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Topic: Does Neptune end relationships?
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Lioness
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posted April 15, 2013 09:57 PM
  
In synastry does the Neptune person "have" to be the one to walk/end relationships.Meaning even if the planet person doesn't really want to let go due to idolize/ dependency does Neptune have to just leave it, even if the planet person won't understand and feel betrayed..
Have u been the planet person in a Neptune relationship? If so what happen...
Share your story.
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=49889
The Neptune person can come on strong at the outset, and then slowly fade away, or in some cases abruptly leave. Most of the time, he or she hangs around, whether physically or (and most of the time) psychically. It's hard to get the Neptune person out of your system, mainly because there can be a lack of closure, a lack of answers as to why that person "faded out", became inaccessible, or disappeared. It is extremely important that, in a failed relationship in which the Neptune person has faded away, that the personal planet owner does whatever is possible to close it, and the sooner the better. Sometimes this involves giving up on getting solid answers or reasons for the breakup. The Neptune person may have become frustrated with a partner who never seems to be satisfied, and vice versa as well.
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depth
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posted April 15, 2013 11:05 PM
I was neptune twice in synastry.Nept sq his moon/venus
Nept conj his ura/nept
Nept sext his pluto/mars/sun He had 2 more partners I was unaware of till the end, plus a crush who I knew of but didn't care. I did idealize the whole thing - would day dream of him, write letters...He left. 2nd:
Nept trine his sun/merc
Nept conj his nept/ura
Nept sq his mars/jupe The relationship never took off. But the thing was very fairytale like! Idealization isn't the word! IP: Logged |
12thhouser
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posted April 15, 2013 11:32 PM
Okay, I'm a little confused here (lol thanks Neptune!)... are we saying that the Neptune person idealizes the personal planet person, or the other way around. Just want to be clear, because I've read conflicting information on multiple sites. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted April 15, 2013 11:44 PM
Honestly it could be either one, or even both... Nothing is set in stone either way.IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted April 15, 2013 11:45 PM
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Originally posted by depth:
I was neptune twice in synastry.Nept sq his moon/venus
Nept conj his ura/nept
Nept sext his pluto/mars/sun He had 2 more partners I was unaware of till the end, plus a crush who I knew of but didn't care. I did idealize the whole thing - would day dream of him, write letters...He left. 2nd:
Nept trine his sun/merc
Nept conj his nept/ura
Nept sq his mars/jupe The relationship never took off. But the thing was very fairytale like! Idealization isn't the word!
U were Neptune in both? Did u end the relationships? IP: Logged |
Gemmy
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posted April 15, 2013 11:48 PM
We had
His Neptune opposite my Sun,Moon,Mercury,and Venus.
My Neptune conjunct his Moon
My Neptune trine his venusHe did fade away(communication has been sparse)and I think he just walked away for good. It didn't work cause he was never honest with me.He's a compulsive liar. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted April 16, 2013 12:13 AM
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Originally posted by Gemmy:
We had
His Neptune opposite my Sun,Moon,Mercury,and Venus.
My Neptune conjunct his Moon
My Neptune trine his venusHe did fade away(communication has been sparse)and I think he just walked away for good. It didn't work cause he was never honest with me.He's a compulsive liar.
In ur case, Neptune disappeared, and planet feels betrayed... What did he lie about if u don't mind me asking IP: Logged |
Gemmy
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posted April 16, 2013 12:29 AM
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Lioness
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posted April 16, 2013 12:37 AM
Gammy, The first lie sounds very Neptune... Neptune wants u to think their perfect... He was ashamed, so he made himself look better .. U feel betrayed cuz it was such a foolish lie.. But it feels worse with Neptune... Idk.. The 2nd.. Idk exactly...
Hard to say. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted April 16, 2013 12:49 AM
My most recent relationship where I completely cut him out with no explanations - I was Neptune closely squaring his Mars and also opposite his Chiron (exact).
You might be onto something. quote:
in some cases abruptly leave.
This is exactly what I did. It was a situation that reminds of the Taurus man interpretation in "how to spot a b*stard by his sign": quote:
Taurus won’t tick you off immediately. He’ll just keep your innumerable betrayals on his mental scoreboard. Then, when your quota’s up, he’ll dismiss you. Ruthlessly. This can get a bit confusing, because the last straw could be the fact you didn’t pick up the groceries on your way home.
So you will go through life believing Taurus dropped you because you forgot the milk, not because you were having it off with his best friend
I am not a Taurus man - obviously LOL ^^ but this is exactly how I felt and how I acted. IP: Logged |
Gemmy
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posted April 16, 2013 12:54 AM
It was a foolish lie.My life is far from perfect,so I don't expect anyone elses to be.Plus I loved him,he didn't have to lie to me about anything.But I think he has a serious problem with telling the truth.Those are only a couple of them. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted April 16, 2013 12:58 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
My most recent relationship where I completely cut him out with no explanations - I was Neptune closely squaring his Mars and also opposite his Chiron (exact).
You might be onto something. I am not a Taurus man - obviously LOL ^^ but this is exactly how I felt and how I acted.
Do u think he felt betrayed in some way?
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Lioness
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posted April 16, 2013 01:02 AM
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Originally posted by Gemmy:
It was a foolish lie.My life is far from perfect,so I don't expect anyone elses to be.Plus I loved him,he didn't have to lie to me about anything.But I think he has a serious problem with telling the truth.Those are only a couple of them.
I agree it was a silly lie, but honestly if some one else told u the same lie, do u think that it wouldn't have bothered u as much?
What I notice about Neptune, is when the planet person gets lied to its an ultimate betrayal even whit lies..
Planet person says" it wasn't necessary" I would have understood..
But the hurt is just much deeper in a Neptune relationship verses another type.. IP: Logged |
12thhouser
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posted April 16, 2013 01:09 AM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Gammy, The first lie sounds very Neptune... Neptune wants u to think their perfect... He was ashamed, so he made himself look better .. U feel betrayed cuz it was such a foolish lie.. But it feels worse with Neptune... Idk.. The 2nd.. Idk exactly...
Hard to say.
I'm curious why you think a Neptune person wants others to think they're perfect? I know you had something going on with some guy you nick-named "fishy" who I take it was a Pisces. I remember you felt victimized by him for things he did, but why do you then ascribe his behavior to others with Neptune influence? I have Pisces rising and don't try to pass myself off as perfect to others. So, why do you make the broad statement that Neptune people do?
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Odette
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posted April 16, 2013 01:09 AM
Initially I'd imagine he felt shocked when he realised I'd changed my number and blocked him on FB and also switched all of my classes so I wouldn't have any classes with him. It did all this very quickly.
I don't think he expected me to do this.. so he was probably just shocked or surprised at that point.
He was probably also dismissive, thinking this was unnecessary or stupid - or that I was exaggerating (I would expect him to think that way). Later I know he got angry, because he said things about me to mutual friends. I think he imagined that it would blow over and I would start talking to him again, which didn't happen. He is still angry and he is trying to use mutual friends to hurt me. Maybe this is a Martian reaction - since it is his Mars that squares my Neptune.
I am completely ignoring him.. and will continue to ignore him come hell or high-water... First of all because I don't feel like he deserves any attention, considering his past behaviour... and secondly because I don't have the time or energy for his BS. I have too much going on in my life and I find his drama very draining - so I just want to stay away. I hope he moves on... That's all I guess. What did upset me is that at one point he slept with this girl who is very young and naive and has no clue about anything... He only did that because he thought it would make me jealous or spark a reaction in me, because I guess he is desperate to get a reaction... He then broke up with her. He basically used her and then broke things off when he saw he wasn't getting a reaction. This is upsetting because I did not want other people to get hurt here.. but I can't control his behaviour either. He makes his own choices.
I don't want to feel guilty about this - because at the end of the day, their lives are their own - and I don't see why I have to be dragged into that. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted April 16, 2013 01:13 AM
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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
I'm curious why you think a Neptune person wants others to think they're perfect? I know you had something going on with some guy you nick-named "fishy" who I take it was a Pisces. I remember you felt victimized by him for things he did, but why do you then ascribe his behavior to others with Neptune influence? I have Pisces rising and don't try to pass myself off as perfect to others. So, why do you make the broad statement that Neptune people do?
I never said any of that, I'm asking questions about Neptune relationships in general..
My post has nothing to do with Pisces placements. I'm also a Pisces asc... I'm getting the Neptune info from the net, so I'm asking people's personal stories, to learn. And see others experiences on their Neptune relationships.. Add.. When I say Neptune, I mean the planet Neptune not directly a Neptune person..
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Gemmy
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posted April 16, 2013 01:16 AM
Yeah,it did bother me more coming from him.I wanted a you love me for being imperfect and I'll do the same kind of relationship.But his lies left me unable to show him that I could love him that way.IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted April 16, 2013 01:20 AM
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Originally posted by Gemmy:
Yeah,it did bother me more coming from him.I wanted a you love me for being imperfect and I'll do the same kind of relationship.But his lies left me unable to show him that I could love him that way.
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12thhouser
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posted April 16, 2013 01:22 AM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
I never said any of that
"Neptune wants u to think their perfect..." IP: Logged |
12thhouser
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posted April 16, 2013 01:28 AM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
When I say Neptune, I mean the planet Neptune not directly a Neptune person..
"In synastry does the Neptune person "have" to be the one to walk/end relationships." Trying to clarify since at first you say "Neptune person" then later it's just the planet Neptune. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted April 16, 2013 02:02 AM
U misunderstood what I said..When I say Neptune... Person a Neptune squares person b sun (planet) Person a is Neptune
Person b is planet I'm not talking about Pisces, or Neptune heavy people Here is an example from cafe astrology, as to where I'm getting this info... . The Neptune person is generally intrigued and wants Venus to keep that idealized image of him or her, at least at the beginning. Over time, the Neptune person might feel pressured to meet that ideal image, and vaguely worried that he or she won't be able to measure up.
Neptune wants to be idolize ( be perfect)
If u have any Neptune synastry stories that doesn't fit this description, please share.
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12thhouser
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posted April 16, 2013 02:27 AM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
U misunderstood what I said..When I say Neptune... Person a Neptune squares person b sun (planet) Person a is Neptune
Person b is planet I'm not talking about Pisces, or Neptune heavy people Here is an example from cafe astrology, as to where I'm getting this info... . The Neptune person is generally intrigued and wants Venus to keep that idealized image of him or her, at least at the beginning. Over time, the Neptune person might feel pressured to meet that ideal image, and vaguely worried that he or she won't be able to measure up.
Neptune wants to be idolize ( be perfect)
If u have any Neptune synastry stories that doesn't fit this description, please share.
Fair enough, but if you think I misunderstood what you said, it's probably because you weren't clear. You said "Neptune person" repeatedly in your initial post, then later said you weren't speaking of a "Neptune person" directly, even though that was what you'd said. You weren't clear, then say I misunderstood. Choose your words more carefully next time, please. This lack of clarity seems fitting for a thread about Neptune. lol IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted April 16, 2013 02:31 AM
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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
Fair enough, but if you think I misunderstood what you said, it's probably because you weren't clear. You said "Neptune person" repeatedly in your initial post, then later said you weren't speaking of a "Neptune person" directly, even though that was what you'd said. You weren't clear, then say I misunderstood. Choose your words more carefully next time, please.This lack of clarity seems fitting for a thread about Neptune. lol
Yes mother... Everyone else understood... Funny though It was just u...
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posted April 16, 2013 02:33 AM
Shoot, this is EXACTLY how I act with guys!!!!!!!! WOW! I never read that description before!!
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Taurus won’t tick you off immediately. He’ll just keep your innumerable betrayals on his mental scoreboard. Then, when your quota’s up, he’ll dismiss you. Ruthlessly. This can get a bit confusing, because the last straw could be the fact you didn’t pick up the groceries on your way home.
So you will go through life believing Taurus dropped you because you forgot the milk, not because you were having it off with his best friend
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-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- may be it's my Jupiter in Taurus H5 that explains it?? because I'm EXACTLY LIKE THAT! IP: Logged |
12thhouser
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posted April 16, 2013 02:34 AM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Yes mother... Everyone else understood... Funny though It was just u...
Of those who read this thread and chose to respond. Who knows who else has read and disagrees with you but hasn't responded. IP: Logged |
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