posted May 30, 2013 10:06 AM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
OMG you poor thing having to deal with that cluster of Virgo planets!!! You definitely have my sympathies!

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posted May 30, 2013 10:08 AM            

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Originally posted by its_aqua:
Tell me more!! What about the cluster?!? How would you describe such a person ?!?
It was the first time I ever encountered with a Virgo an he is a very Virgoan Virgo indeed!

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posted May 30, 2013 10:11 AM            

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posted May 30, 2013 10:15 AM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
From my experience, a very exacting, critical person with very little if any empathy. Pisces moon could balance it out some but still, lots of Virgo planets, in my experience, can be quite an obstacle if you are trying to get really close and have a ltr. They can be nice at first and superficially but when you gotta live with one day in and day out...great difficulty is an understatement.

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Oh this is so true.. He was so nice at first, but as time passed he became another person, or should I better say he showed his true colours?!? I'm very emotional and all but he would be vert critical and even when he saw me crying he could never come close enough.

He told me that although he never, ever keeps contact with his exes, it seems weird to him to have me out of his life, and that if he feels like he wants to contact me or see me again he will.

posted May 30, 2013 10:17 AM            

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Originally posted by its_aqua:
Hey everyone,
I broke up with my Virgo boyfriend, basically the problem was that he seemed too aloof, too emotionless. I mean I have Pluto exactly square Venus and when I end up being dramatic and all it's because I'm expecting some kind of reaction! But he never reacted, well maybe it's not that he's emotion less but maybe he doesnt get easily "manipulated".

He has all his planets (except for the outers) in Virgo, and he has a Pisces Moon so from your experience how do men with Pisces Moon react to a break up? And if you know any Virgo men with Pisces moon even better!

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How are YOU dealing with this break up?

posted May 30, 2013 10:18 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Moon in Pisces is the most sensitive moon and so break ups would be very hard

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I remember my father breaking up with his spouse, he drunk every night and his whole life had practically became crying on the phone and drinking, but he has plenty of planets such as a Venus in Aries,Aqua Sun etc

posted May 30, 2013 10:21 AM            

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Originally posted by its_aqua:

Oh this is so true.. He was so nice at first, but as time passed he became another person, or should I better say he showed his true colours?!? I'm very emotional and all but he would be vert critical and even when he saw me crying he could never come close enough.

He told me that although he never, ever keeps contact with his exes, it seems weird to him to have me out of his life, and that if he feels like he wants to contact me or see me again he will.

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The person I know with many Virgo planets, moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars and Jupiter who happens to be my mother hated crying and openly scorned it. You should find someone with a little less Virgo imo. I am not dissing our sign (I am a Virgo sun) and I like it when it's balanced but my experience with too much Virgo has been overwhelming so can't say I appreciate it.

posted May 30, 2013 10:23 AM            

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How are YOU dealing with this break up?

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posted May 30, 2013 10:26 AM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
The person I know with many Virgo planets, moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars and Jupiter who happens to be my mother hated crying and openly scorned it. You should find someone with a little less Virgo imo. I am not dissing our sign (I am a Virgo sun) and I like it when it's balanced but my experience with too much Virgo has been overwhelming so can't say I appreciate it.

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I absolutely love my female Virgo friends, and they usually have a Fire ASC or Moon which makes a nice, balanced combo IMO.
It was the first time I had a relationship with someone who didnt have water in his chart (except his Moon), and it turned out to be very difficult and weird for me!

posted May 30, 2013 10:31 AM            

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I absolutely love my female Virgo friends, and they usually have a Fire ASC or Moon which makes a nice, balanced combo IMO.
It was the first time I had a relationship with someone who didnt have water in his chart (except his Moon), and it turned out to be very difficult and weird for me!

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posted May 30, 2013 10:33 AM            

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He was so nice at first Jess, but he became a douche bag the last days, so basically I was very angry with him and I know that breaking up with him was the best I could do. I have a health problem lately and I need to remain without nerves and live peacefully,and he caused me much anxiety and couldn't get better.
I hope now I feel less anxious and get well soon.

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That bad huh?

posted May 30, 2013 10:33 AM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
For me too and I haven't attempted having a ltr with one. I just have my mom to deal with. Good news is, your ex could mellow out in a few years. My mom has, some, but she needed a lot of counseling to get there, so there could be hope for this guy...

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posted May 30, 2013 10:34 AM            

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Originally posted by its_aqua:

I remember my father breaking up with his spouse, he drunk every night and his whole life had practically became crying on the phone and drinking, but he has plenty of planets such as a Venus in Aries,Aqua Sun etc

He was pretty tough yesterday but when I told him I want to break up it was like he smoothened a bit. He seemed nice again. But I dont know, all this planets in Virgo dont over-influence his Moon?

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Venus in Aries is very, very hard for a man.

It is in the detriment and is harder for men than woman imo

It kind of switches around male and female roles.

The man gets passive and the woman gets aggressive.

So, a man with this suffers quite a bit imo

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posted May 30, 2013 10:36 AM            

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That bad huh?

Well you just have to take care of yourself and forget about him now!

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posted May 30, 2013 10:37 AM            

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Originally posted by its_aqua:
Do you believe he will be upset and care about it or wont even think about it?

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posted May 30, 2013 10:38 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:

Venus in Aries is very, very hard for a man. It is in the detriment and is harder for men than woman imo

It kind of switches around male and female roles. The man gets passive and the woman gets aggressive.
So, a man with this suffers quite a bit imo

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Hmm that sounds like my father! Women are usually the first to chase him or make a move on him, lol. I always thought though that Venus in Aries is a Venus position of a player.

posted May 30, 2013 10:41 AM            

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They do get upset! Those Virgo planets are not immune to feeling emotions,they just don't like emotions in others. So yes, he probably felt the greatest impact after you made yourself more unavailable. It might even zap him into realizing he should tone things down some and try to figure out why someone might be upset with what he says. Usually, with the Virgo placements, it's about what they say more than anything since Virgo is very vocal.

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Exactly! He used to say mean or hurtful things without even realising how these words sound to the other person. And he would always excuse himself by saying that he just does what he feels. Even if that means him being a douche bag -_-

posted May 30, 2013 10:41 AM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
They do get upset! Those Virgo planets are not immune to feeling emotions,they just don't like emotions in others. So yes, he probably felt the greatest impact after you made yourself more unavailable. It might even zap him into realizing he should tone things down some and try to figure out why someone might be upset with what he says. Usually, with the Virgo placements, it's about what they say more than anything since Virgo is very vocal.

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Exactly! He used to say mean or hurtful things without even realising how these words sound to the other person. And he would always excuse himself by saying that he just does what he feels. Even if that means him being a douche bag -_-

posted May 30, 2013 10:50 AM            

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Originally posted by its_aqua:
Exactly! He used to say mean or hurtful things without even realising how these words sound to the other person. And he would always excuse himself by saying that he just does what he feels. Even if that means him being a douche bag -_-

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posted May 30, 2013 11:39 AM            

Can relate.

I've attributed it to moon sq pluto.moon in cancer 6th house.

posted May 30, 2013 11:40 AM            

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Starlight,I feel for you.

Can relate.

I've attributed it to moon sq pluto.moon in cancer 6th house.

My sister has moon in virgo,she is so self righteous sometimes,a am holier than thou attitude that is so annoying,and she is SO critical.Yes I could see how that could cost her a few relationships, starting with me.

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posted May 30, 2013 12:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
Starlight,I feel for you.

Can relate.

I've attributed it to moon sq pluto.moon in cancer 6th house.

My sister has moon in virgo,she is so self righteous sometimes,a am holier than thou attitude that is so annoying,and she is SO critical.Yes I could see how that could cost her a few relationships, starting with me.

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