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Topic: Gemini men, Can you please give me some insight on this? Others are welcome too.
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Pisces-Sweety
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posted June 07, 2013 07:49 AM
  
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aquaguy91
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posted June 07, 2013 08:08 AM
All I can say is the guy must be nuts if he doesn't want to spend time with you. IP: Logged |
mockingbird
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posted June 07, 2013 08:22 AM
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Originally posted by Pisces-Sweety:
Editing out the quote.
Know that I say this as a fellow Pisces sun, a fellow Pisces sun married to a Gemini Sun, even a Pisces sun who met and wooed her husband at work:Run from this dude. His calling you "sexy" and complimenting you physically while at work coupled with his lack of actual interest = a hot mess that you don't want to be a part of. Even if you do somehow end up being in a relationship with him, the way he's currently treating you is the way he interacts with women he doesn't want to date. Think about that for a minute.
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Jessica2407
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posted June 07, 2013 08:25 AM
''What I'm wondering about though, is it in gemini's nature to be this friendly towards one person yet not like them in a romantic way?''
Yes. Not restricted to only gemini. Many signs can be just friendly but in a platonic way. ''I decided to get him a nice small gift for his bday. I gave him the gift yesterday and he really liked it. He even offered to hug me( I turned it down politely because it was a bit awkward since I barely know him on a deep personal level.) He didn't get mad or anything. We spoke for a little while and then he had to leave. I had to leave as well. '' Is it normal for Pisces sun to buy birthday gifts for someone they barely know on a personal level? Seriously am asking, because I find pisces confusing. I'll NEVER spend a cent on someone if I barely know the person. If I give someone a gift,I'm communicating that I like him enough to accept a hug when he is offering. Maybe you should think about how YOU are coming across to HIM. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
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posted June 07, 2013 08:29 AM
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Doux Rêve
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posted June 07, 2013 08:40 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
All I can say is the guy must be nuts if he doesn't want to spend time with you.
Right?!
Pisces-Sweety is such a sweetheart, and she's gorgeous.. he's definitely missing out. Okay.. he has like a ton of personal planets in Gemini, so it's possible that he was just flirting with you without actually wanting to get closer. I know it sounds bad but Gemini people can sometimes be very flirty, but that doesn't mean that they want to hang out with you or have a relationship with you. Ooor, he is intimidated  IP: Logged |
mockingbird
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posted June 07, 2013 08:55 AM
Jess - I can't say if this was the case for PS, but at my last office I was that chick who got everyone cards (and sometimes gifts) and donuts on special days.People even said that they looked forward to my cards because they were good and fit the person. Re: presents: There was this one dude who always talked about and gave referrals for new music and obscure movies. One year for his birthday, I got him a shirt off of woot that said, "I listen to bands that don't even exist yet" because it was perfect and only $10.
If he had offered to hug me...well, I wouldn't have refused, but it would have been awkward and would have never happened again.
He didn't, though, and proudly wore his shirt to work about once a month (we were in tech support, so we could totally wear tees). My (now) husband got a 6 pack of Virgil's Root Beer for his first work birthday because we'd talked about root beer and I'd mentioned that Virgil's is the gods' own nectar.
If he had offered to hug me, though, I would have accepted. *lecherous look* ------------------
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Venusian Moon
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posted June 07, 2013 09:03 AM
Hes a triple gemini. Stay away.Dont look back.
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Gemini sun 12th.(Gemini/cancer cusp)
Cancer asc 1st
Taurus moon 11th
Taurus venus 11th
Libra mars 3rd
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Jessica2407
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posted June 07, 2013 09:12 AM
@mockingbirdDo you get presents in return? or cards? Gosh, how can I forget!! My sister is like that too!
How right she is! She tells me I imagine the world as black and white, my shade of black and white and I tell her,there is only one shade of black and white!
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charlie
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posted June 07, 2013 09:12 AM
A Gemini Moon........Abort mission. IP: Logged |
mockingbird
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posted June 07, 2013 09:13 AM
Sometimes Mostly it's just that people always treat me to coffee, though, thinking about it. ------------------
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mockingbird
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posted June 07, 2013 09:15 AM
^ And we'd always have sour cream and onion Pringles (I will cut you for a cannister of those) at meetings.
They're guys and don't really "do" cards and thoughtful little gifts, but communicate nicely through food.
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Pisces-Sweety
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posted June 07, 2013 11:14 AM
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Originally posted by mockingbird:
Run from this dude.His calling you "sexy" and complimenting you physically while at work coupled with his lack of actual interest = a hot mess that you don't want to be a part of. Even if you do somehow end up being in a relationship with him, the way he's currently treating you is the way he interacts with women he doesn't want to date. Think about that for a minute. [/B]
When we talk, we really click. Sometimes he finishes my sentences. I know for a fact that we have chemistry. I just don't know what's wrong with him. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
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posted June 07, 2013 11:18 AM
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Originally posted by mockingbird:
^ And we'd always have sour cream and onion Pringles (I will cut you for a cannister of those) at meetings.
They're guys and don't really "do" cards and thoughtful little gifts, but communicate nicely through food.
awww food treats from guys are great! I enjoy them too. IP: Logged |
Pisces-Sweety
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posted June 07, 2013 11:20 AM
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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
''What I'm wondering about though, is it in gemini's nature to be this friendly towards one person yet not like them in a romantic way?''
Yes. Not restricted to only gemini. Many signs can be just friendly but in a platonic way. ''I decided to get him a nice small gift for his bday. I gave him the gift yesterday and he really liked it. He even offered to hug me( I turned it down politely because it was a bit awkward since I barely know him on a deep personal level.) He didn't get mad or anything. We spoke for a little while and then he had to leave. I had to leave as well. '' Is it normal for Pisces sun to buy birthday gifts for someone they barely know on a personal level? Seriously am asking, because I find pisces confusing. I'll NEVER spend a cent on someone if I barely know the person. If I give someone a gift,I'm communicating that I like him enough to accept a hug when he is offering. Maybe you should think about how YOU are coming across to HIM.
Hey jessica, I know it's weird that I brought him a gift, it was actually a cd for my favourite singer. It's nothing special. I didn't think it's nice of me to know his bday and not at least get him something.(It's just how I think.) I guess I ended up looking weirder than I thought. I honestly didn't think it's an awkward thing. I'm like this with a lot of people who i've known for some time. I've been working with him since last feb.(2012) And we constantly talk. He's the one who spoke to me first and he was so friendly. I'm not 100% innocent. I realize now that maybe it was a bit my fault for getting him a gift but really, i do this with everyone i know(for some time and those who ive talked on a deeper level. I mean, this guy told me some personal stuff about him without me even asking). IP: Logged |
Pisces-Sweety
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posted June 07, 2013 11:23 AM
Wow, everyone is running away because he has a lot of gemini planets. You guys are so cute!IP: Logged |
Pisces-Sweety
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posted June 07, 2013 11:25 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
All I can say is the guy must be nuts if he doesn't want to spend time with you.
Aqua, you're absolutely wonderful <3 IP: Logged |
Pisces-Sweety
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posted June 07, 2013 11:26 AM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Right?!
Pisces-Sweety is such a sweetheart, and she's gorgeous.. he's definitely missing out.Okay.. he has like a ton of personal planets in Gemini, so it's possible that he was just flirting with you without actually wanting to get closer. I know it sounds bad but Gemini people can sometimes be very flirty, but that doesn't mean that they want to hang out with you or have a relationship with you. Ooor, he is intimidated
He's not intimated. Trust me. IP: Logged |
mockingbird
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posted June 07, 2013 11:28 AM
There's a saying: When people show you who they are, believe them.It's a cliché, but it's true. He's showed you who he is, he's told you how he feels about the situation.
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aquaguy91
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posted June 07, 2013 11:29 AM
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Originally posted by Pisces-Sweety:
Aqua, you're absolutely wonderful <3
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Jessica2407
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posted June 07, 2013 11:29 AM
Hey Pisces
Nah, just don't read too much into his responses. If he doesn't want to hang out with you, do not try to validate it with astrology.It's not because he is a Gemini or he has so and so planets. If a guy is interested the woman WILL know it, EVEN if he has loads of gemini planets. Quite simple 
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mockingbird
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posted June 07, 2013 11:42 AM
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Pisces-Sweety
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posted June 07, 2013 12:10 PM
I said that in the beginning. I'm not bugging or anything and I won't. I know it's hard to believe but for a fishy, I actually have lots of pride and dignity. I don't cling on to anyone (Except in my own head, I obsess and kill people.) If someone doesn't like me or rejects me, I LEAVE them alone and not in a "I hate you, don't talk to me" way, but in a "If I see you, I'll be formal with you" way. I'm not trying to validate anything with horoscopes, I'm just wondering what is it about his planets that makes him that way.(People here know about horoscopes in details more I do.)IP: Logged |
Pisces-Sweety
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posted June 07, 2013 12:12 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I know. But I haven't always been this way, it took a lot of practice
Aww Just don't become too mushy. IP: Logged |
Pisces-Sweety
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posted June 07, 2013 12:13 PM
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Originally posted by mockingbird:
There's a saying: When people show you who they are, believe them.It's a cliché, but it's true. He's showed you who he is, he's told you how he feels about the situation.
Believe him.
Okay captain.
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