posted May 06, 2013 08:40 PM            

Your OP was so full of contradiction:

I´m bi, and I feel like a gay man on the inside. I wish I was a man.

So, you are sexually attracted to women, but then you also feel like a gay man, which would mean you are NOT sexually attracted to women, but at the end of the day, you wish you were a guy anyhow.

I look androgynous, pretty cute, and actually kind of feminine.

posted May 06, 2013 09:06 PM            

What's important is that - that person makes you happy and that you make them happy.

If you gave it your best shot and it doesn't work.. then you have to end it imo

I'm not saying to end it with your crush ... right now..

posted May 06, 2013 09:21 PM            

There's only one way this can end, and someone will be heartbroken but it won't be HIM.

Having said that, I don't think she's confused and doesn't know who she is - her Sun-Neptune aspect isn't a hard one, so it doesn't mean issues with reality or her sense of self. You can have a very fluid sense of self without being confused or in a state of crisis; ask any Gemini, who changes their minds and tastes more than a w.hore exchanges bed partners.

Neptune is one of the outer, transpersonal signs too so it makes sense that her sense of who she is, is bigger than any of the limitations society wants to put on her, that she has to be one or the other, this or that, and probably more than most people can really process or understand...which is probably causing her to feel confused about it because we're all brought up in modern culture being overtly and not so overtly told that you have to define yourself into something very specific and stick with it and that what being a woman is, is this, and what being a man is, is that...

posted May 06, 2013 10:42 PM            

And she doesn't know whether her current crush is gay or not but he seems unusually stand-offish.

The guy I am friends with is gay but willing to experiment, not that we will - but I know he is willing.

A different guy in my life who was also gay was very adverse to ever being with a girl. I mean different people are different.

Either way, with this particular guy - he has some sort of issue and if he does not get over whatever his issue is.. then it's pointless to keep trying.

posted May 06, 2013 11:08 PM            

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Chirp: ...considering that she's into a man that isn't sexually attracted to women.

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Sexual attraction isn't everything. I mean, maybe they could have a purely romantic relationship? I dunno man whatever works for them.

posted May 07, 2013 01:51 AM            

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Originally posted by Little Doe:
Hi,

I´m a girl, but I really feel like a gay man on the inside. I´ve touched on this subject in other threads.

Basically I don´t usually fall in love with straight men, I have nothing in common with them, unless they are unusually sensitive, humanitarian and empathetic, or with women, for that matter, either. The people I can relate to are gays and transvestites. But I´m not a lesbian. I´m bi, and I feel like a gay man on the inside. I wish I was a man. Do gay men feel my masculine energy and are subcounciously attracted to it? If so, can they ever be attracted to me phisically too, or am I doomed to be but a fan for the rest of my life?

There´s a gay guy in my class (he has a bf) who is always checking me out.. My ex-husband also liked guys. And in my other threads I´ve stated that I belive that my current crush is gay too, and he has shown igns of interest, but then again, he´s terribly hard to read, so I´m not sure what it means.

I´m very athletic, I have short hair and I look androgynous, pretty cute, and actually kind of feminine. I mean, I don´t mind looking feminine, since I´m not really concerned with my looks, it´s just that I would like to attract gay men attention and have a relationship with a gay man, in particular, my crush.

Astrologically speaking, can you tell me what it is in my chart that indicates my sexual ambivalence?
http://astro.cafeastrology.com /cgi-bin/graphic/daisy24?dformat=2&date=1983/12/30&time=2.0&lat=45.08&long=-17.15&adjust=-1.00&lang=en&x=480&y=640

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posted May 07, 2013 03:44 AM            

Everyone else:

I can definitely understand why people are confused by my OP. I´m all over the place with the descriptions.

Let me try again:
I´m a grirl and I´m attracted to gay and bi- guys. Sometimes I can be attracted to a girl, if I find her personality exceptional, but physically I am attracted to mens bodies.
It´s nothing unusual actually. Gay and bi men and considered to be hot in general (I know it´s a steeotype, but there´s some truth to it), so basically - you coould say I´m just a girl that likes hot men..

Having said that,the fact that naptune makes an aspect to my sun and asc definitely makes me able to take on meny different roles, even gender-roles, and I wouldn´t mind being a boy. I have been adviced by meny people to take on acting, and I will. I used to act as a teen, and I loved it. But I had stage-fright, so I started writing plays instead, but my libra mars is too lazy, so I never finished any one of them.. I will however get on it, because I HAVE to use that neptune for something good!

My chart is mostly water, and earth is second. The earth is in 3rd house, and it gives me an earthy, realistic approach to intellectual matters, and I like it. But my personality (1st house) is filled with planets in scorpio (water).

Back to the topic of this thread:

The thing that I so love about bi men (They´re actually my favourite) is NOT their sexuality. It´s their energy. I can´t explain it. They have such a good vibe.
What I love about them is that they are playful, experimental, chameleon-like.