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Topic: Saturn in 3rd house people
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StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
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posted July 24, 2013 07:47 AM
  
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Originally posted by Lioness:
I have Saturn in h3, it's conjunct the IC, so I guess translated as in both houses.Yes I was denied siblings.
Hey, I'm an only child too Lioness!
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Lioness
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posted July 24, 2013 08:39 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Lioness:
[b]I have Saturn in h3, it's conjunct the IC, so I guess translated as in both houses.Yes I was denied siblings.
Hey, I'm an only child too Lioness![/B][/QUOTE]
Welcome to the sibling-less club. 
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meissieri
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From: Chiron, Moon and Neptune with Saturn watching over them.
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posted July 25, 2013 05:42 AM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Yes Saturn squares my asc.Yes I feel ignored a lot or no one seems to understand anything I say.
I must speak another language.. Lol What bugs me is when I make a suggestion, and everyone looks at me like I'm crazy... Then 5 mins later someone else says the exact same thing.. Every one seems to think its the best idea ever...
Euhhh... I hate that..
Thought so about the square... doesn't make it any easier. Do you often get that people think you're shy, look too busy to talk to or just lazy? Ugh! I know the feeling.  I'm sorry that keeps happening to you. Sometimes it'd be nice to get that acknowledgement for your good ideas - and I think Saturn in the 3rd people do have them, they're just not confident enough to assert themselves every time. I often feel like I have to literally yell or cut people off mid-convo just so I can finally put in my share. People talking over me time after time... oh boy. Like you're speaking another language, yeah. Saying things spontaneously isn't really happening. quote:
Originally posted by libraschoice77:
^^Yes thats exactly how I feel, I am glad someone understands! Sometimes when I am with a group of people from work or function I will try to speak up about something and all of a sudden someone else starts talking right over me! And then people have the nerve to ask me 'oh why are you so quiet' lol. There are many occasions when I would mull over what to say only to find myself not saying it because I worry about how it would sound if I said it outloud. With my Saturn I dont have it aspecting the ASC, but it is unaspected with its energy more at work alone.
Wow. Seriously, are you my long lost sibling or something?  Sorry, 3rd house joke. The way you talk about yourself in a group... yeah, exactly how I feel in any myself. There's so much you don't say anyway, trying to downplay it as "wasn't that important anyway" right? It's just awkward to draw a convo back to something 5 topics ago just because you finally have a chance to say something. Bleeehh. Could you tell me how else an unaspected Saturn works? I imagine it'd put a lot of emphasis on the trouble you have with being understood and talking to people. IP: Logged |
Panthera Leo
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posted July 25, 2013 10:03 AM
I am an only child.Perhaps it was one of the blessings of Saturn in the 3rd.
I think Saturn in the 3rd makes me take a cautious approach when communicating with other people.I think it makes me pessimistic and gloomy and sometimes prone to feeling depressed.
My Saturn in Capricorn opposes Jupiter in Cancer and squares my Libra Ascendant.If I use the Placidus house system using modern rulers Saturn doesn't rule any of my houses since I have intercepted signs.If I use traditional rulers Saturn would Rule the 4th house since Saturn traditionally also ruled Aquarius.If I use the Equal house system the Saturn rules my 4th house. Jupiter is my 3rd house ruler.It sextiles my Moon opposes Saturn and Squares my Ascendant.
I also have Retrograde Uranus and Neptune in Capricorn in the 3rd beside my Retrograde Saturn.
I think my 3rd house causes most of the problems in my chart.I have also been diagnosed with Asperger Syndrome. IP: Logged |
libraschoice77
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From: A Danielle Steele Novel
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posted July 26, 2013 12:20 AM
Meissieri, same thing with me lol. What is your moon sign? By the way my sister is a Leo but she has a Cap moon though.IP: Logged |
meissieri
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From: Chiron, Moon and Neptune with Saturn watching over them.
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posted July 26, 2013 06:07 PM
Wow, kinda scary how one placement plays out the same way with us both! I see how that fits with your Saturn 3rd house. I'm a Cap moon as well, but an only child anyway. Maybe Uranus here takes things over - Uranus does what he wants! What house does your Saturn rule? Maybe it's connected... IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted July 26, 2013 10:35 PM
I think, most people think I'm boring when they meet me.I don't do well in large groups especially if I don't know them.
I'm just not comfortable.
I rarely drink, I'm not much on drinking...
So most friends want to go out and just drink.. I'm just over that..
I can't stand when some drunk guy hits on me.. Yuck So I guess I'm boring.. Lol IP: Logged |
Panthera Leo
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posted July 26, 2013 10:58 PM
I think I know how you feel about large crowds Lioness.I don't really drink much myself either.
I do hate when people get to drunk to know what their doing or get aggressive.Do you think your Saturn in the 3rd makes others judge you before getting to know you ? Do you think it draws negative attention to you ?IP: Logged |
acousticbob
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From: UK
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted July 26, 2013 11:00 PM
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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
3. I often ramble and make too much small talk to compensate for this placement. But beyond the BS I am a deep, sage person of few words and highly interested in philosophy.
This is something I do too. You've expressed it with clarity! lol
I always presumed the small talk may be down to my Virgo Asc but maybe it's my 3rd house Saturn (conjunct Mercury and Pluto). quote:
Originally posted by Lioness:
I rarely drink, I'm not much on drinking...
So most friends want to go out and just drink.. I'm just over that..
I can't stand when some drunk guy hits on me.. YuckSo I guess I'm boring.. Lol
Ditto.
And I'm another 3rd house Saturn only child too. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted July 26, 2013 11:14 PM
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Originally posted by Panthera Leo:
I think I know how you feel about large crowds Lioness.I don't really drink much myself either.
I do hate when people get to drunk to know what their doing or get aggressive.Do you think your Saturn in the 3rd makes others judge you before getting to know you ? Do you think it draws negative attention to you ?
Yes, people judge me right off the bat, but it's usually way off..
I think a lot of people see me as a goody good, but I'm far from it. .. Haha..
People seem to really really see me as a super boring person...
But it's just I'm past the drinking, and bars.
I don't want to spend my life in a dive bar.. I do things, I figure I need a new group if friends, bars are boring to me...
I dislike them, so IMO. It shows.. But it's looked at, as I don't like to have fun...
I get ignored alot when out..
It got to the point, why should I go, no one knows I'm there anyways..
I'm turn invisible or something..
I have even had people ask me, how come you didn't go, I said I did go.. We talked about blah blah, don't you remember. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted July 26, 2013 11:15 PM
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Originally posted by acousticbob:
Ditto.
And I'm another 3rd house Saturn only child too.
I don't do small talk... Lol..
It annoys me..
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Panthera Leo
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posted July 26, 2013 11:30 PM
People tend to judge me to.I think sometimes they also think im a goody two shoes but its not always the case.I think sometimes my Uranus sometimes shocks people.My Neptune probably might also make me appear spaced out at times.It doesn't help that my Uranus and Neptune oppose Venus my chart ruler.They also trine Mars in Taurus in the 7th. It gets worse because my Mars Squares my Leo Sun in the 9th and opposes Pluto in Scorpio the 1st house.I think sometimes people don't know what to think when they meet me.IP: Logged |
Mango
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posted July 27, 2013 09:08 AM
OK so you all don't have siblings. What aspects does your 3rd house ruler make? IP: Logged |
libraschoice77
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From: A Danielle Steele Novel
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posted July 27, 2013 05:39 PM
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Originally posted by meissieri:
Wow, kinda scary how one placement plays out the same way with us both! I see how that fits with your Saturn 3rd house. I'm a Cap moon as well, but an only child anyway. Maybe Uranus here takes things over - Uranus does what he wants! What house does your Saturn rule? Maybe it's connected...
Never thought that placement played out like that for anyone else lol. My Saturn is in Leo and it is on the very end of 2nd house, actually 2nd/3rd house cusp it occupies. Its around 27 degrees.
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StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
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posted July 27, 2013 06:33 PM
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Originally posted by Mango:
OK so you all don't have siblings. What aspects does your 3rd house ruler make?
It's Jupiter, mostly well aspected, on the ascendant from twelfth house, conjunct Uranus, quincunx Saturn. Mars is probably the reason why I'm an only child. Mars is considered a malefic like Saturn.
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KarkaQueen
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From: In my 1st house Uranus and Neptune
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posted July 28, 2013 07:14 AM
3rd house Saturn here I have five siblings, disconnected to all except one IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted July 28, 2013 12:42 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Mango:
OK so you all don't have siblings. What aspects does your 3rd house ruler make?
No siblings Gem Saturn aspects are
Conjunct IC
Sq ASC/DSC
Trine Uranus
Sextile sun, moon, merc IP: Logged |
meissieri
Knowflake Posts: 1249
From: Chiron, Moon and Neptune with Saturn watching over them.
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posted July 31, 2013 06:12 PM
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Originally posted by libraschoice77:
Never thought that placement played out like that for anyone else lol. My Saturn is in Leo and it is on the very end of 2nd house, actually 2nd/3rd house cusp it occupies. Its around 27 degrees.
You're not alone. I'm fighting, too. Oh, I see. Do you value good communication with that second house involved? quote:
Originally posted by Mango:
OK so you all don't have siblings.
What aspects does your 3rd house ruler make?
Ruler's Jupiter in Cancer, 9th. I've got these:
Conjunct MC
Opposition Uranus, Saturn and Neptune
Square Venus and Ascendant
Sextile Mars
Quintile Mercury. It's not just Saturn in the 3rd giving me trouble with communication, no. But I'm glad for that sextile and quintile. Gives me the drive to keep trying, through Mars especially. IP: Logged |
Canadiangirl
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Registered: Nov 2013
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posted July 28, 2014 04:38 PM
libraschoice77:
Sometimes when I am with a group of people from work or function I will try to speak up about something and all of a sudden someone else starts talking right over me! And then people have the nerve to ask me 'oh why are you so quiet' lol. There are many occasions when I would mull over what to say only to find myself not saying it because I worry about how it would sound if I said it outloud. --I have the same problem. I always thought people didn't hear me or understand what I was saying or I somehow made them uncomfortable. Its not like I was saying anything controversial. IP: Logged |
smokeybeverly
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From: denpasar, Bali, Indonesia
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted September 02, 2014 12:50 AM
I have also saturn 3rd house conjunct sun.
I have 4 siblings. And as oldest brother i really feel the responsibility to take care of em (saturn thing).
About the communication problem yes i come across dumber than i actually are. Often times what i tryin to say kinda difficult for me to deliver.
If i try to learn something new. I had to prepare all the things (environment, source of learning, etc.) To set my mood on. And yes i cant learn in crowd. Must be definetely solitude. Thats because, i guess, i chew slowly. Maybe because of the saturn. I have a great ambition. If i decided to learn something. I must be an expert or else i better not to touch the subject. This saturn is square my moon and pluto. Thats the hard part of those all. My mood swinga is really terrible. Failed to bring me to learn anything. Just feel like an ADHD child who need extra care amd attention to shine. Eventually im from a broken home. So thats attention i didnt get. Made me really an awful person troubled to identify with self identity..
I didnt mean to rambling..really.. but just couldnt stand and failed the test i guest. Dont ever think i didnt try a thing and just thinking.. wondering about the problem.. its been a lot and a hard time..if u know.. IP: Logged |
Femme
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From: FL
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posted September 02, 2014 04:30 AM
Saturn in Aqu 3rd. Square Venus/Neptune/Asc Scorpio in 12th. Conjunct SN. Singleton, only air planet. Started reading polifically at age 4. Had to take a special class 1st grade, mild dyslexia with writing, left and right, and clockwise/counter. Sister and brother both in special ed with ongoing adult issues. Also, have half sibs that have never met, 3 brothers. Father left and divorced age 2. Father is an Aquar. Same as 4th house. Much guilt for being "normal". Sense of responsibility towards bro/sis. Painful later. Excruciatingly shy. Very soft spoken (was...Ha!). Deep serious thinker. Sensitive soul. Use to blush to almost tears. Now, oh please, love to flutter deeply on many subjects and so inquisitive. Confident in my silence, if choose. Low self-esteem and depression periodic issues. Was/is misunderstood and had to learn to speak up and correct others with smooth deliberate solid grace and strength. Generally, immediately (moon in Aries). Have had to distance myself as got older from brother and sister. I wish I could take care of them, and tried multiple times, but cannot. I just hold them in my heart and try not to beat myself up about it. Though it still hurts. Pushed myself to face fears. Cheerleading. Youngest member regional theatre group. Spoke in front of entire church congregation and reg asked to interpret with studies. Had to audition for advanced theatre senior class in front of them all in high school and only 9th grader. Glee club impromtu singing. Rock climbing summer amongst much older crowd and terrified of heights. I guess I followed my NN. Grab those Windows of opportunity. Accept the challenge to face your fears or just the challenge. Climb that mountain just to see what is on the other side. Observe others and quietly learn from their mistakes and their strengths. Learn to Love Yourself and Know Who You Are. It is okay to be Quiet and Listen. Personify the Wise Old Owl. One task for now, is to be receptive to others suggestion when it speaks to my soul. Written on phone, so hope this flows and makes sense. IP: Logged |
CAY_512
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posted September 03, 2014 11:09 AM
One person I know has no siblings. Very smart. The other is a baby. She has two siblings by they are 12 & 14 years old. So, since they are older I don't know if they will be gone & off to college by the time she is 6. IP: Logged |
selene77
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Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 06, 2014 12:21 PM
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Mango
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posted November 22, 2014 02:50 AM
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ungumuda
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posted November 22, 2014 07:00 AM
Saturn in 3rd house Cappy.
I have 3 older brothers, but they're a lot older than me, so I guess I have lonely childhood.
I was also very shy, and it was hard to make a friend bac then. I still dont like to talk much. People often surprised when they found out I have gemini sun. I'm very quite gemini IP: Logged |
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