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Topic: Skipped Step and does it ever get resolved?
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Doux Rêve
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posted July 10, 2013 12:24 PM
  
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rajin
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posted July 10, 2013 12:24 PM
Doux,
How long will the transits last? 10 years seem like a long enough time in the purgatory, especially when I don't even understand what I have done wrong. I am tired, soul weary of waking up each morning to face a bleak future. Will I ever have any happiness in my life? or have I used up my share of joy for this lifetime and all I face now is grief and sorrow?
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Textbook
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From: Scotland
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted July 10, 2013 12:25 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
 Don't poke holes in my glorious advice, Textbook!
Aww you tried though, you tried lmao. Rajin - Yeah, it always goes that way I think if it's real. I think cord-cutting probably does work if it isn't really a twin soul type of bond, but if it is? I think cord-cutting is essentially useless. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted July 10, 2013 12:28 PM
Still better than crying and being desperate for years, without even attempting to do anything.Just move on.
There's no way around it. Choice is yours.
Rajin,
I don't know how long your transits will last, check on astro.com. And please, don't think that the way you feel is inevitable. You can always choose to react positively. IP: Logged |
rajin
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posted July 10, 2013 01:08 PM
Thanks Doux. Appreciate your kick in the ass wake-up call. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted July 10, 2013 01:10 PM
You're welcome, rajin.It's just that it makes my heart ache when I see people who suffer when clearly, they could be so much happier. Stay strong and don't forget: you can get through this. Better things are on your way, promise. Take care of yourself ~ IP: Logged |
rajin
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posted July 10, 2013 01:26 PM
Thanks Doux. Good wishes go a long way and we can never have enough friends. So I would like to thank each one of you for being kind with your time and advise. It is a good forum to make friends and also learn something about astrology. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 10, 2013 01:28 PM
Rajin--who is on the outside of your synastry wheel?------------------
Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal
http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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rajin
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posted July 10, 2013 01:37 PM
Hi Ami,
I am the scorpio Sun, he is Libra sun. IP: Logged |
lalalinda
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 10, 2013 04:23 PM
Hello rajin, Forgiveness is all important when dealing with Karmic Debt.
You have to get to the point where you
Forgive them,
Let them go,
and wish them well.
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"For all those who believe, expect a miracle.”
Linda Goodman 1925-1995 IP: Logged |
rajin
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posted July 10, 2013 05:00 PM
Hi Linda,
I understand that but I am still not sure what is the cosmic plan of making us meet again and again if there is nothing to be achieved from it. He hurts me, then walks away, what is the lesson I have to learn from it? If I am supposed to evolve and grow, does ti not make sense that he should be a part of it when clearly we seem to have unresolved business with each other.
Is the Universe just cruel to keep tearing my scab away time and again so I bleed afresh all the time? Too much happiness makes us arrogant, but too much grief just makes us cynical and bitter. I don't want to be that, why is it that my pain never stops?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 10, 2013 07:14 PM
I think you can't see him for who he is. Also, his Moon opposes your stellium so that would not feel good in a relationship imo------------------
Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal
http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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rajin
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posted July 10, 2013 09:11 PM
Thanks Ami. I understand why you say that- The sun-neptune conjunction in synastry. His moon also falls in my 4th house, does that mean he is my ideal for a family?
Are there any good aspects between our charts? Do you see the skipped step in the chart? Could you tell me if that is the issue?and what should I do to understand him better and make this work?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted July 10, 2013 09:17 PM
I don't see Karma as most people do as I don't believe in past lives. I believe in what you sow, you reap in this life but you were asking about a different thing, I think, so I didn't answer.Lets see about good aspects. ------------------
Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal
http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 10, 2013 09:19 PM
Mars oppose venus would be sexy and Pluto conj merc would be soulful.------------------
Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal
http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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rajin
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posted July 10, 2013 11:14 PM
Thanks Ami. If you can provide any insights about transits and how I should deal with them, I would be grateful. Doux said I have difficult transits lasting for a while now.
Thanks hon. You always have my back.IP: Logged |
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