posted December 26, 2015 12:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Gemmi:
I have this aspect but I have a different problem. I generally tend to cling to people and it is very difficult for me to let go (I also have Venus in 12th house trine Neptune, and Pisces on the DSC), but external circumstances tend to interfere and my friendships and relationships generally break apart :/ Although it happened to me to cut off relationships that were helpless (after some struggle… ) I normally want to keep people in my life but somehow it doesn’t work very well (e.g., I relocate or people have to move, or I struggle with finding a job and it alienates people etc…

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So I have Venus trine Uranus and Venus square Neptune.

posted July 27, 2018 07:09 AM              

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Originally posted by charlie:
I have this and have never had a "normal" traditional relationship. I want one but I am too bloody unpredictable and elusive, sadly.
Men start out being very fascinated but then it always turns into control. I need complete freedom of mind and soul to be able to properly function. I can play the whole housewife thing for a while as long as it's my choice to do so but as soon as I feel pressured or if I sense I 'm being "expected" to do something or behave a certain way I will fast die off like a spring flower in winter.

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I can relate to this completely and I don’t have any Venus-Uranus aspects. Uranus does, however, sextile my Sun, square my moon, quintile my mercury, and semi-square’s my mars all very close degrees.

My mars is in Sagittarius.

Uranus rules my 10H.

posted January 18, 2020 10:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Gemini30:
Not to sound sexist here, but it seems to me that men handle the Venus/Uranus aspect better than women.

I have a cousin who has venus square uranus and her boyfriend has venus opposition uranus and he has proposed to her...twice. She denied him...twice.

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posted January 18, 2020 10:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Gemini30:
Not to sound sexist here, but it seems to me that men handle the Venus/Uranus aspect better than women.

I have a cousin who has venus square uranus and her boyfriend has venus opposition uranus and he has proposed to her...twice. She denied him...twice.

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posted January 24, 2020 02:12 PM            

Been in the same relationship for the last 18 years, with the twist or caveat that we have had an open option for the last 11. But, in the 7 years of monogamy, I never once cheated or seriously contemplated doing so. The most I did in that time, was tell a female friend of mine that I had a dream about us kissing, and I only told her because we both had a mutually strong interest in metaphysics, dreams, etc. I was not "hitting on" her.

The reason why I never cheated or seriously considered doing so in that time, is because the thought of potentially hurting my partner and the potential self guilt, self disappointment etc was way stronger than any attraction or temptation. And I'm way to honest to have tried hiding such actions (and as we're both Twin Souls and she is quite intuitive, she most likely would find out no matter how well I tried to hide it).

Having Libra Moon, and Venus in the 7th in major aspect to the ASC point probably tones down/counter balances some of the Aquarian and Uranian. I'm definitely a bit more attached to relationships than someone who might have just Aqua Venus square Uranus without the combo of strong Libra and Venus also shading in.

But I do need a certain amount of space, some alone time, and independence to be myself. If I feel that I'm being controlled, I will buck and rebel.

How it seems to most manifest besides the open option which I've largely tried and have stayed away from the majority of that time, is that I view women and men as different in some ways, but equals in their worth and value, and I need, or greatly prefer to be friends with a potential partner/lover. Also, having some deeper common ideals is important to me. We don't need to have the same exact beliefs, but if we're going to be in a relationship, I need to know that you value similar things such as kindness, empathy, positive service to others, and some sort of conscious spirituality would be a big plus.

I would never knowingly be with someone who is openly/obviously a full/true narcissist or sociopath, and all that tends to entail as to extreme materialism, extreme selfishness, lack of empathy and conscience, etc, etc, no matter how attractive, charming, etc they might be on the outside. The inner state is a total and complete turn off for me, to the point where I couldn't even seriously contemplate having sex with them.