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Topic: Do Aries women get married later in life?
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lalalinda
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posted July 30, 2013 11:46 PM
  
I know several Aries women who have chosen not to remarry after a divorce or the death of their spouse.Remember, Aries is impulsive and even if they won't admit it are secretly snobbish when it comes to their abilities and self worth. If they are the better provider (make more money) then they just can't help feeling superior however if they love their partner, they never let them know this because deep down they are not superficial. ------------------ "For all those who believe, expect a miracle.”
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hannaramaa
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posted July 31, 2013 12:01 AM
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Originally posted by lalalinda:
I know several Aries women who have chosen not to remarry after a divorce or the death of their spouse.
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Remember, Aries is impulsive and even if they won't admit it are secretly snobbish when it comes to their abilities and self worth. If they are the better provider (make more money) then they just can't help feeling superior however if they love their partner, they never let them know this because deep down they are not superficial.
I agree with the first part, but the second? What does that have to do with marrying later in life?
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Stawr
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posted July 31, 2013 12:30 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Of course some Aries will get married young, go through marriages, depends on aspects. I have Sun square Saturn interestingly enough. But another Sun conjunct Saturn person I know almost got married at 20 or 21! Wonder if it's a pattern?
I have Sun Square Saturn too! I sometimes get told I don't seem like an Aries. Not because I seem "dull" cause people will pick up on my Gem asc
I'm with a guy that never wants to get married. I mean it is just a ceremony and a piece of paper. I know guys aren't into it as much as women. But I never thought I would ever take a guy seriously that flat out says that he never wants to.
If I was getting married I could see my self being a bridezilla! haha
Planning almost anything stresses me out. haha
But of course most girls fantasize about getting married and living happily ever after. But my aunt with Sun conjunct Aries so dull! She always wanted me and my cousins to sit and be quiet and just watch tv. We were kids. COME ON! Anything else we wanted to do she was just like "nooo"
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hannaramaa
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posted July 31, 2013 12:41 AM
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Originally posted by Stawr:
I have Sun Square Saturn too! I sometimes get told I don't seem like an Aries. Not because I seem "dull" cause people will pick up on my Gem ascI'm with a guy that never wants to get married. I mean it is just a ceremony and a piece of paper. I know guys aren't into it as much as women. But I never thought I would ever take a guy seriously that flat out says that he never wants to. If I was getting married I could see my self being a bridezilla! haha
Planning almost anything stresses me out. haha
But of course most girls fantasize about getting married and living happily ever after. But my aunt with Sun conjunct Aries so dull! She always wanted me and my cousins to sit and be quiet and just watch tv. We were kids. COME ON! Anything else we wanted to do she was just like "nooo"
Not to be a downer 'cause I'm currently not in favor of the ol' ball and chain either, but it's more than a piece of paper... it's benefits and tax breaks, and business-y stuff too. That seems to be the only perk at the moment. Gemini ASC, Aries, and Sun square Saturn - are we twins? And your aunt with the Sun conjunct - what? Saturn, or Mars? I was trying to intuit what you meant but it's gone on me. IP: Logged |
Stawr
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posted July 31, 2013 12:52 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Not to be a downer 'cause I'm currently not in favor of the ol' ball and chain either, but it's more than a piece of paper... it's benefits and tax breaks, and business-y stuff too. That seems to be the only perk at the moment.Gemini ASC, Aries, and Sun square Saturn - are we twins? And your aunt with the Sun conjunct - what? Saturn, or Mars? I was trying to intuit what you meant but it's gone on me.
haha! Is your Saturn in Capricorn? Her Sun is conjunct Saturn. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted July 31, 2013 01:21 AM
Saturn is indeed in Capricorn, in my 7H! I'm basically working WITH my chart now instead of against it. Everyone is like "You'll get married before your 40." Oh, will I? -_-IP: Logged |
lalalinda
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posted July 31, 2013 03:07 AM
The second part is more of a practical nature like taxes, already established inheritances/trusts, property, etc.Sometimes it's just easier to leave the status quo as is. ------------------
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Odette
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posted July 31, 2013 03:24 AM
On a practical level - you can also work and make your own money though - which I am happy to do (Cap Mars).I've had relationships in the past years. I'm 27 as well.
I have Venus exactly conj my NN so relationships seem to be part of my karma in this life - but I usually take the exit pretty quickly. My longest rel was my my Libra ex - around 2 yrs.
The one guy I felt closest to though is a Leo. This was the most honest, real and mature connection I have ever had with someone, and if things were different in our lives - we would now be permanently together. But skits happens I guess, so I did let this one get away intentionally. I think it was and is for the best. I'm very happy to have had this experience though because I am clearer now on what I want in a man (because the way he treated me was next to perfect - I've never met a more supportive guy).. and I'm also clearer on what I will not put up with. IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted August 03, 2013 01:47 AM
Sums up my Ariesness quite well.
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Odette
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posted August 03, 2013 02:08 AM
Yes ^ That really - says.it.all.IP: Logged |
Ellygirl7
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posted August 04, 2013 12:06 PM
I have a stellium of planets in Aries (5th house) and Gemini rules my 7th. My ascendant is scorpio, making my descendant in Taurus. I am 24 and have been putting off marriage since I was 18. (Yes, I've been engaged 6 years) and have Sun square Saturn. I think it grounds me so that I can grow past the immaturity that comes with Sun in Aries for my marriage to survive. I want to get married, but things have to be perfect first.IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted August 04, 2013 03:52 PM
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Originally posted by Hera:
Sums up my Ariesness quite well.
This!! Katee Sackhoff and Tricia Helfer, both Aries actresses, are married (or one is soon to be). Helfer married at 29, and Sackhoff is 33.
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Cynnared
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posted August 04, 2013 08:50 PM
I'm middle aged and my Aries Sun opposes Uranus in the 5th. I have Saggy on the 7th and I don't believe in marriage or walking down the aisle. All I have been in is common law relationships and that's about it.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted August 04, 2013 09:49 PM
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Originally posted by Cynnared:
I'm middle aged and my Aries Sun opposes Uranus in the 5th. I have Saggy on the 7th and I don't believe in marriage or walking down the aisle. All I have been in is common law relationships and that's about it.
Interesting. I have similar placements (Sag DSC, and Uranus in the 7) I feel the same way. I used to not, I always thought I'd get married but even partnerships are annoying. So many feelings... feelings to me are like codes I can't speak.
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teasel
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posted August 10, 2013 11:25 PM
http://www.elsaelsa.com/astrology/2013/08/10/aries-women-in-love/ IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted August 11, 2013 09:06 PM
I think it depends on other factors as well. Independence doesn't necessarily require being single. IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted August 11, 2013 11:39 PM
True, but society is still very sexist. Not many men accept the idea of a strong woman, let alone marry her. Nor would we ever want to marry such a person (not me, anyways). IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted August 12, 2013 12:02 AM
It depends on the people you hang out with. quote:
Not many men
ummmm I actually wouldn't say that. I have no idea how many men are accepting and how many are not world-wide (or how many would openly admit to how accepting they are, if they truly are..) - but in my life I feel pretty accepted by a lot of the men around me. Although *some* are sexist to lesser or greater degrees. It's not like sexism is dead.
When they are sexist, I have often found an astrological explanation for their behaviour. There are 12 signs on the astro-wheel and they have 10 planetary rulers. It's interesting to see the varied combinations and how they interact in each person - and also, what different people choose to do with what they 'have' ( with the astro-chart they are born with). I don't feel very bothered by this kind of sexist attitude.. on an emotional level, simply because I've decided long ago to block out such people emotionally - and only interact with them intellectually. I only get emotionally close to people - male & female who are on my wavelength and who are not sexist.
It does bother me though - that people sometimes assume they don't 'exist'.
I think we should be giving those men who are doing the right thing a huge PAT on the back.. and acknowledging their existence.. rather than focusing on those who have negative attitudes towards women.
They get waaaay too much attention in the media ^. I kind of like this quote: "All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing." (attributed to Edmund Burke, although that's disputed...) Sometimes reading gender-related topics (not only on LL, but anywhere) - I feel like we are just not doing enough that is *good* or *positive* - and there is too much emphasis on the proverbially "evil" side of things (which really only gives it more strength and publicity). IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted August 12, 2013 12:30 AM
^ Kind of adding onto this and Hera's opinion, I was going to say that what a "strong" woman is is still blurry. My opinion is men aren't afraid of strong women, but of their own femininity (on some level), which strong women would enhance more. What is "strong" should also be identified. Are we talking a woman that has a career and supports herself? If so, I don't think men are afraid of that in today's dating pool. Slowly but surely the "good provider" stereotype is evolving and men who cling to it actually show to be at a higher risk for emotional problems like depression, anxiety, and low self-esteem than men that don't. Relationships fair better when treating in a more egalitarian manner too. IP: Logged |
Blackbird
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posted August 12, 2013 12:42 AM
Venus conjunct Mars is willing to offer the same things that it asks for.I am a pretty independent person. That's one of the things I ask for, and offer, in a relationship. I also try to find and fix my own issues, because no one else wants to deal with them. At least, I don't think anyone would. So I don't think I would become a problem. And I wouldn't really want a problematic partner myself, either. I seem to have many of the same concerns as you folks, although the only bit of Aries in my chart is my 3rd house cusp, I think. No planets there. Some of this is probably just experience, age and maturity. ------------------
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