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lovehate122
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posted August 02, 2013 05:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lovehate122     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In synastry what would make someone feel like like they can't live without the other person ?

If you've ever felt this way please do tell .
I personally can't see myself ever feeling this way since pretty much all aquarian i just can't relate to that kind of feeling . So what placements in a natal chart would make someone be able to think like this about another person .
I vote Capricorn , or hard Saturn placements.

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birdy
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posted August 02, 2013 06:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for birdy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My opinion is natally Venus/Pluto. Synastry wise Moon/Pluto & Moon/Saturn.

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posted August 02, 2013 06:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sun/Saturn & Moon/Saturn conjunctions.

Sun, Moon, Venus or Mars - conjunct Pluto.

Both would feel like the other is so close to them and so much a part of their lives that they are indispensable.
Only if the conjunction is exact! Otherwise it's not the same. Not a 1 degree orb.. Less than 1.

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posted August 02, 2013 06:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
well... my bf who is all aqua and i are having a very difficult time breaking it off. we broke up after 3 years together and know it's for the best, but we cannot stay away from each other - and i don't mean sexually b/c we haven't been together that way since our split 4 weeks ago. we just have to be around each other. we have moon/pluto conjunction exact - it's our closest aspect. i am moon, and he is pluto. he has pluto in the 1st house. it's VERY hard to imagine life without this person despite the fact we are both very mad at one another and not even sure we want to see each other again. but we still do, as friends right now. we also have venus conjunct pluto at 1 degree, but i think the moon is the problem here ... emotions are all tied up with this person and the venus-pluto attraction won't go away, it's crazy potent despite dislike/hate you may have towards someone. you have to be in their company, it's maddening and self-destructive too. he has everything aqua except his moon, and i think he hates feeling controlled by something greater than him :-) - if you have the placement with someone you will get it and feel it, even an aqua isn't immune

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Doux Rêve
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posted August 02, 2013 07:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Saturn & Pluto hard aspects.

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posted August 02, 2013 07:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Saturn & Pluto hard aspects.

... to Sun, Moon or Venus (or Sun/Moon-mp, but this one has to be very tight, because Saturn and Pluto move so slowly).

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posted August 02, 2013 07:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had a Moon / Saturn / Pluto T-square in the composite once and that was intense as hell.

Literally felt like I *needed* that person to be in my life in some way.

But they aren't, and I'm still alive.

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posted August 02, 2013 07:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peachbeigeblue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is how it is for my boyfriend and I. I have been waiting my whole life for him, without a doubt. Everything I've learned.. every mistake I've made is all OK now that it lead me to him. I literally thank God everyday. I feel blessed we found each other.

To name some of the synastry:
venus conjunct venus (1 degree)
venus trine his mars
DW venus conjunct chiron
DW Jupiter/DC
DW moon conjunct jupiter
DW venus opp saturn and uranus
(both have that natally)
NN conjunct his IC
Sun square pluto

aside from venus, we share the same moon and rising sign as well (and neptune and pluto of course)

k i'm gona stop myself there.

ps my sun/moon MP is 1 degree from my venus, so that gets lump into any of my venus i mentioned.


oh and this is the synastry. i totally misread the thread. all the outer planets afflict either my sun (and mercury), moon, or venus. and if we want to count the quincunx, my mars is afflicted too. sup. but i've been in relationships i could easily move on from before this one.

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posted August 02, 2013 08:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmpressMendez     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We have..

Sun-Saturn square
Moon-Uranus (my ascendant) conjunction
Moon-Pluto square
Venus-Pluto Square
Pluto conjunct asc
Moon-Jupiter square
Mercury opposite Sun (for communication)
Mercury Trine Jupiter
Mercury Trine Venus
Mercury Square Saturn
Sun trine Jupiter
Mercury-ASC
Moon-MC
NN-IC

(Yes I know most aspects are switched up, ie: Mercury-Sun, but you know what I mean lol)

Look at what is important in your chart. Planets that rule your 7th, 8th, 5th, ascendant and their aspects.

Yes, we have kids, but there are many couple with kids or no kids that once they break up they cannot even stand to be around each other. We are always friends no matter what. We forgive each other easily - one day we can be arguing like cats and dogs, the next day all is forgotten - not a word is mentioned.

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posted August 04, 2013 12:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ellygirl7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Definitely Venus-Pluto and Moon-Pluto aspects have that amazing pulling feeling

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