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Topic: Whats the point of Virgo?
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goatcat
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posted July 21, 2013 07:44 AM
  
What's the point in giving, serving, and giving if nobody is going to appreciate it? People just take, take, take.People really don't care about anything but themselves and I feel that Virgo is there just to pick up the mud off their shoes, too. I care too much to the point where I get on people's nerves because it becomes compulsive caring. And it's not that I want everyone to do what I tell them it's just I would at least love for someone to hear me out rather than to reject me because they don't like what I'm saying. But people get like that... I have Virgo rising and Venus in Pisces in the Sixth house, so I always feel like I get the short end of the stick not the good end I would NATURALLY give to you because I care. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted July 21, 2013 07:46 AM
The world needs givers and takers.You just happen to be a giver. You can still fix boundaries though. IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted July 21, 2013 07:47 AM
This is my Scorpio moon speaking always wanting the same energy reciprocated or given back ten fold. Naturally I don't think Virgo or Pisces want recognition for caring but my Capricorn sun and my Scorpio moon do. ------------------
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goatcat
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posted July 21, 2013 07:48 AM
Why can't it be an even exchange? it's not fair.
It takes a toll on me and makes me feel so alone. ------------------
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goatcat
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posted July 21, 2013 07:49 AM
Because I care I expect everyone else to care. Can't help it.------------------
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Hera
Knowflake Posts: 6575
From: Aries fantasy land ^_^
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posted July 21, 2013 07:51 AM
awwww but me woves vurgos!! Especially my Virgo cat Sebastian. My Venus in Taurus trines you and never takes you for granted!! IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted July 21, 2013 07:52 AM
Then try to care less!IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted July 21, 2013 07:52 AM
You're very pretty btw. IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted July 21, 2013 07:53 AM
I give my heart and soul to my relationships. I expect them to have the same concern for me as I do for them ------------------
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Doux Rêve
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posted July 21, 2013 07:55 AM
Then you're not being very smart.Use your brains, girl. IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted July 21, 2013 07:57 AM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Then try to care less!
When I do I become resentful. It takes so much in me not to care so when I finally don't I feel empty and void. I think its my Scorpio moon, when I'm "acting" like I don't care I feel like I'm not being genuine. ------------------
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goatcat
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posted July 21, 2013 07:58 AM
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Originally posted by Hera:
You're very pretty btw.
Thank you  ------------------
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Doux Rêve
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posted July 21, 2013 08:02 AM
Then apply your analytical skills when choosing people you become close to.If you see that they're not in it 100%, don't give them 100%. Learn to control yourself. Otherwise people will keep taking advantage of you. At some point, you gotta realize that you're doing something wrong. Change your attitude. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 21, 2013 09:04 AM
Virgo shouldn't be the only sign who serves others, imo, shouldn't everyone do that? If Virgos are the only ones, that's kinda lop sided and too much of a burden.IP: Logged |
CatMote
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From: New Britain, CT, United States
Registered: Apr 2013
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posted July 21, 2013 09:26 AM
take control of your venus in pisces.
that just makes you give and give and give till you have nothing left with the mindset of "if i give it all, maybe somebody will like me."
i have the same problem and its OK to still give. but you have to be fair to yourself every once in a while, you have to save some of that awesome giving and give it to your self. ------------------
Sun Aries Moon Pisces
Mars Pisces Venus Pisces
Mercury Aries Jupiter in Virgo
Saturn in Aquarius Pluto in Scorpio
Neptune and Uranus in Capricorn
Ascendant Libra IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted July 21, 2013 09:35 AM
^ trueIP: Logged |
beckylee
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Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 21, 2013 09:41 AM
I love your tumblr !IP: Logged |
hippichick
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posted July 21, 2013 09:58 AM
As a Pisces sun, the point of giving is cause that is just what we do, without expectations of reward or even recognition...I stop giving, when I am so emotionally drained and have to re-fill the well, but other than that, I expect nothing back. I just give....all of me.. IP: Logged |
beckylee
Knowflake Posts: 139
From: japan
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 21, 2013 10:46 AM
I have always wanted to know how Virgos see love.Do you really fall in love or do you actually want to help the other person feel better ? IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted July 21, 2013 10:49 AM
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Originally posted by beckylee:
I have always wanted to know how Virgos see love.Do you really fall in love or do you actually want to help the other person feel better ?
Really fall in love.
I don't really get the latter part..help the other feel better? ------------------
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beckylee
Knowflake Posts: 139
From: japan
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 21, 2013 10:55 AM
I mean, did you ever date someone because they were really into you although you were not as crazy about them ? Because you thought they needed you ?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted July 21, 2013 10:59 AM
I am kind of going through the same thing but it is different because I don't have any Virgo. I am an earth void. However, Doux had very wise words that touched me. For me, I need to establish an armor of truth and light around me such that I push away anyone who does not fit with this. I just learned this but it seems similar to what you have to learn  ------------------
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StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 21, 2013 11:26 AM
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Originally posted by beckylee:
I mean, did you ever date someone because they were really into you although you were not as crazy about them ? Because you thought they needed you ?
I have a Virgo sun.Whenever I am in a relationship with someone I always help them out in any way I can. I feel better knowing they are happier because of something I said or did for them. What about when you were dating a Virgo sun? Did you sense he was the same way? IP: Logged |
beckylee
Knowflake Posts: 139
From: japan
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 21, 2013 11:46 AM
Hey you remembered Things got a little complicated. I couldn't handle the thought of a long distance relationship or him making a sacrifice to go on living with me. So he went back to his country. We still plan to see each other. But I'm too much in love with him to manage a ld relationship without going crazy lolI did feel this helping tendency when I ended things but still wanted to see him. He was upset at first but he agreed to go on communicating with me after I almost begged him I also know another Virgo girl who dated a guy she didn't really care about that much after he confessed his love for her. IP: Logged |
Pisces-Sweety
Knowflake Posts: 769
From: Under the Sea
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted July 21, 2013 11:48 AM
I used to be a giver but as i grew older, I became more firm with people. I know this sounds a bit selfish but you have the right to take as well. Everything in life is a two way street. I understand where you're coming from though. Im a pisces with a virgo moon. VERY bad combination.IP: Logged |
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