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Topic: How do you know what kind of partner do you need ?
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SilverFeather Knowflake Posts: 76 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted April 20, 2013 12:16 PM
Lately I've been confused between the kind of partner I want and the kind of partner I need. I've learnt recently that what you want is not necessarily what you need so how do you know what type of lover suits you best by looking at your birth Chart ?? I have my Decedent and Vertex in Pisces so I noticed that I always long for a romantic/dreamy/artistic kind of partners but the truth is I always end up with go-getter/freedom-loving guys due to my Sagittarian Mars/Venus and my 8th House being in Aries. so how do I figure this out ??
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Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 1884 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted April 20, 2013 12:39 PM
Thats all on you. You have to understand who you are and what kind of person would be good for you. I know exactly what I want and qualities I'm not looking for in a partner.Your 7th house pisces makes that all hazy. Whats your 7th house ruler doing? IP: Logged |
SilverFeather Knowflake Posts: 76 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted April 20, 2013 12:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: Thats all on you. You have to understand who you are and what kind of person would be good for you. I know exactly what I want and qualities I'm not looking for in a partner.Your 7th house pisces makes that all hazy. Whats your 7th house ruler doing?
Yes I know it's all on me, I'm just looking for astrology to shed some light on the matter. My 7th House ruler( Neptune)is placed on my 4th House in Capricorn. It conjunct Uranus, square Moon and trine my Ascendant.
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neilthecellist Knowflake Posts: 47 From: Oceanside, CA, USA Registered: Feb 2013
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posted April 20, 2013 01:34 PM
The Astrology of Sexuality. Get it on Amazon for cheap. Highly resourceful book that will not only answer your question but offer you further insight into synastry, and the sexuality involved in the development and sustainability of a relationship.IP: Logged |
neilthecellist Knowflake Posts: 47 From: Oceanside, CA, USA Registered: Feb 2013
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posted April 20, 2013 01:38 PM
The Astrology of Sexuality. Get it on Amazon for cheap. Highly resourceful book that will not only answer your question but offer you further insight into synastry, and the sexuality involved in the development and sustainability of a relationship.IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 916 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 20, 2013 01:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by SilverFeather: Yes I know it's all on me, I'm just looking for astrology to shed some light on the matter. My 7th House ruler( Neptune)is placed on my 4th House in Capricorn. It conjunct Uranus, square Moon and trine my Ascendant.
You have a lot of idealism about your partner and expect a lot whenever you get involved with someone else, and that can also extend to partnerships of all kinds. Remember, Pisces is also ruled by Jupiter. Depending on how well it's aspected, you will benefit through a partnership of some kind since Jupiter ruling 7th is an indication of gain through partnership. You would like someone who will be very supportive of you but like a certain degree of independence. You could expect a bit of instability here. You could be conflicted about how much you are willing to sacrifice to someone else. Remember, Sag planets like freedom and traveling. It's important to find someone who will have a positive affect on you emotionally.
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SilverFeather Knowflake Posts: 76 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted April 20, 2013 02:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:You have a lot of idealism about your partner and expect a lot whenever you get involved with someone else, and that can also extend to partnerships of all kinds. Remember, Pisces is also ruled by Jupiter. Depending on how well it's aspected, you will benefit through a partnership of some kind since Jupiter ruling 7th is an indication of gain through partnership. You would like someone who will be very supportive of you but like a certain degree of independence. You could expect a bit of instability here. You could be conflicted about how much you are willing to sacrifice to someone else. Remember, Sag planets like freedom and traveling. It's important to find someone who will have a positive affect on you emotionally.[/B]
Thanks StarLight for the insight. I have a major Stellium in Sagittarius in 3rd House tightly linking Sun, Venus,Mars, Mercury and True Node in various conjunctions. Despite of my shy and rather reluctant Virgo ascendant, I come off as strong, confident, and the "don't miss with me" kinda girl. The truth is I'm very sensitive ( Moon in first house in Libra ) and that's why I find myself attracted to considerate/gentle guys like those with Pisces Moon/Venus.
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KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 2185 From: Uranus Registered: May 2011
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posted April 20, 2013 04:13 PM
Pisces Moon.. <3 my boyfriend has that. Good luck! 5th and 7th, Ruler of Descendant aspects and the house ruler and sun (for men) tells us allIP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 916 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 20, 2013 04:16 PM
Pisces Moons are really easy to get along with. They are so nice.IP: Logged |
SilverFeather Knowflake Posts: 76 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted April 20, 2013 05:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by KarkaQueen: Pisces Moon.. <3 my boyfriend has that. Good luck! 5th and 7th, Ruler of Descendant aspects and the house ruler and sun (for men) tells us all
Lucky you ! He must be quite the catch Saturn rules my 5th house and Neptune rules my 7th. Venus/mars/Sun are all in Sagittarius and Jupiter is in Scorpio. I'm still unable to form a picture of what kind of guy I need using my birth chart IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 632 From: Poland/Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 20, 2013 05:41 PM
Oh, we have the same houses ------------------ Do you have some chocolate? IP: Logged |
SilverFeather Knowflake Posts: 76 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted April 20, 2013 05:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: Oh, we have the same houses
we do ? what's your ASC ? I'm posting my natal chart ( don''t mind the transits) IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 632 From: Poland/Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 20, 2013 05:53 PM
I'm a Virgo rising too. And a Libra moon and Sag Merc ------------------ Do you have some chocolate? IP: Logged |
SilverFeather Knowflake Posts: 76 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted April 20, 2013 06:03 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: I'm a Virgo rising too. And a Libra moon and Sag Merc
lol ! maybe we are some astro twins ? XD IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 632 From: Poland/Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 20, 2013 06:11 PM
I don't think we can call ourselves twins but we're definitely siblings ------------------ Do you have some chocolate? IP: Logged |
SilverFeather Knowflake Posts: 76 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted April 20, 2013 06:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: I don't think we can call ourselves twins but we're definitely siblings
definitely! ^_^ so back to the topic, seeing as your placements are eerily similar to mine, how do would rate your romantic relationships in general ?
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I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 632 From: Poland/Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 20, 2013 06:18 PM
I'm afraid I have nothing to say on this topic. I've been always single. ------------------ Do you have some chocolate? IP: Logged |
SilverFeather Knowflake Posts: 76 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted April 20, 2013 06:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: I'm afraid I have nothing to say on this topic. I've been always single.
Well then welcome the club !! I've been single for 4 years too! lol IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 632 From: Poland/Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 20, 2013 06:25 PM
Lol, that's not always ------------------ Do you have some chocolate? IP: Logged |
SilverFeather Knowflake Posts: 76 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted April 20, 2013 06:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: Lol, that's not always
Well, it was nothing to envy. My one and only so-called relationship was a complete disaster ! I wish I haven't waste my time with that cheating jerk !damn that Moon-Neptune square of mine I'm sooooo better off without him. I'd rather stay single for good that date another cancer again.IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 632 From: Poland/Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 20, 2013 07:01 PM
That sucks. No wonder you haven't been in a relationship since then. Hope you get over it soon.------------------ Do you have some chocolate? IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 3050 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted April 21, 2013 05:21 AM
I vote Aquarius with a touch of Pisces and some Fire, especially Sag or Aries.Independent but good-hearted, can be soft and romantic but likes a good conversation and can take action. Optimistic, original, spiritual. Someone who can inspire you and motivate you. IP: Logged |
hikoro Knowflake Posts: 515 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 21, 2013 08:14 AM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: I vote Aquarius with a touch of Pisces and some Fire, especially Sag or Aries.Independent but good-hearted, can be soft and romantic but likes a good conversation and can take action. Optimistic, original, spiritual. Someone who can inspire you and motivate you.
doux... if i post my chart here, do you mind doing the same? (analyze what kind of partner i need). IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 3050 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted April 21, 2013 08:31 AM
Not at all, hikoro You can post it!IP: Logged |
hikoro Knowflake Posts: 515 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 21, 2013 09:33 AM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: Not at all, hikoro You can post it!
i hope the op doesnt mind. thanks IP: Logged |