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Topic: The men a woman attracts
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Sikanda
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Registered: Aug 2015
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posted November 07, 2015 05:27 PM
  
For me a very attractive type of man is an assertive and strong one. One who believes in himself and his ideas even when others don't. I'm not into men that you have to nurture constantly because they are so unsure. Not that nurturing is a wrong thing, I find it's very loving and I like a little cuddling and all, but only when it's reciprocated because when it becomes too demanding it can make you feel as if your attentions are not enough.
If that was the case of a close friend or a family member, I'd be more than willing to help build their confidence, but that must be a straining trait when it's a life partner's (in my opinion). I have Sun (in Virgo) tightly conjunct Mercury and trine Mars (in Capricorn).
It's also opposite Jupiter, and for me a sense of humour is also important. I like a brilliant self-confident man.
Sun square Saturn
Sun square Uranus
Sun loosely trine Neptune
Sun trine AC
Sun trine MC and I'm definitely attracted to men that I admire for their career. For example, hardworking men who have been able to pave their own way with honors in a specific field. IP: Logged |
MilaBirkin
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From: Cordoba, Argentina
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posted November 12, 2015 02:09 PM
I was thinking about this a while ago.
The Sun is about our father and the man who we choose and attracts like you wrote.Sun trine moon
He will show you respect and delicacy. Sun square Jupiter
He will solve your problems, "magically". Sun sextile Neptune
Intuitive, spiritual and perceptive man. Very important emotional and psychic experiences. And I also have Sun conjunct Saturn but I'm not sure what that means... Maybe, a mature and very loyal man?. I still didn't have a "really important love" but I was attracted(and so do they) to guys with great influence of Uranus and Sagittarius-Gemini... So that was for Sun square Jupiter? Ha. IP: Logged |
Seimei
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posted November 12, 2015 02:13 PM
Since you used the plural (Men) I am forced to respond,,,,,,,
All of us on our Knees, slaves to her every whim ------------------
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Solar_Leo_Queen
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From: Planet Earth
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posted November 12, 2015 02:52 PM
Sun oppose Uranus and Jupiter in Aqua, plus Sun trine Pluto in Sag...So like.. people who are against social norms and are quite powerful? Mmm, not really, I don't think. I've only attracted two men with Uranian qualities, no one with Jupiter or Pluto influences. They were both Aries. Most of the other ones I've attracted have Pisces qualities (not really a fan of it) and Libra qualities. Although, my first boyfriend was an Aqua, he acted more like a Libra. My Mars is in Libra, btw. IP: Logged |
Empty Spaces
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posted November 12, 2015 02:59 PM
Intriguing..BUT i have no idea what these aspects means..Someone could help me,pretty please?Sun opposite mars
Sun conjunct uranus
Sun conjunct neptune
Sun semi square venus
Sub square jupiter Any Idea?? IP: Logged |
8ofHearts
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From: CA
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted August 08, 2016 03:29 PM
Sun (Libra 6) conj ASC (Virgo 29)
Sun decile Moon (Scorpio)
Sun conj Pluto (Libra)
Sun square Saturn (Cancer)
Sun trine Jupiter (Aquarius)
Sun sextile Neptune (Sag)
Sun inconjunct Mars (Taurus)Mars in Taurus in 8th
7th Ruler (Neptune 29 Pisces) Neptune in 3rd in Sag
Mars in 8th inconjunct Sun in 1st
Mars sextile Saturn in 10th
Mars opposite Moon in 2nd I tend to attract Virgo, Gemini & Libra dudes with Aquarius, Virgo, Gemini or late Libra rising. Typically, they're earthy, athletic, intelligent/articulate, intense, creative and humorous. Usually, they have planetary overlays in 1st, 2nd, 5th and 8th. Almost always with Mars aspects to their Sun (as well as Pluto aspects to their Moon/Venus) I have Sun conj Pluto and Moon and Venus in Scorpio.
Usually, they've got some Venus influence (planets in Libra or Taurus and hopefully, they usually also have Jupiter aspects to their sun. VERY stron Mercury & some Uranian aspects too...Uranus rules my 5th and is in Libra in my 1st conjunct Mercury and my Sun/Moon MP. Wooh! IP: Logged |
Koniucha
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posted August 08, 2016 03:38 PM
What about someone with an unaspected sun, like me? The only aspect is opposite to chiron.I thought it was more Mars related? I have a 12th house Mars and all of the men have been Neptunian, generally having Neptune square their personal planets. IP: Logged |
Orange
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From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted August 08, 2016 04:08 PM
It's true for me. My Sun conjuncts Mars and squares Neptune - I like tough, disciplined guys which are capable to dream and fantasize with me. IP: Logged |
BeholdAstarte
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From: astral plane
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posted August 08, 2016 04:26 PM
my sun is conj mars/merc
square Uranus
square Neptune
square Saturn
square Jupiter
closely parallel plutoruler of my sun venus (libra) is in scorpio
conj pluto
conj DC
trine Jupiter
semisquare Uranus lately.. probably the last 3 guys I dated or am seeing were Aries. my longest relationship of 4 1/2 years was with a guy who was born 12 hours before me, so he def had a strong mars.. and similar chart pattern as me obviously.
I seem to attract very strong, and dominating guys. sometimes (most times) they tend to have a wild streak and are rather selfish/temperamental. if I do attract more sensitive, emotional guys that have dominant Neptune or pisces I usually end up just barreling over them unfortunately. so although I'm drawn to Neptune It doesn't seem to work out in my relationship sphere. I'm too intense. I could also see since I have my sun square Saturn that the guys I date have "daddy issues" for sure, and I can also relate to mercury RX and being with guys who are not very expressive and rather quit/secretive.
-but ive had 2 recent relationships with guys who were opposite, life of the party types who don't shut up and very strong Neptune influence/solar IP: Logged |
florence
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posted August 08, 2016 08:26 PM
Wow! Yes!my aspects are: Sun conjunct Chiron in Taurus
Square Mars in Leo
Opp Uranus in Scorpio
Sextile Jupiter in cancer I feel like my sun aspects show both the r/ships I've had and how I've matured from going for outward characteristics - the signs as the setting - to a more refined energy. Edited out the extraneous as I'd have to get into details of the r/ships for it to make sense. But it does feel like a fingerprint of those I've been involved in, there IP: Logged |
Gemini30
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From: Los Angeles
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted August 08, 2016 09:57 PM
It's not only the Sun but Mars as well. The aspects that Mars makes will also hint to what men she attracts. IP: Logged |
Radium
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posted August 09, 2016 02:23 AM
Love me a girl who acts like she couldn't care less about me, turns me on like crazy. I have a thing for "female dogs"IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
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From: USA
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posted August 10, 2016 05:43 PM
Sun square moon, saturn sextile sun and sun trine uranus. Sun in cancer, libra moon, saturn in virgo and uranus in scorpio.IP: Logged |
frankie2912
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From: Here and There
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posted August 11, 2016 06:35 PM
Hmmm...I heavily attract personal planets in Cancer, Scorpio, Aquarius, Libra, and Leo. Sometimes Taurus and Pisces, too. I'm a Capricorn. Sun conjunct Mercury in Sag
Sun conjunct Neptune in Cap
Sun sextile Pluto in Scorp
Sun sextile ASC in Scorp IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
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From: USA
Registered: May 2015
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posted August 12, 2016 04:38 PM
quote:
Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
Sun square moon, saturn sextile sun and sun trine uranus. Sun in cancer, libra moon, saturn in virgo and uranus in scorpio.
Would anyone like to help me understand the guys I attract? IP: Logged |
Moonfish
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From: Tropical Ocean
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 12, 2016 05:10 PM
Sun Scorpio 8H
Conjunct Mars (2)
Conjunct Pluto (3)
Trine ASC (0)Yes, every guy that I attract or have been attract to had Sun-Pluto.. Not sure about Sun-Mars, but Pluto is always there. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted August 12, 2016 05:32 PM
Yes for me.Sun square Neptune
Sun square Saturn
Sun conjunct Mercury
Sun conjunct Venus
Sun sextile Mars I get a lot of guys who promise more than they deliver, or who are boring. They talk about themselves a lot (Sun / Mercury manifestation, one of them anyway) or are more passive (Sun / Neptune + Sun / Venus) Oh, gay guys galore. I like Pisces people so far really, and it makes sense because a) they can fit with anyone, b) they're usually just the right amount of sarcastic, and also extremely intelligent and gentle. Plus, I have more Neptune aspects than anything. IP: Logged |
Koniucha
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posted August 12, 2016 06:57 PM
I'm curious what the book says about those that have no major aspects to their sun.IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: From a galaxy, far, far away...
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 14, 2016 10:13 PM
^ Ah, good point. IP: Logged |
yungang_grotto
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From: love lives forever
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 14, 2016 11:58 PM
My Sun would be called peregrine by a lot of astrologers, and if we take the concept of peregrination and the associations therewith seriously for a moment, it makes sense in terms of the men I attract... larger than life and totally bonkers...  I mean... unpredictable. Power tripping. Isolated. Un-self-aware. Over compensating... Talented. Genius. Over the top. Incredible. Special. Locally famous. Etc. Many of them. But my Sun is semisquare my Moon, tightly sesquisquare my Chiron (!! Didn't actually pay much attention to this one before but I know semi and sesquisquares are huge in their implications, because of the consequent midpoint activation, etc).. and widely conjunct Pluto, by 8 degrees. It is also binovile Juno, very tight, and sextile Ceres by 4 degrees. The men I attract often have a certain amount of dissonance between their feminine and masculine sides, a creative tension which never exactly resolves... semisquare Moon They are sometimes gifted healers who are unaware of their own power, their ego prevents them from seeing it. Or they are aware, and use it to great effect at times. (Sesquisquare Chiron) They are often manipulative, dark, power hungry, and Plutonian... (conjunct Pluto)... with an acute awareness of the dark side, sometimes they're revelers in it, sometimes otherwise. The level.of Plutonian awareness has varied greatly. Sextile Ceres... yeah, they are usually in dynamic relationships with their mothers, often are fond of food and creative with it, and a few of them have been very very in tune with mother earth... Binovile Juno... they do tend to be relationship oriented, and I guess this denotes the feeling of completion.and devotion as well.as the themes of needing to assert power or be self sacrificial in relationships, a common theme also. IP: Logged |
yungang_grotto
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From: love lives forever
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 15, 2016 12:03 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Koniucha:
I'm curious what the book says about those that have no major aspects to their sun.
Just read your post. See my reply regarding peregrination (no major aspects to my Sun). I am personally able to embrace the idea of peregrine planets' significance, as well as the subtones created by midpoints and non Ptolemaic aspects. The men in my life have definitely been 'peregrine' types.... a vagabond/train hopper and tree sitting environmental activist, an eccentric artist/musician/band leader, another traveler/hippie/Rainbow warrior type guy, and presently, a musician who is quite well known in our town for his eccentricity and unique character/air of mystery/gravitas/ability/sense of humour... lol ok I like him... whatever Please don't quote the above paragraph! Point is, there is definitely a common thread between the men I've attracted, and my Sun definitely describes them. This is fairly basic astrology, but easy to forget and fascinating to learn and re-remember and deepen into... thanks for the thread! It's amazing how many directions and meanings one can glean, from one symbol's aspects... they impact so many areas and describe them so succinctly... like one midpoint picture, you can write PAGES about it, and still come up short on all it's implications.. oh, life... IP: Logged |
Koniucha
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posted August 15, 2016 11:02 AM
quote:
Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
Just read your post. See my reply regarding peregrination (no major aspects to my Sun).I am personally able to embrace the idea of peregrine planets' significance, as well as the subtones created by midpoints and non Ptolemaic aspects. Please don't quote the above paragraph! Point is, there is definitely a common thread between the men I've attracted, and my Sun definitely describes them. This is fairly basic astrology, but easy to forget and fascinating to learn and re-remember and deepen into... thanks for the thread! It's amazing how many directions and meanings one can glean, from one symbol's aspects... they impact so many areas and describe them so succinctly... like one midpoint picture, you can write PAGES about it, and still come up short on all it's implications.. oh, life...
The big non major aspect to my sun is opposite Chiron, which isn't so good. I feel a lot of pain regarding men, like all of the ones in my life have hurt me. The theme I have notice with all of them is that they all have had Neptune squaring personal planets. I have Mars in the 12th. IP: Logged |
yungang_grotto
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From: love lives forever
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posted August 15, 2016 12:06 PM
<3 Sun opposite Chiron can be very healing eventually, you might find that as you evolve info awareness of your Mars nature and Chiron also that the awareness and kindness and goodness of the men in.your life also improves. Like I said about a single symbol having multiple meanings, the same symbol or aspect pattern evolves over the course of your personal evolution/life... changes and reveals different layers.You could look at aspects to your progressed Sun to predict how these changes might look. Chiron represents the gateway through pain to love.. it would be good to do some in depth reading about Chiron, and open to the vibrations of love and healing inherent in the pain. It's always there. When we learn to see the wound as a doorway, as a blessing even, then we can really begin to heal... through gratitude. I'm speaking from experience, not trying to minimize pain, I've had a lot of pain from men and others also... but I have truly found that gratitude for everything that has happened empowers me to heal. It puts the reins back in my hands and allows me not to dwell on regret or bitterness... IP: Logged |
Hemilla
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From: State of mind
Registered: May 2015
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posted August 15, 2016 01:01 PM
ummm,my sun squares my piscean saturn and trines my piscean moon ...didnt really notice piscean men around me,id have to chek the past out betterIP: Logged |
erickaf
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Registered: Oct 2014
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posted August 15, 2016 01:48 PM
I'll add my experience. Scorpio sun aspects my Mars and Uranus. I am always dating younger men (Mars) but highly intelligent with Aquarius prominent in their charts (Uranus). IP: Logged |
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