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Topic: 7th house and "open enemies".
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Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 5838 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 03, 2013 10:10 AM
When my planets fall in someone's 7th house, I become competitive with them (internally at least).It can also happen when their planets fall in my 7th. There's some "enmity" there.. not always obvious, but I can sense it. I'm not sure if the other person is aware of the underlying dynamics. Sometimes there's a third party who "triggers" the whole thing, like another friend or lover. But even without that, there's still a feeling of competition. Does anyone ever feel this way with 7th house synastry?
Or is it because I have Mars near the DSC natally?
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StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 3532 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 03, 2013 11:26 AM
The opposite is true! People with planets in someone else's seventh house are perfect for partnership, especially if it's sun, moon, or Venus, Jupiter and Saturn, and there's an intense attraction. If I were doing synastry seventh house is first I would look at. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 5838 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 03, 2013 11:30 AM
Dang it. Must be that way only for me then.IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 3532 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 03, 2013 11:31 AM
You should find someone who's Venus conjuncts your Mars!IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 5838 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 03, 2013 11:36 AM
I don't think I've ever had that one, actually :scratches head while thinking:But hey, I'm a girl, it should be the other way around - the dude's Mars conjuncting my Venus. Otherwise I'm gonna be the guy in the equation. Or maybe that's what I need though - that way I can exert all my Marsian qualities on my victim. :Machiavellian laugh:
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12muddy Knowflake Posts: 560 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 03, 2013 11:41 AM
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StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 3532 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 03, 2013 11:52 AM
What about your Venus sign? Ascendants that put your Venus in another's seventh house are good, too. I have had many friends with Aqua ascendants because of this. I also like the Aries Venus, had a really close friend with this placement putting her Venus in my seventh house. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 45365 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 03, 2013 11:58 AM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: The opposite is true! People with planets in someone else's seventh house are perfect for partnership, especially if it's sun, moon, or Venus, Jupiter and Saturn, and there's an intense attraction. If I were doing synastry seventh house is first I would look at.
I would agree with this. I think it is your Mars conj the DSC, Doux.
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Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 5838 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 03, 2013 11:59 AM
You mean if I put my Venus in someone's 7th house?I like 1st house / 5th house synastry better, to be honest. It's more comfortable and exciting. Maybe I'm falling back on my South Node again, but 7th house seems to be tricky territory to me. It's way out of my comfort zone, I guess. But I just wanted to know if someone else experiences the 7th house the same way as I do.. seems like it's a particularity of my own chart. IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 973 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted July 03, 2013 12:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: I don't think I've ever had that one, actually :scratches head while thinking:But hey, I'm a girl, it should be the other way around - the dude's Mars conjuncting my Venus. Otherwise I'm gonna be the guy in the equation. Or maybe that's what I need though - that way I can exert all my Marsian qualities on my victim. :Machiavellian laugh:
*coffee spew*...t'was too funny... IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 3532 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 03, 2013 12:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: You mean if I put my Venus in someone's 7th house?I like 1st house / 5th house synastry better, to be honest. It's more comfortable and exciting. Maybe I'm falling back on my South Node again, but 7th house seems to be tricky territory to me. It's way out of my comfort zone, I guess. But I just wanted to know if someone else experiences the 7th house the same way as I do.. seems like it's a particularity of my own chart.
I like fifth house synastry, too! However, I have mixed results with ascendant conjunctions :/ IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 5838 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 03, 2013 12:28 PM
At least someone finds me funny.. sometimes. *wink* @ Orange. My Moon likes your DSC, by the way. And Sun and SN and BML. The whole stellium. .. now give me a hug. Starlight,
I have yet to find someone who doesn't like 5th house synastry, lol. Well, 1st house synastry can be competitive, too. The other person can point to the things in yourself that you don't particularly like. Whereas with the 7th house, it's more like they show you what you don't have.. and don't necessarily like. Ugh I don't know. I'm getting confused
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Jessica2407 Moderator Posts: 3649 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted July 03, 2013 12:30 PM
As you know I have a 7th house stellium,I noticed the people I feel or felt more comfortable with are when my 7th house stellium falls in or around their IC/5th house.It's like I feel at home with them, I can be my ugly self with them right from the start without having to play nice and blah blah.As opposed to when my 7th house stellium falls in their 12th. I feel confused and defensive in their company.IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 973 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted July 03, 2013 12:56 PM
yes ^^^^^ I have a 4-planets stellium in my 7th house, and 2 more plnts in my 8th, and all of them fall in Douxie's 4 & 5th houses. She's crazy about me.IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 4378 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 03, 2013 12:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: You should find someone who's Venus conjuncts your Mars!
I LIVE FOR THIS SYNASTRY. Seriously... you guys will be at it like bunnies. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Moderator Posts: 3649 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted July 03, 2013 01:06 PM
lol orange @ Kero I have the opposition with someone. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 5838 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 03, 2013 01:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by Orange: yes ^^^^^ I have a 4-planets stellium in my 7th house, and 2 more plnts in my 8th, and all of them fall in Douxie's 4 & 5th houses. She's crazy about me.
Dude, your planets fall in my 5th house! There's no planets in the 4th.. Some of them are in the 6th tho, but I have it with everyone cause my 6th is huge. But your Moon is in my 1st (teehee). And I put half of my chart in your 8th, so you're the one crazy about me! quote: I have the opposition with someone.
And...?
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Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 4378 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 03, 2013 01:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407: lol orange @ Kero I have the opposition with someone.
Dunno that much about venus/mars oppositions. I've dated so many people with venus conjunct mars, I'm usually the mars person... -_- sucks to be the mars person thou.. I have soooo much self control. Thank the stars I have mars sextile saturn... IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Moderator Posts: 3649 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted July 03, 2013 01:15 PM
It's hot...kinda..even for someone who is so not sexual IP: Logged |
7thGuardian Knowflake Posts: 996 From: Transylvania Registered: May 2012
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posted July 03, 2013 01:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: I LIVE FOR THIS SYNASTRY.Seriously... you guys will be at it like bunnies.
- turn vegetarian, get scared easily, jump all over the place and have a huuuuuge family of little jumpers? O_O! ...now, that's a SCARY IMAGE! O_O! IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 5838 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 03, 2013 01:17 PM
OMG, 7thGuardian! ...
That thing is hot.
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Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 4378 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 03, 2013 01:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407: It's hot...kinda..even for someone who is so not sexual
Are you the mars person? I hope you're the venus person... As the mars person you want to jump across the table and rip off their clothes.. I'm getting hot just thinking of it...
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Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 5838 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 03, 2013 01:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407: It's hot...kinda..even for someone who is so not sexual
Any Pluto aspects?
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Jessica2407 Moderator Posts: 3649 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted July 03, 2013 01:21 PM
We have venus-mars aspects both ways. mars trine mars.venus-mer biquintile his venus-merc DW.IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 4378 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 03, 2013 01:23 PM
I don't like pluto aspects that much.. It gets too controlling and heavy....I usually end up running way probably because there's too many pluto aspects. IP: Logged |