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Topic: How do Moon in Pisces handle a break-up ??
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Jessica2407 Knowflake Posts: 2068 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 30, 2013 12:26 PM
^^ I have the square, cancer moon sq pluto. My sis has moon in virgo.
I know I probably shouldn't judge anyone based on astrological aspects/placement, but the critical side of Virgo really gets under my skin and pinches really hard.
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its_aqua Knowflake Posts: 371 From: Mars Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 30, 2013 12:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407: ^^ I have the square, cancer moon sq pluto. My sis has moon in virgo.
I know I probably shouldn't judge anyone based on astrological aspects/placement, but the critical side of Virgo really gets under my skin and pinches really hard.
Oh I feel youu I have Moon in Aries exactly quincunx Pluto in Scorpio
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starmoon Knowflake Posts: 567 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted May 30, 2013 12:58 PM
I do kind of think that his moon in pisces would be overshadowed by all the virgo you say he has. pisces moon is definitely emotional and would be sad about the end of the relationship, but it doesn't necessarily mean they will be emotional over the person ... my first-hand experience w/pisces is that they are more emotional about animals, the injured, the sick, the homeless, causes, etc. than with people who are actually close to them. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 1346 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 30, 2013 01:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407: ^^ I have the square, cancer moon sq pluto. My sis has moon in virgo.
I know I probably shouldn't judge anyone based on astrological aspects/placement, but the critical side of Virgo really gets under my skin and pinches really hard.
That's why I am glad I have Pisces NN it helps balance and snaps me out of Virgo. IP: Logged |
its_aqua Knowflake Posts: 371 From: Mars Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 30, 2013 01:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by starmoon: I do kind of think that his moon in pisces would be overshadowed by all the virgo you say he has. pisces moon is definitely emotional and would be sad about the end of the relationship, but it doesn't necessarily mean they will be emotional over the person ... my first-hand experience w/pisces is that they are more emotional about animals, the injured, the sick, the homeless, causes, etc. than with people who are actually close to them.
Yeah, he can be so critical and cold even with his close people like for instance his mum or sister. I pointed to him twice that yelling at his sister in front of me wasnt nice but I had to explain to him, didnt seem like something he would even bother to think of.
Probably the time he was most nurturing was when I had a surgery, he was very nice. Well he is affectionate, but he isnt emotional if that makes any sense. IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 624 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted May 30, 2013 01:38 PM
YAY FOR VIRGO!!!!!!! IP: Logged |
CatMote Knowflake Posts: 155 From: New Britain, CT, United States Registered: Apr 2013
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posted May 30, 2013 01:54 PM
he will hide his emotion i think. he will feel it very much but he will hide it. almost because hes afraid of analyzing the emotion... hes being a douchebag because hes being passive aggressive. he wants you back and he knows being an ass will get your attention. was being passive aggressive a common theme in your relationship? he might take to escapism in some way. drinking, drugs, music, outlets, sleeping alot so he can dream, video games... break ups take a lot out of us pisces moons, it almost requires a full recharge. i wouldnt play his games. i would let him to his own devices. ------------------ Sun Aries Moon Pisces Mars Pisces Venus Pisces Mercury Aries Jupiter in Virgo Saturn in Aquarius Pluto in Scorpio Neptune and Uranus in Capricorn Ascendant Libra IP: Logged |
its_aqua Knowflake Posts: 371 From: Mars Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 30, 2013 02:21 PM
quote: Originally posted by CatMote: he will hide his emotion i think. he will feel it very much but he will hide it. almost because hes afraid of analyzing the emotion... hes being a douchebag because hes being passive aggressive. he wants you back and he knows being an ass will get your attention. was being passive aggressive a common theme in your relationship? he might take to escapism in some way. drinking, drugs, music, outlets, sleeping alot so he can dream, video games... break ups take a lot out of us pisces moons, it almost requires a full recharge. i wouldnt play his games. i would let him to his own devices.
Hmm yeah I get what you mean about him being passive aggressive. Because when I explained to him that his behaviour showed that he is a douche and doesnt care about me , he was offended and insisted that this wasnt the case but he was just being exteemely selfish.
How do you specifically define passive agressive behaviour? Could you bring some examples? Do you think he will re appear? About him being passive agressive, yeah maybe you mean that on the phone he did mention sth about breaking up but didnt say anything and was surprised when i told him i wanted to break up with him. even if he was provokatevely asking me what i thought we should, he didnt expect me to really say it.
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CatMote Knowflake Posts: 155 From: New Britain, CT, United States Registered: Apr 2013
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posted May 30, 2013 03:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by its_aqua: Hmm yeah I get what you mean about him being passive aggressive. Because when I explained to him that his behaviour showed that he is a douche and doesnt care about me , he was offended and insisted that this wasnt the case but he was just being exteemely selfish. How do you specifically define passive agressive behaviour? Could you bring some examples? Do you think he will re appear? About him being passive agressive, yeah maybe you mean that on the phone he did mention sth about breaking up but didnt say anything and was surprised when i told him i wanted to break up with him. even if he was provokatevely asking me what i thought we should, he didnt expect me to really say it.
i guess how i define passive aggressive behavior is trying to control or manipulate a situation or a person through discrete ways. yes thats a vague answer but everybody is different so everybody does it differently.i think he will try to re appear at some point. maybe not as a boyfriend. to me, emotions about people dont disappear but it sounds like your ex is earth dominant and i am very water dominant, so maybe somebody with more earth in their chart can tell what they would do? ------------------ Sun Aries Moon Pisces Mars Pisces Venus Pisces Mercury Aries Jupiter in Virgo Saturn in Aquarius Pluto in Scorpio Neptune and Uranus in Capricorn Ascendant Libra IP: Logged |
Cherri Knowflake Posts: 28 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted May 30, 2013 03:24 PM
I am a Pisces Moon and I will assume that a heavy Pluto and Neptune influence have something to do with my sensitivity.When I got dumped once, I cried for days. I moped around, tried to talk him out of it, cried more. It was absolutely horrible. I did not handle it well. At all. IP: Logged |
its_aqua Knowflake Posts: 371 From: Mars Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 30, 2013 03:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by Cherri: I am a Pisces Moon and I will assume that a heavy Pluto and Neptune influence have something to do with my sensitivity.When I got dumped once, I cried for days. I moped around, tried to talk him out of it, cried more. It was absolutely horrible. I did not handle it well. At all.
Sorry to hear you had an awful break up Cheri, hope you feel better now
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its_aqua Knowflake Posts: 371 From: Mars Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 30, 2013 03:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by CatMote: [QUOTE]Originally posted by its_aqua: [b] Hmm yeah I get what you mean about him being passive aggressive. Because when I explained to him that his behaviour showed that he is a douche and doesnt care about me , he was offended and insisted that this wasnt the case but he was just being exteemely selfish. How do you specifically define passive agressive behaviour? Could you bring some examples? Do you think he will re appear? About him being passive agressive, yeah maybe you mean that on the phone he did mention sth about breaking up but didnt say anything and was surprised when i told him i wanted to break up with him. even if he was provokatevely asking me what i thought we should, he didnt expect me to really say it.
i guess how i define passive aggressive behavior is trying to control or manipulate a situation or a person through discrete ways. yes thats a vague answer but everybody is different so everybody does it differently.i think he will try to re appear at some point. maybe not as a boyfriend. to me, emotions about people dont disappear but it sounds like your ex is earth dominant and i am very water dominant, so maybe somebody with more earth in their chart can tell what they would do? [/B][/QUOTE] Your definition makes it pretty clear to me, that I myself, act pretty passive- agressive at times! Anyway, yeah he's all earth, and he is also fire void :/ IP: Logged |
inthemisosoup Knowflake Posts: 459 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted May 30, 2013 03:56 PM
We get sad. Very sad. Then we drink the pain away and wallow in our own self pity. Sometimes for months. Eventually we look at it is a learning experience, forgive the ex, and move on.Of course, this isnt the case so much if the break up is I itiated by the Pisces moon. The only guy I broke up w8th I didnt spend a day feeling sad about. No hard feelings bu5 I was done. It takes a lottt to push a pisces moon the break up even in a toxic relationship though. IP: Logged |
Cherri Knowflake Posts: 28 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted May 31, 2013 09:11 AM
quote: Originally posted by its_aqua: Sorry to hear you had an awful break up Cheri, hope you feel better now
It's ok, it was more than 20 years ago, lol! I am happily married with kids now. Ironically it was because of that breakup that I met my husband. And that ex who dumped me came crawling back a few months later and found out I had another bf, hahaha on him! IP: Logged |