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Topic: how to respond to aquarius man?
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confused_libra Knowflake Posts: 26 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted July 28, 2013 02:36 PM
Hi, so about a month ago my aquarius ex got back in contact with me and wanted to be friends. we have hung out twice in the past few weeks. it has all been going pretty well actually.last week, he asked me to hang out but i couldn't as i was on vacation but told him i'd be back on saturday. i got back on saturday but never called or texted him and around midnight he texted me and said "are you at home? i thought we had a date tonight". i just said oh i didn't know that was tonight sorry. after that, no response. I know this is a silly question but how should I proceed? It's like I want to make plans but at the same time I don't want to express too much interest as he has hurt me in the past and I'm not ready to be vulnerable with him again yet. Also what do you think he thinks of me? Thanks for any reply! IP: Logged |
starmoon Knowflake Posts: 682 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted July 28, 2013 03:44 PM
you said that he told you he 'wants to be friends' and Aquarians are pretty straight up with what they want. so if you're cool with nothing more, go for it. it doesn't sound like a plea to get you back and unless there is actually true hope of that, why bother?? and you're already starting to play games again with the 'I don't want to show interest' bit... doesn't sound positiveIP: Logged |
confused_libra Knowflake Posts: 26 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted July 28, 2013 04:03 PM
quote: Originally posted by starmoon: you said that he told you he 'wants to be friends' and Aquarians are pretty straight up with what they want. so if you're cool with nothing more, go for it. it doesn't sound like a plea to get you back and unless there is actually true hope of that, why bother?? and you're already starting to play games again with the 'I don't want to show interest' bit... doesn't sound positive
i don't want to date him again, i am cool with just being friends. i guess it's an ego thing where i want him to want me but that's it. whatever IP: Logged |
jellyfishtry Knowflake Posts: 825 From: LaLa land Registered: Apr 2013
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posted July 28, 2013 04:11 PM
I only have one thing to tell you after reading this, and that is to watch out from this guy!!IP: Logged |
confused_libra Knowflake Posts: 26 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted July 28, 2013 04:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by jellyfishtry: I only have one thing to tell you after reading this, and that is to watch out from this guy!!
why is that? kind of creeps me out. IP: Logged |
12thhouser Knowflake Posts: 1397 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 28, 2013 04:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by confused_libra: i don't want to date him again, i am cool with just being friends. i guess it's an ego thing where i want him to want me but that's it. whatever
You want him to want you, but just be friends and not date him? lol ok.
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confused_libra Knowflake Posts: 26 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted July 28, 2013 04:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by 12thhouser: You want him to want you, but just be friends and not date him?lol ok.
Haha. I'm a weirdo.
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hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 5029 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted July 28, 2013 04:29 PM
quote: Originally posted by confused_libra: i don't want to date him again, i am cool with just being friends. i guess it's an ego thing where i want him to want me but that's it. whatever
this admittance will catch some flack, but I'm an Aries, your opposite... and so I understand. How to proceed is to act normal with him, invite him out (when it feels natural) and stick to it this time. Aquarians are also a bit stodgy like Capricorns, but not as moody. (I know, I know, ya'll still have feelings!) IP: Logged |
confused_libra Knowflake Posts: 26 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted July 28, 2013 04:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: this admittance will catch some flack, but I'm an Aries, your opposite... and so I understand. How to proceed is to act normal with him, invite him out (when it feels natural) and stick to it this time. Aquarians are also a bit stodgy like Capricorns, but not as moody. (I know, I know, ya'll still have feelings!)
haha. thank you for an actual reply! i just never initiate contact because i'm not willing to let my pride down again.
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hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 5029 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted July 28, 2013 04:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by confused_libra: haha. thank you for an actual reply! i just never initiate contact because i'm not willing to let my pride down again.
Do you know how to post charts? You should post his, it'll clarify a lot for other people looking at the thread. IP: Logged |
confused_libra Knowflake Posts: 26 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted July 28, 2013 04:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: Do you know how to post charts? You should post his, it'll clarify a lot for other people looking at the thread.
I don't know how to post charts :\. I don't really know much about astrology... just been reading up on Aquarians. IP: Logged |
12thhouser Knowflake Posts: 1397 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 28, 2013 04:54 PM
quote: Originally posted by confused_libra: I don't know how to post charts :\. I don't really know much about astrology... just been reading up on Aquarians. All I know is his birthday is feb 11 1992.. born somewhere in detroit, mi
I am an Aquarius, and I'm finding this thread "amusing." lol IP: Logged |
confused_libra Knowflake Posts: 26 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted July 28, 2013 05:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by 12thhouser: I am an Aquarius, and I'm finding this thread "amusing." lol
lol i'm glad you're enjoying yourself IP: Logged |
12thhouser Knowflake Posts: 1397 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 28, 2013 05:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by confused_libra: lol i'm glad you're enjoying yourself
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hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 5029 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted July 28, 2013 05:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by confused_libra: I don't know how to post charts :\. I don't really know much about astrology... just been reading up on Aquarians.
Okay, I know there's a link detailing instructions but I don't know where to find it, and it's faster for me just to explain it to you: 1. Go to Astro.com and make an account there if you don't already have one. Once you make an account, and you're on the Astro.com home screen page, go to the left side and select "Free Horoscope". From there it should give you five drop-down submenus, one of them being "Horoscope Drawings & Calculations." 2. Select "Horoscope Drawings & Calculations" next. Then click "Extended Chart Selection," this will take you to a more advanced configuring table for drawing up various types of charts (but since you don't know a lot about astrology, just stick to Placidus as a chart type, and Natals.) 3. At the top it'll say "Add New Person," so from there you can enter your info or his, unless you did this previously in which case you can just select his name for a chart analysis. 4. Beneath that it'll ask you to select the chart type you want. Since we're going to be dissecting him (maybe), choose "Natal Chart Wheel." 5. Beneath that is an optional menu designed for horary charts, but it also provides multiple chart type preferences (too long to explain what that means, but select "Placidus") 6. Underneath where it says "Image Size" you also have the option of making his chart anonymous. This will erase names. A lot of users prefer that here (which I find funny... I wonder how many times someone they've been analyzing astrologically was on the same board?) 7. Skip the Additional Objects table, and click "Show The Chart." ____ NOW click the chart again to upload it in it's own window. Save this picture to your documents, and upload it to Photobucket. Photobucket will then provide you with different types of formatting options for various web outlets. You can either select "Direct Link" or "Image URL," but I warn you with the "Image URL" option you'll have to erase the "URL" brackets first for the image to show.
Let me know if you need any further clarification!
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confused_libra Knowflake Posts: 26 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted July 28, 2013 05:27 PM
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12thhouser Knowflake Posts: 1397 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 28, 2013 06:01 PM
confused_libra, could you post a synastry chart of the two of you to see why he keeps pining after you?Also, once you get a chart on photobucket (I use imageshack), use [IMG][/IMG] to post the chart on the fourm. [IMG]direct link of chart[/IMG] IP: Logged |
jellyfishtry Knowflake Posts: 825 From: LaLa land Registered: Apr 2013
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posted July 28, 2013 06:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by confused_libra: why is that? kind of creeps me out.
lol nothing creepy, but he looks like he's playing the mind games, guys of many other signs also play at times...is he a February Aquarian by any chance? IP: Logged |
confused_libra Knowflake Posts: 26 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted July 28, 2013 06:09 PM
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confused_libra Knowflake Posts: 26 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted July 28, 2013 06:11 PM
ok there was the original chart. i'll get a synastry one! thanks for all your help IP: Logged |
12thhouser Knowflake Posts: 1397 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 28, 2013 06:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by jellyfishtry: lol nothing creepy, but he looks like he's playing the mind games, guys of many other signs also play at times...is he a February Aquarian by any chance?
lol I'm a February 10 Aquarius, and I don't play mind games, but maybe February 11 ones do. IP: Logged |
confused_libra Knowflake Posts: 26 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted July 28, 2013 06:14 PM
Synastry: also, i don't know his birth time, so i just put midnight because it forced me to put a time. and i know he was born in MI just not 100% sure where. somewhere near detroit though. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 2900 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 28, 2013 06:56 PM
Your moons and suns are compatible Neptune's being nice too. Looks like there's a lot of flowing energy. Pluto is saying no, though. IP: Logged |
confused_libra Knowflake Posts: 26 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted July 28, 2013 07:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: Your moons and suns are compatible Neptune's being nice too. Looks like there's a lot of flowing energy. Pluto is saying no, though.
haha. thanks. so what exactly does that mean..? i don't know much of anything about astrology. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 2900 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 28, 2013 07:17 PM
You're welcome, confused_libra. TBH what I am seeing is nothing really strong like conjunctions. Tell me more about your relationship. You broke up and now you want to get back together as friends? Do you wish it were more than that? Is he being lukewarm about it?IP: Logged |