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Topic: Why am I so mean and rude?
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goatcat
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posted April 05, 2013 02:30 AM
  
And bossy?
Is it my sun? Moon? Maybe both.
I think it's my Scorpio Moon...
I've been called mean all my life. My family used to joke around comparing me to Angelica from Rugrats.
Does a Capricorn sun/Scorpio moon call for a bossy b*tch? People are always drawn back by my speech, they say I bark orders.
When my boyfriend is trying to let me know that I'm being mean, he'll respond in a way like, "Is that good enough for the queen?". Sometimes I get off an such a response. It makes me feel like I have an effect on him, like I'm whipping his attention towards me in a cunning way.
When I'm interacting with customers at work, they are often offended by me because I make them feel stupid.
They tend to ask me questions that I don't know the answer to like, "Will this shrink when Iwash it?". In my head I'm thinkin, "I don't know lady, I work here but I don't shop here!". My attempts to answer such questions in a nicer way usually fail... I am also very moody. IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent
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posted April 05, 2013 02:40 AM
Yeeeeesssss, me and my Cancer friend were joking around and talking like, "what if our charts were opposite"I'd be a Taurus with Leo Moon, and she'd be a Capricorn with Scorpio Moon and her words were almost exactly "omg I'd be such a b*tch!"  IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted April 05, 2013 02:41 AM
I can't believe it! You are always so nice on Lindaland!! I would never guess anyone to call you mean and rude in real life.IP: Logged |
virgolotus
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posted April 05, 2013 03:03 AM
My sister is a bossy b***h but she has a very strong Mars which I think that's what makes her like that for some reason. She does have a Cap Moon, though~I have a Cap Moon and a Scorpio Asc.. some people call me mean sometimes but it's only because they just don't get my sense of humor.  IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
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posted April 05, 2013 03:38 AM
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Originally posted by goatcat:
And bossy?
Is it my sun? Moon? Maybe both.
I think it's my Scorpio Moon...
I've been called mean all my life. My family used to joke around comparing me to Angelica from Rugrats.
Does a Capricorn sun/Scorpio moon call for a bossy b*tch? People are always drawn back by my speech, they say I bark orders.
When my boyfriend is trying to let me know that I'm being mean, he'll respond in a way like, "Is that good enough for the queen?". Sometimes I get off an such a response. It makes me feel like I have an effect on him, like I'm whipping his attention towards me in a cunning way.
When I'm interacting with customers at work, they are often offended by me because I make them feel stupid.
They tend to ask me questions that I don't know the answer to like, "Will this shrink when Iwash it?". In my head I'm thinkin, "I don't know lady, I work here but I don't shop here!". My attempts to answer such questions in a nicer way usually fail... I am also very moody.
What are your Mercury and Jupiter aspects? IP: Logged |
Barbee
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Registered: Mar 2013
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posted April 05, 2013 10:20 AM
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Originally posted by goatcat:
And bossy?
Is it my sun? Moon? Maybe both.
I think it's my Scorpio Moon...
I've been called mean all my life. My family used to joke around comparing me to Angelica from Rugrats.
Does a Capricorn sun/Scorpio moon call for a bossy b*tch? People are always drawn back by my speech, they say I bark orders.
When my boyfriend is trying to let me know that I'm being mean, he'll respond in a way like, "Is that good enough for the queen?". Sometimes I get off an such a response. It makes me feel like I have an effect on him, like I'm whipping his attention towards me in a cunning way.
When I'm interacting with customers at work, they are often offended by me because I make them feel stupid.
They tend to ask me questions that I don't know the answer to like, "Will this shrink when Iwash it?". In my head I'm thinkin, "I don't know lady, I work here but I don't shop here!". My attempts to answer such questions in a nicer way usually fail... I am also very moody.
Mars might be the culprit. Where is it? Strong Mars or Aries people seldom have patience with people and tend to snap because of it. Also look to the ruler of your 7th house to see how others see you, while the 1st house is how you see yourself. IP: Logged |
ueharaa
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posted April 05, 2013 10:33 AM
From my experience and as a cap sun, moon myself, I think it's the cap sun. I was told when I was younger that I had a know it all attitude. Also caps are great at sarcasm and can be quite bossy.
But well do you find yourself mean when doing so?
My moon and venus are in the 7th so I always try to be diplomatic and extra polite until it gets on my nerves. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted April 05, 2013 10:39 AM
It's a combination of factors!Scorp/Cap influence and prominent Mars or afflicted Mercury, all kinds of things. Especially if there's Aries in there But I wonder, do you like being mean?
I just don't get rude people. IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted April 05, 2013 12:15 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I can't believe it! You are always so nice on Lindaland!! I would never guess anyone to call you mean and rude in real life.
Thanks. I would never be rude and mean to y'all. It's mostly those that are closest to me who feel my "sting".
Which is the sad part.
I work with a Scorpio moon that says she can never be mean to those closest to her. Sadly I'm the opposite. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted April 05, 2013 12:21 PM
You wouldn't be mean to me thou in real life, I'm too nice in person.
It would be like stabbing a baby.IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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posted April 05, 2013 12:22 PM
I think if people keep telling a person that the person is “mean and rude” then the person will start being mean and rude unless the person has strong sense of self and is self-motivated.IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted April 05, 2013 12:25 PM
Goatcat, I think you are wonderful!IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted April 05, 2013 12:25 PM
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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
What are your Mercury and Jupiter aspects?
Sun, Uranus, Neptune conjunct Mercury.
Mercury opposite Mars.
Mercury trine ascendant. --- Jupiter trine Saturn.
Jupiter square Uranus, Neptune, Mars.
Capricorn Sun, Mercury, Uranus, Neptune. All 4th House
Ascendant Virgo
Mars in Cancer Rx. Tenth house. Jupiter in Libra. First House.
Saturn in Aquarius. Fifth House. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted April 05, 2013 12:26 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
It would be like stabbing a baby.
omg! :dies laughing: Yeah, same here actually  Goatcat, it's usually easier to be mean to those closest to us because they know us better than others and have seen our "true colors" many times. And obviously we show our Moon more readily when we are with close ones such as family or best friends, so it makes sense that you'd show your Scorpio side around relatives, for example, and not so much in public or with acquaintances (not sure it works the same way for everyone but I definitely show my Moon more around family).
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Doux Rêve
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posted April 05, 2013 12:27 PM
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Originally posted by goatcat:
Mercury opposite Mars.
Bingo! IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted April 05, 2013 12:28 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
You wouldn't be mean to me thou in real life, I'm too nice in person.
It would be like stabbing a baby.
You're probably right. IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted April 05, 2013 12:28 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Bingo!
!!! Really??? IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted April 05, 2013 12:29 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Goatcat, I think you are wonderful!
 thank youuuu IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted April 05, 2013 12:33 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
omg! :dies laughing:Yeah, same here actually
LOL
I remember I got in a fight once and everyone was sooo made at him and shunned him because Its like hitting a puppy or something LOL. Thou I really did deserve getting punched, but in my defensive he's really bad at fighting.. I feel bad because all the cute girls would not talk to him. Do people tend to stick up for you too? IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
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posted April 05, 2013 12:33 PM
Capricorn women are naturally b$&(&?)------------------
Gemini sun 12th
Cancer asc 1st
Taurus moon 11th
Taurus venus 11th
Libra mars 3rd
Gemini mercury 11th IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted April 05, 2013 12:39 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
LOL
I remember I got in a fight once and everyone was sooo made at him and shunned him because Its like hitting a puppy or something LOL. Thou I really did deserve getting punched, but in my defensive he's really bad at fighting.. I feel bad because all the cute girls would not talk to him.Do people tend to stick up for you too?
lol! Believe it or not, I've never gotten in a fight! Except with my sister when I was a kid, but that doesn't count. So.. hard to tell. I guess people are usually on my side though, because I never want to start fights, I'm quite the peacemaker. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted April 05, 2013 12:40 PM
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Originally posted by goatcat:
!!! Really???
Haha well yes, Mercury in hard aspect to Mars can be quite explosive - especially in speech. Not surprising at all! IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted April 05, 2013 12:41 PM
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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
Capricorn women are naturally b$&(&?)
I think all women are naturally b$&(&?). IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted April 05, 2013 12:46 PM
Except for women with lots of Libra^ lol.IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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posted April 05, 2013 12:50 PM
This thread reminded me of Eminem’s song-The way I am.And I agree that Cappy women can be b#*>#%,I have a friend who has sun,mercury,mars,uranus,neptune in capricorn(all conj. each other) squaring her aries moon and I really doubt that anybody else can compete with her. I would blame your merc. opp. mars and scorpio moon.Your scorpio moon will scan the person and mercury opp. mars will just hit the person where it hurts the most. IP: Logged |
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