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Topic: How do you know what kind of partner do you need ?
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Doux Rêve
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posted April 21, 2013 10:36 AM
  
That's an interesting chart you got here, hikoro.
The fact that your Scorpio planets are almost all in the 7th house makes it difficult to determine what kind of partner you need simply because I don't know if you own your Scorpio energy or if you tend to project it.You have Taurus rising with Moon in there, so I think you're more grounded than a typical Scorpio stellium. Anyway, what I notice is that your ASC ruler (Venus) and your DSC ruler (Pluto) are in an exact conjunction, near the DSC! That makes me think that relationships are extremely important to you and you need to have someone significant to share your life with. Now, I think your partner should have a strong Pluto or Scorpio placements to match your natal chart. Earth signs would be fitting, also, especially Virgo because it falls in your 5th and would support your Taurus Moon and Scorpio stellium. The Sun/Mercury conjunction in the 7th emphases this, also. I can imagine your partner having a dignified Sun, prominent Moon and strong Pluto. A mix of generosity, intensity and nurturing. More generally, I've noticed that it's good to have someone's planet(s) make a Grand Trine with a natal trine of ours - it creates a flowing, natural, easy-going energy. In your case I think a planet/point around 13° Cancer would be beneficial, as it would trine your Jupiter and Scorp planets.
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hikoro
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posted April 21, 2013 11:06 AM
@douxthanks a lot. it makes sense...with my complex chart, it must be challenging to know what is 'it'. as for virgo, no thanks...as a matter of fact, i find earth signs, although grounding, i dont get that emotional connection at all. the relationships feel 'safe' more than anything else.
virgo and taurus are my least favorite earth signs. plutonic...been there and, too much of a battle of wills...and, although i understand pluto energy, it overwhelms me when it comes from someone else.
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dignified Sun, prominent Moon
what do you mean by the above?
prominent moon? as in, lunarian? that is interesting. i dont do well with cancer moons though.thus far, i seem to fall instantaneously for the following: mutable sun, libra moon, water mars (scorpio or cancer) with cancer or cap asc....unfortunately, i still havent been able to 'draw one' into my life.
i have a weakness for pisces and gemini suns.
scorpio and taurus, im rarely attracted to them, they're more like sibs to me. quote:
A mix of generosity, intensity and nurturing.
totally agree, add loyal and humble too. IP: Logged |
Londongirl8
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posted April 21, 2013 11:20 AM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I vote Aquarius with a touch of Pisces and some Fire, especially Sag or Aries.Independent but good-hearted, can be soft and romantic but likes a good conversation and can take action. Optimistic, original, spiritual. Someone who can inspire you and motivate you.
Ditto! My boyfriend is Aqua and contrary to popular belief he's not cold or aloof - quite the opposite in fact, which suits me fine as I'm Aqua too  IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted April 21, 2013 11:45 AM
Hikoro,Ouch! I can see what you mean about Earth signs. And Pluto.. sigh, complicated. Wonder why you fall for mutable signs, though..? They're not usually a good match for us fixed signs, but maybe they balance you out? I think Libra can be a good match, though.
ETA: Oh, and by dignified Sun and prominent Moon I meant someone who has a well-aspected, strong Sun and a well-placed Moon. Not necessarily Cancer, but maybe in a romantic house like the 5th or the 7th (tendency to take care of partners).
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hikoro
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posted April 21, 2013 12:07 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:Ouch! I can see what you mean about Earth signs. And Pluto.. sigh, complicated.
you understand.  it seems we both share the same struggle...
i swear, the day i find the right partner for me, that will be a miracle. i will share the miracle answer with you. quote:
Wonder why you fall for mutable signs, though..? They're not usually a good match for us fixed signs, but maybe they balance you out?
i dont know. but...i adore pisces, i really do. they understand me and i dont feel pressured/scrutinized...i just feel free with them.
and gems, they're hilarious, adventurous...open to people from all around the world.
virgos are critical and cold... have no imagination, also status quo oriented.
cardinal heavy people, cant do it either...they're like captains too, just like scorps. and, you cant have two captains in the same boat. esp.
aries...horrible.
caps are ok but cold, read virgos.
cancers, if the person doesnt happen to be emotionally manipulative and too moody. quote:
I think Libra can be a good match, though.
in moon aspect...i can handle it. sun/venus/mars...not really.
more than one planet in libra? no, thank you...too superficial and, rather keep the peace instead of being assertive. quote:
ETA: Oh, and by dignified Sun and prominent Moon I meant someone who has a well-aspected, strong Sun and a well-placed Moon. Not necessarily Cancer, but maybe in a romantic house like the 5th or the 7th (tendency to take care of partners).
so...what would be the houses for a dignified sun?
1st? 5th?ETA: if moon is nurture, the pluto is for intensity...then the dignified sun relates to 'generosity'. the folks who seem to be generous in real life are pisces sun...but, i dont think pisces sun is characterized as being 'dignified'. ???
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted April 21, 2013 12:32 PM
Look up on google what your descendant, venus and mars positions mean. It will describe it perfectly
(dont stop until you find descriptions that say what it means as far as what you look for in a partner)It did for me. And has helped me a ton, honestly. Being aware is the first step ------------------
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