posted April 16, 2013 02:36 AM            

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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
Fair enough, but if you think I misunderstood what you said, it's probably because you weren't clear. You said "Neptune person" repeatedly in your initial post, then later said you weren't speaking of a "Neptune person" directly, even though that was what you'd said. You weren't clear, then say I misunderstood. Choose your words more carefully next time, please.

This lack of clarity seems fitting for a thread about Neptune. lol

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12th houser....you are hilarious you know that?

posted April 16, 2013 02:39 AM            

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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
Of those who read this thread and chose to respond. Who knows who else has read and disagrees with you but hasn't responded.

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posted April 16, 2013 02:45 AM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
12th houser....you are hilarious you know that?

I kinda like following your posts, there's something about you that I find hilarious.I don't know what that says about me though

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posted April 16, 2013 02:49 AM            

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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
Glad you were amused.

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posted April 16, 2013 02:55 AM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
Oh I was.

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posted April 16, 2013 03:01 AM            

"Have u been the planet person in a Neptune relationship? If so what happen..."

posted April 16, 2013 03:14 AM            

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Taurus won’t tick you off immediately. He’ll just keep your innumerable betrayals on his mental scoreboard. Then, when your quota’s up, he’ll dismiss you. Ruthlessly. This can get a bit confusing, because the last straw could be the fact you didn’t pick up the groceries on your way home. So you will go through life believing Taurus dropped you because you forgot the milk, not because you were having it off with his best friend

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Off-topic but I'm a Taurus moon. I act this way with everyone. It just boils and boils and if you don't know how to shape up on your own before I have to tell you then you're pretty much finished in my book.

posted April 16, 2013 03:23 AM            

With me he did the same but at the same time, he didn't completely let go and vacillates between that and borderline stalking me, crossing personal boundaries - classic Neptune. We have a lot of Saturn aspects in synastry and composite - some good, some bad - so I think that was what makes him kinda hold on to me in a weird, arm's-length way even though he decided he wanted out of the relationship.

Another weird thing is that at times we haven't even been on the same page about whether we were actually in a relationship at all. During times when he was refusing to even respond to my attempts to contact him and was avoiding me, I got mixed up with other guys, to find out in surprise later that he thought we were still "together" or a couple during that time, and he considered that as me having "cheated on" him. Despite the fact that, again, we weren't even speaking to each other because he was ignoring me, and was actually seeing other women himself during that time. Very Neptunian.

There's not a lot of Neptune in the composite, but there is in the synastry, and the whole interaction between he and I has had that quality - we've known each other, off and on, for about 13 years but never wound up together in a real, concrete, permanent relationship. We have a Venus-Saturn square in the synastry also in addition to all that Neptune activity to I blame that as well.

posted April 16, 2013 03:29 AM            

Venus square uranus 8 degree orb.

Neptune semisquare my asc 1 degree.

posted April 16, 2013 03:31 AM            

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Originally posted by Snorkel:
My first ex is strongly Neptunian. He doesn't formally and properly "end" relationships, whether platonic or romantic; he just starts ignoring people when they contact him and avoiding them. I've seen more than a few angry rants from females he's dropped cold like that. He has Venus in aspect to Uranus to so I think he falls in and out of like/love/fascination with people, very fast anyway and bores very easily.

With me he did the same but at the same time, he didn't completely let go and vacillates between that and borderline stalking me, crossing personal boundaries - classic Neptune. We have a lot of Saturn aspects in synastry and composite - some good, some bad - so I think that was what makes him kinda hold on to me in a weird, arm's-length way even though he decided he wanted out of the relationship.

Another weird thing is that at times we haven't even been on the same page about whether we were actually in a relationship at all. During times when he was refusing to even respond to my attempts to contact him and was avoiding me, I got mixed up with other guys, to find out in surprise later that he thought we were still "together" or a couple during that time, and he considered that as me having "cheated on" him. Despite the fact that, again, we weren't even speaking to each other because he was ignoring me, and was actually seeing other women himself during that time. Very Neptunian.

There's not a lot of Neptune in the composite, but there is in the synastry, and the whole interaction between he and I has had that quality - we've known each other, off and on, for about 13 years but never wound up together in a real, concrete, permanent relationship. We have a Venus-Saturn square in the synastry also in addition to all that Neptune activity to I blame that as well.

When it comes down to actually trying to make something real happen, I'm the one that's open to it and he's the one that keeps digging his heels in the sand, and goes and dates/spends time with, other women instead. In the last few days and weeks he's toddled off in the direction of his latest fantasy and I've actually started to realize that we'll probably never TRULY end up together. I'm making my peace with it all; he wore me out so I almost don't even care anymore lmao.

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posted April 16, 2013 03:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
<<<<<<< Venus trine neptune exact

Venus square uranus 8 degree orb.

Neptune semisquare my asc 1 degree.

I 've had two relationships, both were perfect synastries and such. Both didn't work.Planets end relatioships when you are not meant to be with that person,same planets could make it work if you are meant to be together. My take.

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posted April 16, 2013 03:34 AM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Jessica2407:
[b]<<<<<<< Venus trine neptune exact

Venus square uranus 8 degree orb.

Neptune semisquare my asc 1 degree.

I 've had two relationships, both were perfect synastries and such. Both didn't work.Planets end relatioships when you are not meant to be with that person,same planets could make it work if you are meant to be together. My take.

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Really??

posted April 16, 2013 03:38 AM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
Really??

Do tell what's good about venus trine neptune exact? I thought it wasn't good!!! LOL

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posted April 16, 2013 03:38 AM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Jessica2407:
[b]<<<<<<< Venus trine neptune exact

Venus square uranus 8 degree orb.

Neptune semisquare my asc 1 degree.

I 've had two relationships, both were perfect synastries and such. Both didn't work.Planets end relatioships when you are not meant to be with that person,same planets could make it work if you are meant to be together. My take.

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hehe do you have any air in your chart. Give me some air I'll give you my venus/neptune conjunction.

posted April 16, 2013 03:42 AM            

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Originally posted by 12muddy:
hehe do you have any air in your chart. Give me some air I'll give you my venus/neptune conjunction.

j.k

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I don't know if I can handle the conjunction along with the moon opp. Too much Neptune. I do have nearly 50% air so may be able to spare a planet free of charge.

posted April 16, 2013 03:46 AM            

I can empathize with the moon opp. I have a lot of moon squares and it’s a bit difficult sometimes =)

posted April 16, 2013 03:48 AM            

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I thought the trine was supposed to help the planet in question (Venus) work with Neptune. I read Neptune weakens everything, even in soft aspect. It totally overwhelms my Taurus moon. Makes it an emotional wreck. I would hope for some kind of amazing talent with Venus trine Neptune in close orb. Maybe a prodigy of some kind?

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posted April 16, 2013 03:54 AM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Sounds like you've had a rough time. Sorry to read this

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posted April 16, 2013 03:56 AM            

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Originally posted by Snorkel:
Nah don't feel sorry for me I'm used to it and I'm making my peace with it. I'm like, "That's just what he does" LOL.

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posted April 16, 2013 05:21 AM            

All my relships after my marriage have been neptunian... and failed. My Venus conjunct their Neptune gives very strong idealisation... I see something that is not there... there is of course something from their part too, but not as strong, or it scares the hell out of them and they all run... nothing ever develops...

This Pisces Im in love with is older and thus we have

his Neptune sextiles my Sun
his Neptune conjuncts my moon
his Neptune sextiles my Mercury
his Neptune conjunct my Mars
his Neptune opposes my Saturn (wide)
his Neptune trines my AC and MC (wide)

my Neptune trines his Mercury
my Neptune opposes his Mars (wide)
my Neptune conjuncts his Jupiter
my Neptune squares his Chiron (wide)

There has been a mutual fascination (he started this heavy flirting a year ago), but as he is married, little is spoken and nothing is acted upon. It has been going on more than year although we see each other very seldom, I attribute this to our Saturn-Sun DW.

I hate these neptunian relships and I cant live without them.

PS I confronted recently this Pisces about my feelings and he said he had no clue and that he doesnt have feelings for me (haha). This is of course not true, he continues to act as if he was infatuated with me.

posted April 16, 2013 08:35 AM            

My Neptune (in Capricorn) squared his Mercury, Jupiter and Mars (in Libra). We also had Neptune-Uranus conjunction DW both in synsatry and natal.

We started out as friends and we got along great. A lot of fun and laughing and I was extremely attracted to him. The kind of attraction I hadn’t experienced in years. However when we became a couple suddenly everything changed like someone clicked a light switch. I didn’t want to be with him anymore. I was coming out of a bad break up and his overly romantic attitude made me anxious and uncomfortable. I was blaming myself mercilessly because I didn’t want to hurt him and it made no sense for me to want to run away. But in the end I decided that I shouldn’t lead him on and I ended the relationship. (the first time I was the one to end a relationship)

I never lied to him. I was straight forward – I told him I wasn’t ready for a relationship yet. He understood and wasn’t mad or hurt. We still remain friends although we barely keep in touch because he studies abroad. That was part of the reason why I didn’t want the relationship to continue. I’m not a fan of long distance relationships. We became a couple when he was back home for a week in October 2012, then he went back abroad and returned in December when I decided to end it. The fantasy stage and “the game” were during the summer before he went away.

posted April 16, 2013 09:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
<<<<<<< Venus trine neptune exact

Venus square uranus 8 degree orb.

Neptune semisquare my asc 1 degree.

I 've had two relationships, both were perfect synastries and such. Both didn't work.Planets end relatioships when you are not meant to be with that person,same planets could make it work if you are meant to be together. My take.

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