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posted July 31, 2013 06:01 PM            

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Your Venus, if it's in his 4th, could mean that your feminine side, your affection and love may affect him on a deeply personal level - usually 4th house synastry is very good for feeling "at home" with someone and not being afraid of opening up to them.
So that's a plus, but again, it's a water house, so things are quite subtle and hidden.

I'm pretty sure he has (or had) feelings for you.
The issue here is - what next?
He's not single anymore and that does complicate things.
Maybe his feelings have faded away, maybe not..
I think you need to have an honest conversation with him to feel at peace.
Otherwise it'll keep haunting you.

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From: Mars
Registered: Nov 2012

posted July 31, 2013 06:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Your Venus, if it's in his 4th, could mean that your feminine side, your affection and love may affect him on a deeply personal level - usually 4th house synastry is very good for feeling "at home" with someone and not being afraid of opening up to them.
So that's a plus, but again, it's a water house, so things are quite subtle and hidden.

I'm pretty sure he has (or had) feelings for you.
The issue here is - what next?
He's not single anymore and that does complicate things.
Maybe his feelings have faded away, maybe not..
I think you need to have an honest conversation with him to feel at peace.
Otherwise it'll keep haunting you.

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Have an honest conversation with him sounds like mountain right now....after all wouldnt he do something if he wanted me in his life? I dont want to rumble about relationship stuff as this is not a relationship forum, but I was glad I could share the synastry and you gave me so insightful advice, at least I know a bit about whats going on astrologically..
I hope he comes back, most Cancers do that.
Its weird you know we were on the same place for holiday and kept bumping into each other and first day he would keep staring at me for hours(my friend told me so, who was keeping an eye on him). But the third day I tried to approach him while I was completely drunk and he just told me you are drunk and left.
So really dont know whats going on.
When we are in front of others he is trying to play it cool, but He is different when we are alone.

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