posted June 13, 2013 05:59 AM            

I was looking through all the charts that I have saved on astro earlier while I was responding to a thread about angles and attraction, and I noticed that very few people in my list shared a planet in the same sign as my IC which is Libra. The few who do have placements in Libra are mostly conjunct my IC within 2 degrees and being around these people makes me uncomfortable in my own skin.

It's not that I dislike them, because I honestly can't come up with a reason to do so for any of them. But just being in the same room as these people puts me on edge. There's a connection there, a powerful one, but it's not pleasant, at least not for me.

Does anybody else feel this way? Or know what could cause me to?

posted June 13, 2013 08:39 AM            

It's probably because our IC is afflicted, or the planet they put in your 4th makes hard aspects somewhere in your chart.

Personally, I'm with Bearee on this one, usually IC contacts are very comfortable.

Although, it depends on the whole synastry..
I've known people who make me uncomfortable - they usually put something "masculine" on my IC, like Mars or even the Sun.

posted June 13, 2013 03:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
LionFish,

It's probably because our IC is afflicted, or the planet they put in your 4th makes hard aspects somewhere in your chart.

Personally, I'm with Bearee on this one, usually IC contacts are very comfortable.

Although, it depends on the whole synastry..
I've known people who make me uncomfortable - they usually put something "masculine" on my IC, like Mars or even the Sun.

That's because the IC is a very private, intimate place. It's the lowest point in the chart, directly opposite the MC - so it's hidden, we don't always want someone to touch us there.

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No afflictions to my IC, Neptune does square it's ruler, but that's as close as it gets.

The masculine planet bit might have something to do with it:

One of these people, we should be absolute best friends if you look at our synastry.. Moon conj Moon, Sun sextile Sun, Sun-Moon DW (sextile & trine), both of us have Mars in Sag... but her Uranus hangs out on my IC conjunct almost exactly. I love her to pieces, but I feel like I can't just be me when I'm with her.

Another friend has his Sun in the exact same spot as her Uranus and I feel exactly the same around him as I do her. But I feel less guilty about it, probably because we don't have the other awesome synastry aspects I share with the first person..

There are a couple others I could look at, I think one person had their Pluto/Saturn conjunction about 2 degrees away.

posted November 13, 2022 03:13 PM            

I meet Cap Moons a lot though(10th). I get on with them , then i don't. Its up/down most times.

posted November 18, 2022 03:58 AM            

He had nothing conjunct my NN/MC.

Conjunct IC bonds are powerful, but it can get get real resentful if nothing conjuncts the MC/NN.

posted November 18, 2022 05:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Rooted_Tree_33:
Aaah, that’s a good insight/awareness, Stawr! Thanks for that

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posted November 29, 2022 03:56 AM            

Like I have genuine, effortless care for them. 💜 And vice versa! It's easy for me to extend them GRACE even after they have p**sed me off.

-The first man I ever fell hard for had Moon & Venus in my 4H.

-The Men I've had the most emotional AND sexual attraction to had their Mars in my 4H!

-An old best friend of mine (of 20+ years) had her Moon in my 4H.

-Another great friend has his Jupiter in my 4H.

-My younger brother (whom I adore) has his Sun in my 4H.

posted November 24, 2023 05:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
My husband's Sun and Jupiter conjuncts my IC. After a while I felt like he was holding me back in life. I learned he never supported my career goals.

He had nothing conjunct my NN/MC.

Conjunct IC bonds are powerful, but it can get get real resentful if nothing conjuncts the MC/NN.

For example I have Leo IC and Aquarius MC...so I think Aries, Sagittarius, Gemini, Libra are good for supporting both sides of the personality.

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posted November 24, 2023 05:19 PM            

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Originally posted by problematique:
not that comfortable.
it’s aquarius placements for me and i’ve had very fated and karmic connections with these people but rarely does it blossom into something … normal (for the lack of a better word).
we do bond over being “the black sheeps” of society, but none of these people ever fullfilled me. i wanted them to but it was always difficult as hell. probably because saturn is in the same sign - always karma with said placements.

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I can completely relate to what you said. My IC is also ruled by Aquarius. When people place their planets there, we do bond over being “the black sheep”, the outcast, the misfit, social rejects…etc

The issue is I have a stellium in Leo in my 10th, so while I may have been any of those things at some point in my life, I have risen above it. It didn’t take all that long.

People who place their planets on my IC often haven’t. They are stuck in black sheep mode, forever rebelling and wondering why their advances are not accepted by others. They want their freedom to choose among people but bemoan there being no takers. 🤔😬

Until my SA Moon progressed into Libra, I felt compelled to respond to their “need” for acceptance. So much so that I hid the fact that not only was I wildly popular but had 700 other friends from someone I was close to who only had me. I wasn’t trying to mislead her but she has 1) extremely low self esteem 2) projects her issues onto others, myself included 3) loves comparing with everyone from her past and present (despite no one actually being in contact with her and living their lives)

Her Sun is conjunct my IC.

My daughter’s Aquarian Sun is also conjunct my IC, the holding back is obvious. In fact anyone who has Aquarian planets next to my IC will hold me back.

It’s not that bad if you don’t have planets in the 10th.