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SilverFeather Knowflake Posts: 272 From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times Registered: Aug 2012	posted July 11, 2013 02:27 PM I had a friend who couldn't remain single for more than three days. In one year, she dated seven guys, one after another without even taking time to breath in between !! She obsessed over every single one of them and in then end none of them stayed. She is an Aries Asc/Leo Moon with Pluto in Scorpio conjunct DC. So I'm wondering here what would make someone obsess over relationships/dating like this ? It's almost like if they can't date, they don't exist ! I'm the total opposite btw. I suffer from romantic intimacy issues and I tend to get claustrophobic in relationships which makes very wary of love and men in general. I actually haven't dated in four years, I'm wondering if this is healthy for my psyche. IP: Logged
somethingexcellent Knowflake Posts: 1583 From: vodka fine, I'm so divine Registered: Nov 2012	posted July 11, 2013 02:32 PM Simultaneously strong Venus and Mars influences is what I've seen. IP: Logged
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 4523 From: Registered: Dec 2010	posted July 11, 2013 02:35 PM 7th house planets. Sometimes - Scorpio influence combined with Libra. IP: Logged
SilverFeather Knowflake Posts: 272 From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times Registered: Aug 2012	posted July 11, 2013 02:37 PM quote: Originally posted by somethingexcellent: Simultaneously strong Venus and Mars influences is what I've seen. say....Venus conjunct Mars in Libra ? IP: Logged
SilverFeather Knowflake Posts: 272 From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times Registered: Aug 2012	posted July 11, 2013 02:37 PM quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: 7th house planets. Sometimes - Scorpio influence combined with Libra. so true IP: Logged
Geeky Knowflake Posts: 465 From: Registered: Dec 2012	posted July 11, 2013 02:39 PM Leo-influenced people go after what they want (I have Leo asc). I also have Scorpio Venus so I am the endless/hopeless romantic. It is an INTENSE placement. I feel like I need to love someone and without that, it does feel like I have to find it. I did find it (luckily!) but it was hell until I did. I genuinely felt a little broken... like I NEEDED my partner. I have kids and pets to love but I still had love left over for a partner... it is hard to explain. And when I found him it was like, "oh THERE you are silly... were you lost?!" as if I'd known him forever. IP: Logged
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 3065 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012	posted July 11, 2013 02:39 PM Moon conjunct venus.... IP: Logged
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 4523 From: Registered: Dec 2010	posted July 11, 2013 02:44 PM Yeah Moon / Venus conjunction, opposition or square. IP: Logged
SilverFeather Knowflake Posts: 272 From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times Registered: Aug 2012	posted July 11, 2013 02:45 PM quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: Moon conjunct venus.... what about Venus opp Moon ?? IP: Logged
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 3065 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012	posted July 11, 2013 02:45 PM ^^ Yeah it sucks. I constantly need affection and someone stroking my hair.... I just like to feel loved. this is probably I have so many taurus friends.. IP: Logged
SilverFeather Knowflake Posts: 272 From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times Registered: Aug 2012	posted July 11, 2013 02:46 PM quote: Originally posted by Geeky: Leo-influenced people go after what they want (I have Leo asc). I also have Scorpio Venus so I am the endless/hopeless romantic. It is an INTENSE placement. I feel like I need to love someone and without that, it does feel like I have to find it. I did find it (luckily!) but it was hell until I did. I genuinely felt a little broken... like I NEEDED my partner. I have kids and pets to love but I still had love left over for a partner... it is hard to explain. And when I found him it was like, "oh THERE you are silly... were you lost?!" as if I'd known him forever. Your last sentence ! wow... so heartwarming IP: Logged
SilverFeather Knowflake Posts: 272 From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times Registered: Aug 2012	posted July 11, 2013 02:47 PM How about people who are the opposite ? People who shy away from relationships like myself ? IP: Logged
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 3065 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012	posted July 11, 2013 02:48 PM quote: Originally posted by SilverFeather: what about Venus opp Moon ?? Hannie has it :P............ I think with oppositions the native may have the need to feel excessively loved. needing to find a balance. So these natives may date anyone that gives them attention? I think Hannie has that problem! IP: Logged
SilverFeather Knowflake Posts: 272 From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times Registered: Aug 2012	posted July 11, 2013 02:52 PM quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: Hannie has it :P............ That explains a lot IP: Logged
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 4523 From: Registered: Dec 2010	posted July 11, 2013 02:56 PM quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: So these natives may date anyone that gives them attention? Yes. IP: Logged
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 4523 From: Registered: Dec 2010	posted July 11, 2013 02:57 PM quote: Originally posted by SilverFeather: How about people who are the opposite ? People who shy away from relationships like myself ? Uranus, Saturn. IP: Logged
SilverFeather Knowflake Posts: 272 From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times Registered: Aug 2012	posted July 11, 2013 02:57 PM quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: Yes. That isn't healthy IP: Logged
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 1662 From: Saturn Registered: Nov 2012	posted July 11, 2013 03:00 PM quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: Yeah Moon / Venus conjunction, opposition or square. Not a square ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 3065 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012	posted July 11, 2013 03:00 PM I've dated a lot of venus in aries natives. They're aren't that obsessive in relationships. The negative thing is they blow through so many relationships! IP: Logged
Geeky Knowflake Posts: 465 From: Registered: Dec 2012	posted July 11, 2013 03:01 PM quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: 7th house planets. Sometimes - Scorpio influence combined with Libra. I have no planets in H7, but I do have Scorpio Venus & Libra Mars. IP: Logged
Geeky Knowflake Posts: 465 From: Registered: Dec 2012	posted July 11, 2013 03:02 PM quote: Originally posted by SilverFeather: say....Venus conjunct Mars in Libra ? Bingo. IP: Logged
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 3065 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012	posted July 11, 2013 03:04 PM Venus in libra opp mars in aries would be... DANGEROUS lol IP: Logged
Geeky Knowflake Posts: 465 From: Registered: Dec 2012	posted July 11, 2013 03:05 PM quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: So these natives may date anyone that gives them attention? Oh gods no!! I am very picky. Virgo sun after all! However, historically, I have "used" people for different purposes (used is a bad word choice, but not sure what else to say). Example: I had a handful of calculated one-night stands with friends/acquaintances during my single life because I knew it would never be more than sex & I can separate sex from love. IP: Logged
Geeky Knowflake Posts: 465 From: Registered: Dec 2012	posted July 11, 2013 03:08 PM quote: Originally posted by SilverFeather: That isn't healthy No, it isn't. Younger/immature romantics aren't able to use clear thinking in these situations. I wasn't always "healthy" in my approach because I saw my passion as something defective in me. Once I embraced the "crazy", I was able to reign it in. IP: Logged
Textbook Knowflake Posts: 82 From: Scotland Registered: Jun 2013	posted July 11, 2013 03:18 PM These kinda threads always make me laugh because people rattle off the typical stereotypes : Libra, 7th house, blah blah blah. Then they always say Uranus for the opposite. Then someone like me shows up with a heavily tenanted 7th house, a stellium in Libra, AND a strong Uranus...and they don't know which stereotype to pin on me lmao. IP: Logged

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