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goatcat
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posted May 29, 2013 04:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for goatcat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's stupid. You are the only one that can feel your emotions and nobody has time for crybabies and moody people.

I'm tired of my emotions because they ruin my days and my relationships. Being upset hurts my body. Being upset makes me unattractive.
I wish I only had one emotion and that would be happiness.

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posted May 29, 2013 04:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for goatcat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm done I'm done I'm done.
I don't have time for my emotions.

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posted May 29, 2013 04:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for goatcat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My emotions make me so tired.

Once I'm upset there's no turning back.

I wish I didn't feel things so deeply. **** that **** .

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posted May 29, 2013 04:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for goatcat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nobody can relate to how I feel. My emotions make me feel so alone.

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posted May 29, 2013 04:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for goatcat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What's the point.

There is none.

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posted May 29, 2013 04:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anascorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Orange
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posted May 29, 2013 04:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's all in your head.

Outside of your head, the world is still moving and in the grand scheme of life, your worries are basically meaningless

Imagine you were the Wonder Woman and have the power to control your brains, (which by the way is so attainable only that we don't know how), and you tell the sucker, your brain, to chill the f*** down.

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posted May 29, 2013 04:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for affy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do you have any planets in Capricorn, goatcat? (I'm guessing you do)

Tr. Pluto is killing my stellium and driving me crazy, so I relate

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posted May 29, 2013 04:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by goatcat:
It's stupid. You are the only one that can feel your emotions and nobody has time for crybabies and moody people.

I'm tired of my emotions because they ruin my days and my relationships. Being upset hurts my body. Being upset makes me unattractive.
I wish I only had one emotion and that would be happiness.



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posted May 29, 2013 04:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by goatcat:
It's stupid. You are the only one that can feel your emotions and nobody has time for crybabies and moody people.

I'm tired of my emotions because they ruin my days and my relationships. Being upset hurts my body. Being upset makes me unattractive.
I wish I only had one emotion and that would be happiness.


you're wrong. you are beautiful the way you are and people who are deep too will understand your sadness and respect it, and fail to understand those who're always happy. like attracts like. if you were fake happy all the time, ud attract ppl who are not suited for you bc they might rly be happy carefree ppl and once they get to know u they will not understand u. they will call ur deep emotions as u being "a drama queen"

Plus, sadness...you are sad for a reason. our feelings are there for a logical reason, and to ignore them is extremely unwise for listening to ur feeluings is what will give ur life meaning n purpose. I should know, as a water sign.

Perhaps you are sad bc the world is a terrible place and someone has done you wrong. well if u stay sad about this, then it'll eat away at you and maybe it'll make u passionate enough to go and give speeches in classrooms about it, or participate in protests about what you're against.

It is sadness and frustration that make us happy in the end. Like the olympic runner who wins the medal and u see the extreme happiness in his reaction. Why is he so happy? bc of his extreme anxiety and frustration at reaching his goal. he worked hard at it, he had sleepless nights worrying about it, he trained for years. If everyone were happy superficial and carefree then there would never be classical music being written, sad love songs, works of art inspired by suffering in love, never be pioneers or ppl who are passionate for what they do or who feel theyre doing something bc they feel its their purpose, and most of all, we would never have people who stand up for something.

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posted May 29, 2013 05:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aqua86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aaah what is this?!?

The day when an 'air sign' has to tell that emotion are not the problem , truly that day peace can't be far away from earth :')

From the air perspective if we may call it that.. u are nothing different then air or earth or fire..

Your problem lies in not knowing how to use...who u are..why u are here...and what your calling is..a combination of many things..

So u got work to do..u thought u were strong and secure..Life decide otherwise.

The easiest way is..to ask what life needs from u..who life wants u to be..for chances are high..its what u want..but u have put it far away under a veil of fear and forget it or not look at it as it was important.

Instead u looked for what people wanted u to be..wheter it be ya friends or those who are close to your heart..And u might have tweaked u morality many times, fooling yourself it was for a good cause.

Good people will ask u to reinforce your boundaries instead of throwing them away.

Good people will warn u if u step out of it, because it will bring harm to others and yourself sooner or later

Good people will respect your boundaries, and look if they can assist it

Good people will ask u to reconsider your boundaries if it holds u back from who u are and want to be.

So i simply ask u..if they care so much...and u who put faith in those who u call 'friends' then they should be able to help u..so do it..and then u see the truth..

They know nothing more then u do..pretending what is not and what is.U become moody and they run...How can u give advice..to others when u are fake? u can not fake depth.. thats a world that humans cannot and will not manipulate or alter it existence

Its a world to travel and explore

So ask yourself once and for all...

Where is the help u deserve?

For all seem to know it..but where are they then? with their philosophy and their big imagination and formulas..

Where is your science now? with his arrogance...u need a pill? so we just tweak some endorphine and all will seem 'happy'

For those are hunting happiness, know everything about sadness, and those who hunt sadness know everything about happiness and how to archieve..so that he know what is bottom know what is top..

so was it always and so shall it always be..no man or entity can change this or has the power to change this.For it was created perfect.

Where is comfort? Do u not know how to give or recieve it anymore? Or is it so that everyone is busy with themself and their own problems.

Where are your dreams? Have u destroy them or have u allowed other to destroy it for you, to spare yourself from eternal torture?

Integrity in everything u do and say...
Will surely draw attention from 'higher forces'

And this little goat, is the reason why aquarians and all signs that are and feel humanitairian as individual are internally drawn to help humanity, and many times we will comfort strangers better then our own friends..
We all have a journey and a life path

Because we know their friends might be busy for them..but we always have time to spare and help..

And many times we will invest more intellectual and emotional energy on strangers..and it will deplete us ..
when we get to our friends back..
we can't comfort , but we can keep it intellectual comfort.

So we pay a price also..we don't have close friends many times, but we know a lot of people..people who we have assisted in little things or ways..and we know they need help and somehow we know magically how to do it

In return we are never bored, for our minds always racing finding solution or going back and forth incase we missed something.

Never are we truly lonely, we just feel sadness as whole.In thought we can dwell deep so do our emotions, but we don't express..if u express u don't feel..because u are expressing=wich is thought

Everytime we feel love, we treasure it in our heart, and we do not like to say it..we like to feel it :') and when we feel it, we will look and suddenly we smile for no reason to our loved one, and then maybe flashes will come..the thing people speak about

(people who lived with aqua, know the magical or just suddenly different direction moving from the relationship)

And we do not like to explain to friends that we did this or did that for someone..there is no bragging..u just do it. end of discussion, keep mouth shut, and see where u can assist.

NO LADY AND GENTS..we do our duty..because it written deep in our consious.

So u need to hold on your emotion, but not allow it to control you, but feel it :')

no matter what emotion that might be..absorb it..and feel it...and enjoy, even if its sadness..try to enjoy the sadness..sounds weird..but sadness is deep vs happiness is airy..

Many times u will feel more alive in your sad periods..then in your happy ones..weird :')

Feel the sadness for it tells u things..and depth..but don't become it...be yourself

Learn from it as it would be a person

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posted May 29, 2013 05:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Orange:
It's all in your head.

Outside of your head, the world is still moving and in the grand scheme of life, your worries are basically meaningless

Imagine you were the Wonder Woman and have the power to control your brains, (which by the way is so attainable only that we don't know how), and you tell the sucker, your brain, to chill the f*** down.


Right on! You must not get enough attention, Goatcat.

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goatcat
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posted May 29, 2013 05:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for goatcat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Right on! You must not get enough attention, Goatcat.

Idk. I guess not?

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posted May 29, 2013 05:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lazyscarecrow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Orange:
It's all in your head.

Outside of your head, the world is still moving and in the grand scheme of life, your worries are basically meaningless

Imagine you were the Wonder Woman and have the power to control your brains, (which by the way is so attainable only that we don't know how), and you tell the sucker, your brain, to chill the f*** down.


Probably the worst advice to give an emotional person.

Anyway. First, stop beating yourself up... everybody handles their emotions differently. Some people tell themselves to suck it up and that works for them, and here, it does not work for you. And that's ok.

Beating yourself up will not make the emotions go away, or make you less of what you don't want to be (a "crybaby", using your terminology). You need to be more honest with yourself, Goatcat. It seems you are exaggerating a bit here, but know you are not alone. I go through the same thing with my own emotions. I feel them way too much for my own good. And no, your worries aren't meaningless, because obviously they mean something to you.

Someone here could help you more, but lets start with accepting yourself, your flaws, your emotions, and you'll start to feel a *little* bit better. You don't have to act hard, cold, or put up a front to please anyone. Please yourself.

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posted May 29, 2013 09:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CatMote     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i love emotional people. i love being around emotional people. i would rather hang out with a person who is upset and on the verge of tears than a person who completely detaches themself from all emotion.
i know how you feel goatcat. i am a very emotional person but i try to find outlets.
have you tried anything for outlets?
btw, if somebody doesnt like you because you are emotional, then let those people go. you will find some nice water dominant people

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posted May 29, 2013 09:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Find a job where you omit yourself from equation and only care about others.

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posted May 30, 2013 01:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Oshun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I too am very sensitive and emotional, HOWEVER there is a wonderful book that you should buy immediately. It's called the Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle. You might have heard about it, it's super popular. It will literally wake you up from being caught and stuck in your emotions. After all emotion means disturbance in Latin.

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I too am very sensitive and emotional, HOWEVER there is a wonderful book that you should buy immediately. It's called the Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle. You might have heard about it, it's super popular. It will literally wake you up from being caught and stuck in your emotions. After all emotion means disturbance in Latin.

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posted May 30, 2013 02:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for freebrainstorms     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
you're wrong. you are beautiful the way you are and people who are deep too will understand your sadness and respect it, and fail to understand those who're always happy. like attracts like. if you were fake happy all the time, ud attract ppl who are not suited for you bc they might rly be happy carefree ppl and once they get to know u they will not understand u. they will call ur deep emotions as u being "a drama queen"

Plus, sadness...you are sad for a reason. our feelings are there for a logical reason, and to ignore them is extremely unwise for listening to ur feeluings is what will give ur life meaning n purpose. I should know, as a water sign.

Perhaps you are sad bc the world is a terrible place and someone has done you wrong. well if u stay sad about this, then it'll eat away at you and maybe it'll make u passionate enough to go and give speeches in classrooms about it, or participate in protests about what you're against.

It is sadness and frustration that make us happy in the end. Like the olympic runner who wins the medal and u see the extreme happiness in his reaction. Why is he so happy? bc of his extreme anxiety and frustration at reaching his goal. he worked hard at it, he had sleepless nights worrying about it, he trained for years. If everyone were happy superficial and carefree then there would never be classical music being written, sad love songs, works of art inspired by suffering in love, never be pioneers or ppl who are passionate for what they do or who feel theyre doing something bc they feel its their purpose, and most of all, we would never have people who stand up for something.


i love you. both of you. all of you.

i can't believe i'm going to quote buffy at you, but this still remains one of my favourite quotes about passion and you my friend feel strongly about everything, and that's passion, straight up.

“Passion. It lies in all of us. Sleeping... waiting... and though unwanted, unbidden, it will stir... open its jaws and howl. It speaks to us... guides us. Passion rules us all. And we obey. What other choice do we have? Passion is the source of our finest moments. The joy of love... the clarity of hatred... the ecstasy of grief. It hurts sometimes more than we can bear. If we could live without passion, maybe we'd know some kind of peace. But we would be hollow. Empty rooms, shuttered and dank. Without passion, we'd be truly dead.”

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posted May 30, 2013 02:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for somethingexcellent     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What are transits doing to you, goatcat?

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posted May 30, 2013 03:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I feel the opposite. I feel like I draw so much strength from my emotions. If anything it bothers me to be around people I see as unemotional or too detached for my liking. I am surprised you think being emotional makes you unattractive. I find cold people unattractive.

I don't think your emotions make you sick. It's your self-criticism and lack of acceptance for your emotions that could make you sick. I think you need to go with the flow of what you feel and stop analysing or criticising everything.

When I hear this kind of anti-emotion... pro-rational thought - argument... It invariably brings up the image of a man in my mind. It seems like a very traditionally masculine thing to downplay emotion. I'm very egalitarian in my views - and for that reason, I'll never agree with or 'like' an argument that downplays things traditionally seen as feminine: right-brain so to speak --- while singing praises to things traditionally seen as masculine: left-brain stuff.

To be frank - with Uranus transiting over my Sun in Aries I have a lot of fire and fighting spirit in me these days - so you're lucky you're not a man making this thread lol
I'd probably be here debating the issue and firing online barbed arrows your way -- all day long -- in the spirit of egalitarianism! It's not personal

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posted May 30, 2013 03:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Twirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Orange:
It's all in your head.

Outside of your head, the world is still moving and in the grand scheme of life, your worries are basically meaningless

Imagine you were the Wonder Woman and have the power to control your brains, (which by the way is so attainable only that we don't know how), and you tell the sucker, your brain, to chill the f*** down.


I find it funny people speak of the brain and mind. Feelings are felt in the body. They try to tell us something and show us where the discrepancy is between mind-brain-acting outward- our life. They show us in which areas the unbalance exists and are there to help align more with our true selves. Recognising the emotions and allowing to feel them and learning to work with them is greatly healing. That doesn't mean you have to act on every single one though, but once you allow yourself that you feel it, more 'space' already emerges inside. It's just that we come from a mind orientated society and thus emotions are set aside as something unwanted while they are actually a gift just as valuable as that of the mind. Or so I see and experience it.

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posted May 30, 2013 04:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Odette:
I feel the opposite. I feel like I draw so much strength from my emotions. If anything it bothers me to be around people I see as unemotional or too detached for my liking. I am surprised you think being emotional makes you unattractive. I find cold people unattractive.

I don't think your emotions make you sick. It's your self-criticism and lack of acceptance for your emotions that could make you sick. I think you need to go with the flow of what you feel and stop analysing or criticising everything.

When I hear this kind of anti-emotion... pro-rational thought - argument... It invariably brings up the image of a man in my mind. It seems like a very traditionally masculine thing to downplay emotion. I'm very egalitarian in my views - and for that reason, I'll never agree with or 'like' an argument that downplays things traditionally seen as feminine: right-brain so to speak --- while singing praises to things traditionally seen as masculine: left-brain stuff.

To be frank - with Uranus transiting over my Sun in Aries I have a lot of fire and fighting spirit in me these days - so you're lucky you're not a man making this thread lol
I'd probably be here debating the issue and firing online barbed arrows your way -- all day long -- in the spirit of egalitarianism! It's not personal


Perfectly said

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posted May 30, 2013 06:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Oshun:
[...] It's called the Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle. You might have heard about it, it's super popular. It will literally wake you up from being caught and stuck in your emotions. After all emotion means disturbance in Latin.

Read it. It's worth it.

That book literally changed my life, not saying I'm in a perfect place but man.. it's made me realize a lot of things, and helped me make a change within myself and my life in general.

I used to be extremely emotional and it was a nightmare. I don't think emotions should control us or dictate our behaviour. They can point to some things, yes, but in the end they're just that - fleeting emotions that will eventually pass.

I'd like to add that there are healthy emotions - the ones that pop up naturally and only last for a few minutes - and then there is your mind, which makes you think that you're feeling something. That's usually what happens when you "wallow" in a negative "emotion" for too long. It's simply not natural nor healthy (unless we're talking about extreme situations like loss) - it's basically your mind convincing you that you're sad / unhappy, because it's the emotion your ego associates with most. When you're used to feeling unhappy, well.. your whole identity is built on that idea - "I'm an emotional / moody / whatever person. That's who I am". But everything starts from the mind. A thought, an idea becomes your reality, your truth. And you can change that, by training your mind to stop the negative / useless thoughts.

But really, read the book. The author explains it much better than me!

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posted May 30, 2013 08:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lehia2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Being emotional is underestimated.
Maybe what's bothering you is not the fact that you're emotional, but the fact that you haven't learned how to deal with your emotions.

Society makes us think that being logical is better that being emotional, and a lot of times it is. But, then again, emotional people have to deal with a lot of crap within themselves, and that makes them so much stronger than not-so-emotionally inclined people, in many aspects.

I believe emotional people are one step ahead. Being whiney has nothing to do with being emotional, you just choose to whine. If it bothers you, you need to learn how to invest all that energy on something else.
Emotions are beautiful just gotta learn how to handle them!

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