay away. They are too complicated.
------------------ Gemini sun 12th Cancer asc 1st Taurus moon 11th Taurus venus 11th Libra mars 3rd Gemini mercury 11th IP: Logged |
virgolotus Knowflake Posts: 1082 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 02, 2013 10:30 PM
Lol my Gemini Mars is having second thoughts...eh IP: Logged |
freebrainstorms Knowflake Posts: 848 From: Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 03, 2013 11:06 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ceridwen:
She once told me the story of how they first met, and what made them aware they were "special" to each other. They met in a disco, but soon left the crowd and sat in his car, discussing the Vietnam war almost all night. Well, I am sure, she was silent about some things that night, but these are my parents, I DON`T WANT TO KNOW!
Lol oh man! Aqua sun/mercury here and that would SOO get me too, provided I was physically attracted to them hehehe IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 374 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted April 03, 2013 11:22 AM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: If your friend is anything like my Aunt, the way to his heart is to be a really good friend, listen to him, talk to him, be chatty and supportive. This is how my Aunt's friends are. She has a group of friends she has known since college and she is still in touch with them and they socialize together.
^^^^^ THIS My mom and my BBF are both Aquas with Venus in Aqua conjunct their Suns. Both are romantic in a sense described above. Mom has been in love with my father for about 40 years now and never fell out of love with him. ( Her Venus conjuncts his Sun/Venus/Mercury). That's romantic. They are each other's best friend. Constantly together.
My Aqua BBF with Aqua Venus has been in love with her hubs for 12 years now but he recently cheated with the secretary so i guess they are heading to divorce, she told me. She is very loyal, very dependable, kind of conservative, she likes to be swept off her feet. IP: Logged |
FireMoon Knowflake Posts: 728 From: Minnesota Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 03, 2013 03:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by virgolotus: then after we go lay in some hidden place I know of with a body of water and stargaze~
Just thought I'd say, I'm an Aqua Venus and I would totally love this!! As for the lunch part, I'm not huge on surprises in general but if it's something cute like that I would definitely appreciate the gesture... Also, I think generally Aqua Venus isn't that complicated, we can seem aloof at first which might be unsettling to someone who wants immediate emotional reassurance, but really we just want to know we'll be compatible with someone beyond just emotions based off of physical attraction before we really open our hearts, and then we are as mushy as the rest.. at least for me. You said he's a Pisces Sun, Scorpio Moon? That is probably where the complicated is coming from, and I can't really help with that since water signs seem to be my downfall lol. Also in my experience leo mars can be generous but also a tad bit.. self centered lol so I think appealing to his Aqua Venus with any shared interests, beliefs, etc. you guys have is a good idea. Get him lost in conversation and make him see you can be his friend too not just someone to "have fun" with lol Do you know what house his Venus is in? I think that plays a part too.. like mine is in the 8th so my need to be detached clashes with my need for intensity, and someone who knew that about me could probably use it to their advantage lol IP: Logged |
virgolotus Knowflake Posts: 1082 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 03, 2013 03:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by FireMoon: Just thought I'd say, I'm an Aqua Venus and I would totally love this!! As for the lunch part, I'm not huge on surprises in general but if it's something cute like that I would definitely appreciate the gesture...Also, I think generally Aqua Venus isn't that complicated, we can seem aloof at first which might be unsettling to someone who wants immediate emotional reassurance, but really we just want to know we'll be compatible with someone beyond just emotions based off of physical attraction before we really open our hearts, and then we are as mushy as the rest.. at least for me. You said he's a Pisces Sun, Scorpio Moon? That is probably where the complicated is coming from, and I can't really help with that since water signs seem to be my downfall lol. Also in my experience leo mars can be generous but also a tad bit.. self centered lol so I think appealing to his Aqua Venus with any shared interests, beliefs, etc. you guys have is a good idea. Get him lost in conversation and make him see you can be his friend too not just someone to "have fun" with lol Do you know what house his Venus is in? I think that plays a part too.. like mine is in the 8th so my need to be detached clashes with my need for intensity, and someone who knew that about me could probably use it to their advantage lol
Change of plans.. I'm taking him to some place called the Planetarium and they have light shows and play weird music and have some huge screen... It's like a glass pyramid. Lololol sounds pretty Aquaish IP: Logged |
FireMoon Knowflake Posts: 728 From: Minnesota Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 03, 2013 04:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by virgolotus: Change of plans.. I'm taking him to some place called the Planetarium and they have light shows and play weird music and have some huge screen... It's like a glass pyramid. Lololol sounds pretty Aquaish
Haha nice, that does sound pretty fun and should definitely win you points for being unique! IP: Logged |
tgem Knowflake Posts: 137 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted April 03, 2013 04:32 PM
My SO is both sun and venus in aquarius. He likes anything spontaneous, quirky, wants someone free-spirited who will try anything...as far as loving goes..they love it if there's an element of risk involvedIP: Logged |
Ceridwen Knowflake Posts: 5916 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted April 03, 2013 04:35 PM
Oh I love the planetarium. I am usually going there once a year, or every other year. (my Aqua Moon?)And yes I remember, we first went there on a family trip, and my Dad enjoyed it very much as did the other members of our family; only my mum fell asleep in that chair, but she enjoyed her nap at least IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 6432 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 03, 2013 04:43 PM
people talk about us (people with aqua placements) like we are robots. of course we can appreciate romance.hahaIP: Logged |
virgolotus Knowflake Posts: 1082 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 03, 2013 05:03 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: people talk about us (people with aqua placements) like we are robots. of course we can appreciate romance.haha
Nope. Maybe YOU can since you're Taurus something, right? IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 4342 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted April 03, 2013 05:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by virgolotus: He's a Pisces Sun with a SCORPIO MOON -_-I try to romance him but it doesn't seem to work all that much. My Venus in Libra can't help but be a hopeless romantic... Any ideas on what I could do to charm him? Flowers don't really work all that well.
Pisces suns are so hard to buy presents for!!! In my experience. Actually I am going to start a thread on this for more feedback.... Here! http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/218932.html IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 6432 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 03, 2013 05:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by virgolotus: Nope. Maybe YOU can since you're Taurus something, right?
Yea,taurus moon. IP: Logged |
virgolotus Knowflake Posts: 1082 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 03, 2013 05:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: Pisces suns are so hard to buy presents for!!!In my experience. Actually I am going to start a thread on this for more feedback.... Here! http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/218932.html
Lol I once got him sunflowers and I didn't have a card so I just ripped a piece off a paper and wrote: "Happy Birthday -(my name)" In the most sloppiest writing/way ever. He called me months later and said he kept the little paper the whole time lol. I bet he totally blew off the flowers and just kept the small note.. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 568 From: Poland/Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 03, 2013 06:01 PM
I don't consider myself unromantic ------------------ Do you have some chocolate? IP: Logged |
Barbee Knowflake Posts: 230 From: Buffalo, NY, USA Registered: Mar 2013
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posted April 03, 2013 06:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by virgolotus: How can you romance them? Aqua Venus girls and boys please give me feedback on what you like??WHAT WOULD YOUR IDEAL DATE BE LIKE? FAVORITE FLOWERS? NO FLOWERS? GIFTS YOU'D LIKE? I'm a Venus in Libra, can't help it^
My son has Venus in Aquarius. He is very romantic, especially when it comes to buying gifts. He is a great and romantic gift giver. A lot depends on the aspects to Venus. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 5120 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted April 03, 2013 07:11 PM
Aquarius Venus man here. But I have no idea what part of me is Aquarius because I'm predominantly a Capricorn, which has a tendency to contradict everything an Aquarius is. I don't want to mislead you, but would happy to answer specific questions if you like. IP: Logged |
virgolotus Knowflake Posts: 1082 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 03, 2013 08:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: Aquarius Venus man here. But I have no idea what part of me is Aquarius because I'm predominantly a Capricorn, which has a tendency to contradict everything an Aquarius is. I don't want to mislead you, but would happy to answer specific questions if you like.
Yes you're very Cappy!! Okay, what attracted you to your wife besides the fact that she's gorgeous! What music do you like? Food? Hobbies? IP: Logged |