posted May 13, 2013 05:08 AM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:
Ha. I sort of prefer the other one

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posted May 13, 2013 01:41 PM            

But well, sadly, none of the guys who had these qualities ever returned the feelings. Lol

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Scorpio sun, Pisces moon, Gemini ASC
Sagittarius Mercury, Scorpio Mars, Libra Venus
Virgo Jupiter, Aquarius Saturn
Capricorn Uranus and Neptune, Scorpio Pluto

posted December 15, 2014 11:57 PM            

Then there is that longer lasting, more comfortable and less intense feeling of attraction that can go on for a long while.(natal Venus-Moon trine).

I am usually drawn to "rowdy" types on a physical level.Those that seem to have that "raw" sexual energy. My 7th house cusp (Scorpio)is ruled by Pluto/Mars.

I have noticed that they usually have Asc/Sun/Moon/Venus/Mars in Aries/Scorpio,Sun/Pluto or Mars, Moon/Pluto or Mars, Venus/Pluto or Mars harsh aspects(including the conjunction).

Luckily that attraction fades just as quickly as it came.

And then the more steady types.Those that are more agreeable,balanced and usually very easy on the eyes; They usually have Asc/Sun/Moon/Venus/Mars in Taurus/Libra. Asc/Sun/Moon/Mercury to Venus easy aspects(sextiles and trine).

Also included are the Asc/Sun/Moon/Venus /Mars in Pisces the same positions in aspect to Neptune by sextile/trine (Neptune is considered the "higher octave" of Venus).

Sometimes even Asc/Sun/Moon/Venus/Mars in Sag or Jupiter aspects to Asc/Sun/Moon/Venus/Mars easy trines and sextiles will tickle me pink.

posted December 16, 2014 12:55 AM            

-strong/rough hands
-as mentally strong as I am - not afraid to put me in my place when I am wrong
-understands my silly + dark humor
-adventurous - always up to stir up something new to try with me
-dark, smoldering eyes that I can stare @ and gives me a sense of mystery & danger
-ambitious and passionate life goals
-open minded and non-judgemental
-loves to travel + explore culture
-strong sex drive
-protective + takes the lead
-smells sexy + delicious
-romantic + a tint possessive
-can stir the depths of my soul

the list can go on...

Leo Sun 8H
Libra Moon 9H
Leo Venus 7H
Leo Mars 8H

posted December 16, 2014 05:59 AM            

Good looks (according to my version of good looks, it's being taller than me, not being overweight, preferably long hair, alternative dress code (I never ever dated someone who just looks normal like everyone else, or was turned on by someone who looked normal)
They got to have something unique about how they look, but they don't have to be a model at all

Beautiful hands, lips, eyes, feets and overall body is also a big turn on

And according to their personality, I am turned on by someone who is sweet, someone who is sympathetic and talkative. A soft personality I prefer,but they got to have a more "dark" and mysterious side. They have to be aware and interested in the world, politics and preferable I am attracted to someone who is social succesful, but doesn't have to befriend everyone they meet. Someone who is a little reserved also, but still friendly and thoughtful

I know it's a lot of stuff, but I am definitely VERY attracted to complicate personalities, but still I need someone who is completely mental healthy and social active

posted December 16, 2014 08:33 AM            

Btw, like Vajra I would appreciate if he was brave and skilled enough to kick butts when necessary. I'm not looking for a body guard, I intend to join a martial art/self-defense course in the future. It would be simply nice not to have to worry about him and have backup.

I have Taurus Mars.

Some of the non-physical traits I find very appealing:
he...
isn't defeated by my dealbreakers (miracles happen, right? )
is a foreigner
has artistic talents and is willing to use them
has strong appreciation for art in general
is into the occult
is interested in science, astronomy at least, and likes science fiction
is passionate about some if not all his hobbies
likes to travel and learn languages
is very good at conceptual thinking
likes to dance and sing but he better be good at it!

Pisces DSC, Sun-Neptune in the 5th, Aquarius Venus in the 5th, Sag Mercury.

posted December 16, 2014 01:08 PM            

Third house stellium with Sag on the cusp:
Foreign men drive me crazy. Accents. Exotic looks. Men who are well-traveled. Knowledge of other cultures. Even better if they've lived all over. Makes me weak in the knees.

That third house stellium... It's all Cap planets:
Be successful or influential, I.e. be out together and not a mess, and damn, will you turn me on. I love a confident, ambitious man who is still earthy and reserved in a way. SUPER CHARMING.

Add to that a tenth house moon in LEO:
Stroke my ego and give me compliments. Show me affection. Let me know what I'm good at and how I can be better. Make me feel like I'm your number one on the public arena. Chances are, if I'm in to him, I've already built him a pedestal so high, he'll need one huge ladder to get down. I'll love and cherish you; do the same for me. I need to feel valued, or I'll move on...

Sun in the fifth (Pisces) with Aquarius on the cusp:
I like unique and somewhat rebellious/different individuals. Be sweet and in touch with our emotions, but don't smother me. I still need my space and jndependence. Understand that. A guy who gets this, and still marches to the beat of his own drum is a catch, in my eyes.

Venus in Aries conjunct Jupiter in the seventh:
I need to feel a bit chased every now and then. Even after you've won me, a guy who still "pursues" me with small acts and tokens really hits big! Be serious about the relationship. I am. I don't do lighthearted... Which leads me to...

Scorpio Pluto in the first near my Libra ASC:
Be intense, and open about it, and I'll be consumed like a month in the flame. I like to get lost in depth. A multi-faceted man that I keep discovering things about is a rare, but epic find.

Taurus ruler of eighth, with s/m midp. vertex in Taurus:
Like touching, kissing, sexy time... I'm extremely physical.

Mercury in Aquarius:
Be witty, playful, humorous, intelligent...

Mars in Capricorn sextile my Sun and conj. Saturn:
Be active and fit. Treat your body right. If you're are physically fit, that's a huge plus. I love an a ice life as health is important to me. Bad hygiene, diet, regimen of life is a HUGE turn off.

posted December 16, 2014 03:19 PM              

Someone who's headstrong. Won't ever back down for what he believes, regardless of it being the least favored or agreed with.

Someone who's balanced, not too much or too less.

Someone who's decisive, I don't mind some indecisiveness, because let's get real I am queen of indecision, and need someone to help ease the decision making a bit.

Someone who's confident. I think confidence is the sexiest thing, it piques my interest and will get my attention if he hasn't already gotten it.

Someone who's goofy with a sick, twisted sense of humor. I'm weird and laugh at some pretty gross, out of the norm type of things. Laughing is so contagious and lightens moods. My partner has to be crazy like me or it won't work.

A softie, I think a man who isn't afraid to cry, and be real, is soo sexy. I however don't do cry babies. Luckily Mr DF is not a crybaby.

Someone who isn't afraid to talk about sex. I love sex, I want it everyday(tmi sorry) and am very much turned by a man who is the same. Our bodies are so beautiful, we create beautiful life. I can't get enough.

A mama's boy. There's nothing more attractive to me, in that aspect anyway, than a man who loves his mama, will do anything for her and respects her. These are the men to marry ladies.

So in a nutshell my Leo soulmate, DeepFreeze. I love you so much baby.

posted December 16, 2014 05:01 PM            

It's like I can look at someone and be like.. that's a Venus in Scorpio woman.. AND SHES HOT OMG

It falls in my 7th house, and often conjuncts my Sun.

I'm sure Mars in Scorpio get a similar reaction from me.

posted December 16, 2014 05:23 PM            

*I like weirdness:
Uranus rules my DSC
My husband has sun conjunct Uranus

*I like real conversation:
My 3H Pluto trine Gemini Mars & Aqua Mercury
My husband has 3H Pluto-Mars-Mercury

*I like fun & laughter as opposed to heaviness, drama:
My 5H Sag Venus-Neptune; Gemini Mars
Husband is a Leo with Libra moon

*I like staying power
My Cap sun; Venus trine Saturn
His sun exactly trine Saturn

posted December 16, 2014 06:36 PM            

Love Leos. LOOOOVE Leos. Couldn't tell you why.

Oh well beyond zodiac signs I like men with muscle. Healthy lifestyles.

posted December 17, 2014 12:13 AM            

A kind heart, brave soul, and noble ambitions. But above ALL- fierce loyalty.

posted December 17, 2014 12:25 AM            

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Originally posted by Regulus18:

Love Leos. LOOOOVE Leos. Couldn't tell you why.

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posted December 17, 2014 12:57 AM            

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Originally posted by Watercolordaydream:
A man with -

-strong/rough hands
-as mentally strong as I am - not afraid to put me in my place when I am wrong
-understands my silly + dark humor
-adventurous - always up to stir up something new to try with me
-dark, smoldering eyes that I can stare @ and gives me a sense of mystery & danger
-ambitious and passionate life goals
-open minded and non-judgemental
-loves to travel + explore culture
-strong sex drive
-protective + takes the lead
-smells sexy + delicious
-romantic + a tint possessive
-can stir the depths of my soul

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wow all of that except i like strong artistic hands instead of rough hands and my sense of smell isn't that pronounced enough to have that on my list. Are you sure your venus isn't in pisces?!?!

I stand by my post last year though, give me a scruffy dark haired lean man with a nose ring, intense amazing eyes, and a mischevious smile. oh man, i met one of these this summer....nom nom nom nom no

posted December 17, 2014 04:18 AM            

1) Pisces Sun/Libra Mars/Moon-Venus,
Vulnerable. Beautiful and/or dreamy eyes. Easy going. Attractive to me/finds me attractive. Acknowledges the beauty and romance in life
= This is never missing in the men I've dated. If its not there then we're not getting together, full stop

2) Sun 8th/Sun-Pluto/Sun-Uranus/Aquarius Dsc/Uranus-Asc,
Loner, or someone whom by circumstance or by choice stands apart from the rest. An outsider. Knows his own mind and sticks to it, even when threatened with desertion and exclusion. (In practice this always ends up being synonymous with the most stubborn men on the planet. So be it.) A rebellious quality. Someone who can stand strong alone
= If this is missing I won't truly feel comfortable expressing myself around him. Another one where we wouldn't be getting together, full stop. If he's too traditional, too middle of the road, then we're point blank *not compatible* and nothing can be done to change that

3) Sun 8th, Sun-Pluto, Moon-Pluto, Venus-Mars, Venus-Pluto, Mars-Pluto,
Palpable masculinity, this is something that I have to subjectively perceive, not something based on society's standards. Passionate. Raw. Animalistic. Ability to perceive dynamics with a very keen eye and cut to the quick. Puts emphasis on how much we turn each other on
= If this is missing we won't get sexual

4) Capricorn Moon-Venus 6th, Venus-Saturn, Mars-Saturn,
Reserved. Humble. Persistent. Dedicated. Serious when there's work to be done. Doesn't **** around. A beautifully structured face
= As far as I remember, they've all possessed a certain reserve. If they were Mr. Extrovert Happy Party then I wouldn't give them a second look. But if he's screwing around on the job, then I'm seriously not interested.