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Topic: People who obsess over relationships ?!
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Doux Rêve
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posted July 11, 2013 03:23 PM
  
There are always exceptions, but we can still say what placements are more likely to behave in a certain way.IP: Logged |
Brontex
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posted July 11, 2013 03:23 PM
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Simultaneously strong Venus and Mars influences is what I've seen.
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7th house planets.Sometimes - Scorpio influence combined with Libra.
I've got a pretty heavy concentration of planets and asteroids in Libra/Scorpio, 6th and 7th House, plus Venus square Mars (Sag and Leo, respectively). This is a problem I can honestly say I've never had. 2+ years is a short relationship for me. And I usually take at least a year off before getting back into anything remotely serious. I do however have a knack for finding crazy/obsessive Aqua girls. Example #1 tried to burn my apartment down while I was in it. (Man, oil paints go up quick.) Example #2 broke in while I was away, stole an heirloom engagement ring, sold it, and then used the money to get a boob job. IP: Logged |
Textbook
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posted July 11, 2013 03:28 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
There are always exceptions, but we can still say what placements are more likely to behave in a certain way.
According to that then, which am I supposedly? Cuz I have all the astro-markers for being clingy and obsessed with relationships, and all the astro-markers for being a commitmentphobe (I even have Venus in aspect to Uranus and Gemini on the fifth house cusp, all supposedly indications of being a "player"). IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted July 11, 2013 03:35 PM
You tell me, Textbook!IP: Logged |
Geeky
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posted July 11, 2013 03:47 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
You tell me, Textbook!
You know, me being a smart ___ was thinking with a name like "textbook" it's odd... IP: Logged |
SilverFeather
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From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times
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posted July 11, 2013 03:59 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Uranus, Saturn.
I have both Moon Trine Saturn and Moon Square Uranus. The word " marriage" sends unpleasant chills down my spine everytime I hear it ! Yikes !!
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peachbeigeblue
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posted July 11, 2013 04:37 PM
Hmmm. My chart has contradictions but I ll still chime in.I obsess when I'm in a relationship some. I love fully and especially in the beginning can let it be what I think about most. Thankfully, I have an amazing boyfriend and don't have anything stupid to obsess or worry about this time around. With that said, I am by no means a serial dater. I was very picky before I dated him and completely single for months. I considered guys but none of them were right. I have Gemini Venus in 8th conjunct Chiron and vertex opposite Saturn, Uranus, and Neptune. I have Taurus moon conjunct descendant. Jupiter in my 7th. I would love to be married someday. I wouldn't settle down just to settle down though - only because of true love. IP: Logged |
Leocassandra
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posted July 11, 2013 04:45 PM
7th house planets (especially personal)emphasis on people with planets in 4th-9th houses.
So agree on Libra/Scorpio combination!  IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez
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posted July 11, 2013 05:46 PM
I can be single for years. I was single for 3 years before I met the father of my kids. I have only slept with 3 men my whole 27 years (almost 27). I prefer being on my own..I like spending lots of time locked in a room by myself - weird, I know :P. It goes with my introversion. I do like talking about relationships (any type, not just romantic ones) a lot. Most of my posts here are about relationship based readings that I have done for other people I want to stay with 1 man for the rest of my life though. I don't have a problem doing that, but I also need my space. Venus in Libra 8th house (sextile Uranus makes me have "online flings", but not in real life - I was in a somewhat open relationship, but we didn't do anything outside online flirting, etc) Square Moon
Sun in 7th House
Mercury in 7th House (I like talking/writing about relationships - any type - a lot) IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted July 11, 2013 06:47 PM
The latest person I've met who is like this.. has:Sun - Gemini
Moon - Gemini
Mercury - Taurus
Venus - Gemini
Mars - Cancer Jupiter - Gemini
Saturn - Capricorn
Uranus - Capricorn
Neptune - Capricorn
Pluto - Scorpio She's 23. She has no fire in her chart. IP: Logged |
iliketurtles
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posted July 11, 2013 08:39 PM
a great post on Luurve Karma
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/018494.html taylor swift (leo rising) has chart ruler in the 5th, along with several other planets PLUS vertex...she hasn't been hard up in the area of romance and going by the way she acts post-breakup, its no surprise why she isn't friends with most of them. she seems quite obsessive and possibly clingy. she did some creepy stuff upon her last breakup. i wasn't surprised at her getting angry about it but what she did to him was imo borderline sociopathic. i used to be a fan but shes shown her true colours. i can't listen to her music, she just makes me cringe.
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Originally posted by SilverFeather:
I'm the total opposite btw. I suffer from romantic intimacy issues and I tend to get claustrophobic in relationships which makes very wary of love and men in general.
I actually haven't dated in four years, I'm wondering if this is healthy for my psyche.
havent set foot near a romantic relationship for almost 15 years, for the same reasons. i have moon opposite venus. i have insanely high standards and expect the person to be on their best bahvour at all times. of course i become more realistic when i meet someone i like. i don't date whoever and i certainly don't need attention from anyone. i'm actually proud of my pickiness and ability to resist toxic men and relationships. i dodged a bullet with a recent crush. he turned out to be one of the most toxic people i have ever met and i'm very glad that never came to anything. i'm quite proud that i don't settle for just anything. IMO you can't really give yourself to anyone until you are at truly peace with yourself. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted July 11, 2013 08:41 PM
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Originally posted by Odette:
The latest person I've met who is like this.. has:Sun - Gemini
Moon - Gemini
Mercury - Taurus
Venus - Gemini
Mars - Cancer Jupiter - Gemini
Saturn - Capricorn
Uranus - Capricorn
Neptune - Capricorn
Pluto - Scorpio She's 23. She has no fire in her chart.
Gee... that's not to far off from my own placements....
I have fire singleton thou. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted July 11, 2013 08:51 PM
Totally different Mars, Kero. Your Mars has too much pride, probably, in Aries. Mars in Cancer would be a bit clingy.This is where Aries descendant shows up. I have a lot of independence and will not go on and on about relationships. It can get kinda tiring and boring when people do it. They are just expressing themselves, I guess. I am the opposite and like Silverfeather. I guess I have too much pride. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted July 11, 2013 08:54 PM
Mars in cancer isn't so bad.
I like them a lot actually..
They're passionate and romantic especially with cancer moon.
Clingy.. well I think that depends.
Venus in fire or air would take care of that.IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
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posted July 11, 2013 08:55 PM
I like them, too. or the one I knew, more like, lol. I was totally crushing on someone with Venus/Mars conjuncion in Cancer and totally admired everything he did.IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted July 11, 2013 09:01 PM
Yeah cancer guys are so nice.
from my experience there needs to be more fire or earth otherwise they can be so cowardly when it comes to making decisions..
This one pisces with cancer moon and mars could not cut it...
Once things start getting real and difficult they go back into their shell and hide. LMAOO..Now I vengefully eat crabs and other crustaceans
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StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted July 11, 2013 09:06 PM
I get what you are saying. The guy I knew was delicate yet tremendously strong/obstinate at the same time. He never seemed to be satisfied with anyone in his life. He ended up marrying a girl he grew up with and he was not happy then, either. His sun is in Taurus. It is a sun/moon conjunction in synastry. That's one way to deal with my agony...eat crab legs with delight...good idea! I never looked at it like that before. Pfft, it's a case of Neptune denying anyway lol. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted July 11, 2013 09:28 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I get what you are saying. The guy I knew was delicate yet tremendously strong/obstinate at the same time. He never seemed to be satisfied with anyone in his life. He ended up marrying a girl he grew up with and he was not happy then, either. His sun is in Taurus. It is a sun/moon conjunction in synastry. That's one way to deal with my agony...eat crab legs with delight...good idea! I never looked at it like that before. Pfft, it's a case of Neptune denying anyway lol.
Wow star.. that sounds him kinda.. We were going to elope and spend our lives together...
Cancers are soo convincing like that... It's probably for the best.
I wouldn't want to end up like your friends wife. That's just horrible.. I tend to avoid dating people with too much water.
They pull on your heart strings... IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted July 11, 2013 09:37 PM
I've learned don't trust a sun/moon conjunction where Neptune's involved lol. It was fun while it lasted. I liked his personality a lot and he was really cute, too but when he's unhappy with someone wow! He complained to me about people he knew. He probably said the same to them about me lol. Oh well.IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted July 11, 2013 09:39 PM
Ohhh dang you guys were together..
I thought you were friends.
Yeahh..
Neptune sucks in synastry...IP: Logged |
SilverFeather
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From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted July 11, 2013 09:42 PM
I dated a Cancer once, biggest mistake of my life..------------------
Sagittarius Sun
Sagittarius Venus
Sagittarius Mars
Sagittarius Mercury
Wait what's else isn't in Sagittarius ?
oh right ....
Sagittarius North Node. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
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posted July 11, 2013 09:42 PM
He visited and me and a friend were going to visit him but I got cold feet so he became disenchanted after that but we talked. I knew about his childhood sweetheart, didn't want to put myself in the middle of that. I guess he saw it as a sign I wasn't that into it. Too complicated for me. Too much Neptune!IP: Logged |
beckylee
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From: japan
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 11, 2013 09:44 PM
I have sun-pluto-mars in Scorpio in 5th house and Libra venus in 4th. Do I obsess over relationships ? I'm not sure. It never worked when I tried desperately to find someone. It always happened naturally. But I obsess over whoever I'm in love with.I have read somewhere that in life, we do most of what we do as if we are in front of an audience, which is basically family and friends and the people we care for. For me, when I'm in love, that person becomes all the audience I need. I feel complete and strong and ambitious about life. But then, when the love or passion dies, it sucks. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted July 11, 2013 09:46 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
He visited and me and a friend were going to visit him but I got cold feet so he became disenchanted after that but we talked. I knew about his childhood sweetheart, didn't want to put myself in the middle of that. I guess he saw it as a sign I wasn't that into it. Too complicated for me. Too much Neptune!
I know, lets murder each others crabs and move on with our lives!!!
or we could just get some Genitrex.. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
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posted July 11, 2013 09:53 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
I know, lets murder each others crabs and move on with our lives!!!
Haha, I have forgiven. In fact, I encouraged him to work harder at getting along with his wife and he told me he was getting along better then he stopped communicating. I think he just wanted someone to complain about his marriage to. So, it's all good, you know? IP: Logged |
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