posted May 12, 2013 06:22 PM            

"So what are your turn ONs? Let's hear them. And where is your mars?sun?venus?whatever placement you think explains them."

I have a thing for glasses, I think it's because I associate them with people who have life experience and/or well-read and thus interesting, which would appeal to my strong mix of airy Libra & philosophical Sag.

I also tend to be romantically attracted to those with a very different background from me, such as a California neo-hippie, a male crossdresser (I think our Sag Uranus & Libra Pluto on the Scorpio cusp helped us connect as well), a Russian American, a blasian, etc. I think this appeals to my Sag energy with my Libra side enjoying the mental stimulation it promises. Currently I'm with someone who is the most like me than ever before, but even so our backgrounds are so incredibly different.

posted May 12, 2013 06:32 PM            

sun aries
moon pisces
mars pisces
venus pisces
mercury aries

posted May 12, 2013 06:59 PM            

6'1", has a clean cut beard, dark brown wooshy hair. Looks nice in slacks and a semi-casual shirt, wears a nice watch. Insta-turn on. There's a tribal tattoo or a tattoo of his family crest, or one of his arms is a sleeve. No piercings (although they're not turn-OFFs necessarily, but eh...I can take 'em or leave 'em.)

Next we start chatting (he's a wonderful conversationalist), and I find he's witty without making me feel stupid. He's creative, and likes to volunteer in his spare time helping out the less fortunate; donates a lot to charity. He's got a quiet confidence about him and is down to earth, always polite to customer service representatives. When he says he can cook, he means it instead of someone who says they can cook and their food tastes like rice, or cardboard.

He's super close with his family, believes all people are created equal and should be treated as such and is pro-choice. Has a mixture of friends from different culture, sexual orientation, jobs, class systems. Some of whom he's remained friends with since he was little. Believes in loyalty, and spontaneous affection. Level headed in his beliefs. Curious but not judgmental. Has big dreams, but realistic goals.

And then we gallop off into the sunset to create the most intense love story known to our children (some of whom will be adopted.)
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posted May 12, 2013 07:51 PM            

A guy not concerned with what is considered masculine/feminine, or defining atypical gender roles. Intelligent, blunt and honest,socially & politically aware of things going on in the world & with other people.Of a different ethnicity, race, culture,ideology etc.
Venus/Moon in Gemini.

posted May 12, 2013 08:01 PM            

I'm attracted to men who stand out from the crowd in some way. His smile, the way he looks at me and his smell, his voice. Can be a bit masculine or macho but never rude.

I have sun in scorpio and aries moon, so I need someone to challenge my mars energy

posted May 12, 2013 08:19 PM            

I just love *deep* eyes that you can lose yourself in.
Mercury, Venus and Mars in Scorpio are perfect romantic partners for me from that perspective.
We always have an unspoken connection.

posted May 12, 2013 11:01 PM            

physical... well groomed, dresses appropriate to setting (takes pride in appearance), pleasant scent, prominent clavicle, pronounced jawline/chin, toned shoulders, dark features/complexion.

astrological reasoning? ~ Mercury(in Cap; ruling ASC/MC/NN)-Neptune(in Sag; ruling DSC, BML)-Jupiter(domicile; IC/SN, etc). Venus(rulng 9h Moon) on South Node cnj Uranus in Sagittarius. Mars cnj Pluto in Scorpion 3h, Mars ruling 8h.

posted May 12, 2013 11:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Food.

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That's hot.

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Originally posted by Jkitty:
A handsome, fit man wearing nothing but a little apron to cover the dangly bits, who's just finished cleaning my house; the feather duster he's used will double as a sex toy. Venus in Pisces in the 6th house

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My SO has venus in pisces (7th house) and loves the whole little french maid uniform, cleaning house bit.... a little too much xD

But anyways...

Well spoken, looks great in a biz suit , intelligent, facial hair but cleanly groomed, tall, clean breath (this has been a big one for me lately and idk why), skin that is not too rough, goal oriented (no slackers), witty, and techy (i love technology and talking about it so they have to as well xD).

Idk what placements explains them tho.
Except for the tech part- I was told a few years ago my Venus Sextile Uranus aspect may be why I really love it.

posted May 13, 2013 01:49 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
Emotional depth - expressed through someone's eyes and the way they look at me.

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+1

Personality-wise, what attracts me the most is genuine kindness and honesty. Someone who is considerate and genuinely cares about me = very attractive to me.

posted May 13, 2013 02:29 AM            

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Originally posted by Lioness:
Im attracted to strength, not physical strength but mental strengh.
Also very masculine type of men..
Strong egos, maybe a down fall for me, but the guy has to be stronger than me, or I would walk all over him..

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You are a leo sun ya?

posted May 13, 2013 02:48 AM            

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Originally posted by freebrainstorms:
nose rings on guys, a sexy mischievous smile, and intense eyes.

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posted May 13, 2013 03:06 AM            

But to name a few

Self-confidence of sorts
Not waiting for That Encounter
Not throwing himself at me upon assumption that That Encounter has taken place
Tenderness of soul, sensitivity
emotional when closeness settles in
Acknowledging my space and respectful of the distance I wish to maintain
Love for post punk and no wave (ok if he's hot, assuming he is it is a major bonus)
Soft skin with little or no body hair
Creative in a way that moves me
Comfortable about expressing feelings, in touch w his feminine side
Not treating me like a personal possession or like a high end clothing item
Not calling me his anything in front of others, because its a bit too much

posted May 13, 2013 03:24 AM            

MOON IN TAURUS = BEST
venus in pisces
jupiter in cancer
uranus in scorpio

posted May 13, 2013 03:24 AM            

MOON IN TAURUS = BEST
venus in pisces
jupiter in cancer
uranus in scorpio