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Topic: I like my body and I like to show it off
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Jessica2407
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From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 25, 2013 07:20 AM
  
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
^^ Probably due to your saturn conjunctions and Cappy rising. I think trine would not be as strong as conjunction or jupiter in first house.
So how does Mr shirtless Jupiter work for me? I suppose with the trine, he doesn't want to shock me much. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted May 25, 2013 07:32 AM
sweet-scorpion,Oh, how I feel you..
I can relate so, so much.
We have similar placements, and trust me, I know exactly what you mean.
I don't like my curves either, and I'd love to be more skinny / athletic. Right now I'm considered "normal" - not overweight, but I still can't look at myself in the mirror and feel happy about my body. I've had eating disorders, too. It's over now, but the body image is still pretty much the same. I empathize  I know how hard it is.
Ps. If you wanna talk, you can always e-mail me.
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KarkaQueen
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From: Uranus
Registered: May 2011
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posted May 25, 2013 09:24 AM
I hsvae Saturn square Ascendant and Sun andI wish I lost some weight to be MORE curvier. Girls are so weird!!!IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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Registered: Aug 2012
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posted May 25, 2013 09:26 AM
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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
So how does Mr shirtless Jupiter work for me? I suppose with the trine, he doesn't want to shock me much.
Maybe he won’t force you to do it. Power of trine is underestimated though, lot of serial killers have trines rather than hard aspects, it depends upon other factors as well I guess. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
Knowflake Posts: 1968
From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 25, 2013 09:32 AM
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
Maybe he won’t force you to do it. Power of trine is underestimated though, lot of serial killers have trines rather than hard aspects, it depends upon other factors as well I guess.
Really??? Jupiter trines??? Gosh, I thought Jupiter in aspect with the ASC = good person! IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 1306
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 25, 2013 09:39 AM
I have Jupiter right on the ascending degree and I am not particularly into exhibitionism but it does conjunct from the darker side of the ascendant so maybe that's why?IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
Knowflake Posts: 1968
From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 25, 2013 09:42 AM
Actually, I don't view being an exhibitionist as something to be proud of. There is a difference between liking yourself and exposing yourself.Jupiter trine my ASC gives me a good sense of self appreciation. That's all. I don't need the public eye on my body to know am good looking. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 1306
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 25, 2013 10:04 AM
Well let's just say someone is a stripper or something like that. I don't judge them if they are are happy with that, more power to them. It doesn't necessarily bother me. Exposing oneself in public is inconsiderate though. It has to be in the right place imo and others should be taken into consideration. I do not begrudge people their nude beaches.IP: Logged |
Jinni
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted May 25, 2013 10:12 AM
I have always loved my body and I do like show it off. I have always thought that it`s my very well-aspected Neptune in second house making my self-worth delusionally high. But I do have very tight Jupiter-Asc-Venus configuration in my chart Jupiter being chart ruler and my singelton Venus is also strong so maybe it is it and Neptune doesn`t play any role at all. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 1306
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 25, 2013 10:14 AM
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Originally posted by Jinni:
I have always loved my body and I do like show it off. I have always thought that it`s my very well-aspected Neptune in second house making my self-worth delusionally high. But I do have very tight Jupiter-Asc-Venus configuration in my chart Jupiter being chart ruler and my singelton Venus is also strong so maybe it is it and Neptune doesn`t play any role at all.
I have a second house Neptune too and feel like it messes with my self worth some. Our relationship is complicated!
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sweet-scorpion
Knowflake Posts: 1473
From: PA, USA
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted May 25, 2013 08:11 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
sweet-scorpion,Oh, how I feel you..
I can relate so, so much.
We have similar placements, and trust me, I know exactly what you mean.
I don't like my curves either, and I'd love to be more skinny / athletic. Right now I'm considered "normal" - not overweight, but I still can't look at myself in the mirror and feel happy about my body. I've had eating disorders, too. It's over now, but the body image is still pretty much the same. I empathize I know how hard it is.
Ps. If you wanna talk, you can always e-mail me.
Tysm for reaching out to me. It means a lot to me...more than you know. I will shoot you an e-mail either today or tomorrow. I miss us talking. IP: Logged |
goatcat
Knowflake Posts: 784
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 26, 2013 03:35 PM
Why don't you like your curves? I do not understand... IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 26, 2013 05:35 PM
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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
Tysm for reaching out to me. It means a lot to me...more than you know. I will shoot you an e-mail either today or tomorrow. I miss us talking.
Aw, sweetie, you're welcome.. I miss us talking, too. Hope to hear from you soon! x Goatcat, Well, for me personally, it's not about the "curves" per se, it's more about the fat itself, it bothers me. And I like lean bodies, it's just a matter of preference.
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Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 2145
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 26, 2013 06:41 PM
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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
This is my dream body. It depresses me that I can't have it right now.... likely ever. 
Umm that body is very boyish...
Idk why girls want to look like little boys?..
It's creepy. her thighs are weird too...
Idk bad legs are a deal breaker for me..
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goatcat
Knowflake Posts: 784
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 26, 2013 07:26 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Umm that body is very boyish...
Idk why girls want to look like little boys?..
It's creepy.her thighs are weird too...
Idk bad legs are a deal breaker for me..
My thighs kinda look like that. I would love to have chunkier thighs! Idk the fleshiness of woman is soo sexy to me. I feel like it's what makes us different from men! IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted May 26, 2013 07:33 PM
Every body is beautiful though. It all depends on the person.IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 26, 2013 07:52 PM
Its not its just small or slim.
It looks lumpy and most importantly is disportionate from the rest of her body.
I assume bad photoshopping is the true culprit, It just does not look right...Maybe your thighs are better portioned with the rest of your body and not photoshopped.  .
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goatcat
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posted May 26, 2013 09:35 PM
HmmmThen again when I look at this picture and think, woah her body is interesting IP: Logged |
PixieJane
Knowflake Posts: 2348
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted May 26, 2013 10:10 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Idk why girls want to look like little boys?...
Probably different reasons. American white girls especially tend to put a huge importance on weight, especially in their teens. I can see how trying to gain control over one's morphing body would seem appealing, too, and there is a theory that anorexia is an attempt to gain control over at least one thing in a girl's life, her own body (and more boys are getting eating disorders, too). So in this case she may not look at all feminine but it's still a badge of pride, probably similar to what a mountain climber feels upon reaching the top, and the more s/he suffered for it, the better one feels about one's self. I don't think that theory fits all, however. I've known too many with eating disorders who also did drugs (not so much with the control there...) and also mutilated themselves with cutting & burning, so I think in their case it's self-hatred, or at least self-harming. IP: Logged |
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