posted August 04, 2013 06:54 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Ugh, YTA, your synastry looks soooo good!

I'm pretty sure you knew all that already though.

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Thank you so much, Doux.

posted August 04, 2013 07:01 AM            

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Originally posted by astrolog:
I agree with Doux. How long have you guys been together and how did you meet? )

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posted August 04, 2013 07:09 AM            

My issues with her: Too much of a firecracker. Fast to jump to conclusions. Sex sex and too much sex. Haha.

What works: common values. Common thought process. Common opinions. Same hobbies. Both are conventional and enjoy familiarity, which is odd considering her extroverted personality. Both are absolutely Alpha personalities. Both strong willed, confident and egotistical, bordering on obnoxious. Both like luxury and being pampered. Sex and more sex.

posted August 04, 2013 07:22 AM            

Which aspects you think contributes to the high sex drive between you. It seems that yours is a very erotic relationship

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Her issues with me: Not communicative enough. Too broody. Too much of a home body.

My issues with her: Too much of a firecracker. Fast to jump to conclusions. Sex sex and too much sex. Haha.

What works: common values. Common thought process. Common opinions. Same hobbies. Both are conventional and enjoy familiarity, which is odd considering her extroverted personality. Both are absolutely Alpha personalities. Both strong willed, confident and egotistical, bordering on obnoxious. Both like luxury and being pampered. Sex and more sex.

I think all that is manifested in the charts.

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posted August 04, 2013 08:32 AM            

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Originally posted by astrolog:
Wow your chart looks good as well..
Venus in 1st. You or your parther must find each other good looking

NN conjunct Pluto..a relationship that is magnetic, powerful and passionate like the planet

I am curious about how your moon in partner's second house play out though? Do you/he regard the other as a possession?

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It may manifest like that (I've never thought of that).

Do you think it may also manifest thus?:
I'll tell him that my main concern is that he's happy in his work.
He'll respond that making as much money as possible and supporting me as he'd like to would make him happy.

posted August 04, 2013 08:44 AM            

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Originally posted by mockingbird:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by astrolog:[b]Wow your chart looks good as well..
Venus in 1st. You or your parther must find each other good looking

NN conjunct Pluto..a relationship that is magnetic, powerful and passionate like the planet

I am curious about how your moon in partner's second house play out though? Do you/he regard the other as a possession?

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It may manifest like that (I've never thought of that).

Do you think it may also manifest thus?:
I'll tell him that my main concern is that he's happy in his work.
He'll respond that making as much money as possible and supporting me as he'd like to would make him happy.

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posted August 04, 2013 09:23 AM            

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Originally posted by astrolog:
You are quite well off if not very well off if I am
not wrong? I see that in Jupiter second house

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Not without some silly hard work. But yes, we are abundantly blessed with resources. That's one of the common bases for marriage.

The Composite Jupiter is also in 2nd House.

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Which aspects you think contributes to the high sex drive between you. It seems that yours is a very erotic relationship

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I have no idea. I was a scoundrel before marriage, going after women with a vengeance and bedding as many as can be. On the other hand, she was pure and chaste and completely untouched. It turns out she's more than I bargained for, and notwithstanding my ego, hot to handle. She was in fashion and design, so she looks the part, which just promotes sex.

posted August 04, 2013 09:38 AM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I have no idea. I was a scoundrel before marriage, going after women with a vengeance and bedding as many as can be. On the other hand, she was pure and chaste and completely untouched. It turns out she's more than I bargained for, and notwithstanding my ego, hot to handle. She was in fashion and design, so she looks the part, which just promotes sex.

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You have both a pretty active sexual profile.
Yours seems a bit more smooth or flowing. With the 5th houe ruler trine the 8th house ruler (Moon trine Vens). No problems in that regard.

Her 5th house ruler VEnus is conjunct Jupiter; Jupiter tends to expand whatever it touches.
It seems that her 5th house ruler is squared by Moon in 12th house (I am not sure about the degrees though, so it might be too wide, no clue really).
With her Venus, Mercury and Jupiter lumped together, there is a suggestion of idealism in this regard together with the Moon placement in 12th house, it could have lead to a decision to refrain from sexual activity unless it (or even he) is "worth" it.
But once going there, it would be in high gear, i think.

Also, Moon rules her ASC, hence her sexual identity is strongly tied to her overall identity and self presentation, including her physicality and how she looks.
It might be a square here, but it only serves to heat up the importance of it even more.

In both natal charts the sexuality is connected to the 3rd house
(the ruler of both your 5th houses is in 3rd house). You also both have a Gemini Moon - whatever that means it gives common ground and a compatibility in terms of emotional needs / reactions and sexual expression, as well as your attitude or ideas about children and education.

Communication might play a big part here. (including ideas, thoughtprocesses, even how you deal with neighbours or siblings)

I don´t really have to get into the chemistry you have. It is boundless!

Your Uranus in conjunction to her important Venus-Jupiter-Mercury-conjunction (Mercury is a bit wide, but I still count it here), heats up and really intensifies her sexual expression. All the better it happens on your DESC, tying into what you need in a relationship.

Her ASC almost exactly falling onto the cusp of your 5th house and conjunct your nodal axis - that is deep soulbonding finding a way of expression through - well sex, creating and children.

To scratch the surface a little bit.

posted August 04, 2013 09:40 AM            

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Originally posted by astrolog:
Is DW the same as DC?

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I am not totally sure what you are asking here. DW = Double Wammy
DC is the descendant, I think. So, they aren't the same in this context.

posted August 04, 2013 09:41 AM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:

Note I have nothing in 5th or 8th.

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It doesn`t matter. It still is prominent through the significatordynamics (ruler of 5th house).

posted August 04, 2013 09:45 AM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:

You have both a pretty active sexual profile.

To scratch the surface a little bit.

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posted August 04, 2013 09:52 AM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I have no idea. I was a scoundrel before marriage, going after women with a vengeance and bedding as many as can be. On the other hand, she was pure and chaste and completely untouched. It turns out she's more than I bargained for, and notwithstanding my ego, hot to handle. She was in fashion and design, so she looks the part, which just promotes sex.

Note I have nothing in 5th or 8th. She only has Neptune in 8th. I attribute it to Capricorn Mars for me. (Whoever said its a feminine sign for men is very wrong) and she especially has a Leo Mars. Note the Pluto in 5th in Composite.

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posted August 04, 2013 09:53 AM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Ceridwen! You are just awesome!!

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Thank you.

posted August 04, 2013 09:59 AM            

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Originally posted by astrolog:
I have moon in second house to with someobe as well. Feel the same way.. Possessive and like to make him happy with possessions what he likes..between married couples are fine but if not it's a big nono lol

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When we first started dating, we kept getting each other gifts, too. We joked that it was a gifts arms race. But it was difficult to stop! I'd just see something that reminded me of him and I'd want him to have it.

re: The rest of it: Later, I'll sit down and try to suss out different parts for you and how they play out. (I'm just ducking in quickly while the kiddos are distracted.)
We're not a 20-year marriage, but we're a very happy 4-year marriage.

The other day he said (paraphrasing from memory), "I talk with other guys, and we've really got something special. I mean, I don't want to claim that we're, like, SPECIAL and absolutely unique, but our marriage is at least in the top 10% best through time."

That's actually quite gushing coming from a guy with as many Saturn contacts as he's got

posted August 04, 2013 10:03 AM            

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Originally posted by mockingbird:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by astrolog:
[b]I have moon in second house to with someobe as well. Feel the same way.. Possessive and like to make him happy with possessions what he likes..between married couples are fine but if not it's a big nono lol

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When we first started dating, we kept getting each other gifts, too. We joked that it was a gifts arms race. But it was difficult to stop! I'd just see something that reminded me of him and I'd want him to have it.

re: The rest of it: Later, I'll sit down and try to suss out different parts for you and how they play out. (I'm just ducking in quickly while the kiddos are distracted.)
We're not a 20-year marriage, but we're a very happy 4-year marriage.

The other day he said (paraphrasing from memory), "I talk with other guys, and we've really got something special. I mean, I don't want to claim that we're, like, SPECIAL and absolutely unique, but our marriage is at least in the top 10% best through time."

That's actually quite gushing coming from a guy with as many Saturn contacts as he's got [/B][/QUOTE]

posted August 04, 2013 10:16 AM            

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Originally posted by astrolog:
You mean being prosperous is a pre requisite for your marriage or for all marriages in general

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posted August 04, 2013 10:19 AM            

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Originally posted by astrolog:
hahaha that sounds great and I am happy for you! maybe you can try to read mine for me both I posted though the second one is more important

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*talks through corner of mouth*
(Trying to make sure your thread doesn't get moved to Personal Readings to die a quick death.)

posted August 04, 2013 10:29 AM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
No. Just between my wife and I. It's part of the foundation of our marriage and existence. We set that objective upfront and she is not bashful in telling straight to anyone's face that her attraction to me is partially based on my ability to provide. As for me, it's a natursl male instinct to provide in the best way possible. If this were some primitive village, I would be one of the guys who would go out and hunt for the village.

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And that is EXACTLY why every evaluation of compatibility MUST be BASED on the natals.
Synastry without that is nunsense.
It can only tell you a little bit aobut the chemistry (which is fantastic in itself btw), but compatibility and a possible success / fulfillment in a relationship, must take the natals into account.

Your values are compatible, and THAT is where it all has to start.

(for me personally I couldn`t care less if a man can provide material things for me; it is nice, but not necessary; of course in my case I would need a man who is okay with that. Someone who finds himself being valued to a big part through his ability to provide, might be entirely incompatible with me, as he probably would constantly feel undervalued by me; not because I mean to, but just because we don`t place the same importance on it.

Sorry for that rant. ).

posted August 04, 2013 10:39 AM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
And that is EXACTLY why every evaluation of compatibility MUST be BASED on the natals.
Synastry without that is nunsense.
It can only tell you a little bit aobut the chemistry (which is fantastic in itself btw), but compatibility and a possible success / fulfillment in a relationship, must take the natals into account.

Your values are compatible, and THAT is where it all has to start.

(for me personally I couldn`t care less if a man can provide material things for me; it is nice, but not necessary; of course in my case I would need a man who is okay with that. Someone who finds himself being valued to a big part through his ability to provide, might be entirely incompatible with me, as he probably would constantly feel undervalued by me; not because I mean to, but just because we don`t place the same importance on it.

Sorry for that rant. ).

So my point being, synastry tells you nothing (except for chemistry) until you see it against the backdrop of the natal needs.

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posted August 04, 2013 10:44 AM            

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Originally posted by astrolog:
Do you want to read my natal chart then if you don't mind

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I can`t read your entire natal chart. There is just too much.

posted August 04, 2013 10:50 AM            

* Wouldn't that almost be inherent in synastry analysis since you're looking at the interplay of the two charts, or do you notice a lot of people disregarding that?

* Do you notice consistent patterns in synastry for individuals?

I agree with you on it, though, even with my limited experience. In the past, several people have wondered how our Uranuses play out in synastry, but they work nicely with our individual natals, I think.

posted August 04, 2013 10:55 AM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
I can`t read your entire natal chart. There is just too much.

What is it what you want to know about?

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posted August 04, 2013 11:26 AM            

My dad is on the inside and mother is on the outside.

They got married within the first month of meeting each other.
Although my dad met her 2 years prior at a vacation and fell in love with her but never made a move.. So he went back to tried find her.

A lot of pluto going on, all their stupid arguments are magnified, I swear...