posted August 04, 2013 11:53 AM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
My parents have been married for 28 years.
they had 3 kids together including me.

My dad is on the inside and mother is on the outside.

They got married within the first month of meeting each other.
Although my dad met her 2 years prior at a vacation and fell in love with her but never made a move.. So he went back to tried find her.

A lot of pluto going on, all their stupid arguments are magnified, I swear...

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posted August 04, 2013 01:47 PM            

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Originally posted by astrolog:

What type of a partner does he look for?

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It`s possible that he doesn`t know himself or that there is some confusion surrounding relationships. Things that may be different than they seem on first glance (7th house ruler in 12th house opposite Neptune).
It`s possible that at least until he finds a mature way of expressing (maybe he already has, I donīt know that aobut him naturally), he will find himself drawn to unavailable partners and relationships; this could also imply partners that literally live across the ocean, so geographic distant.

HOwever, qualities he might be looking for definitely have to do with the thought processes, communication and opinionatedness. DESC is in Sagittarius with DESC-ruler in Gemini.
This is the "information/ communication/l earning" axis.
So a partner will need to be able to have a witty talk and who will be able to form their own opinion as well as appreciate HIS opinions.
This DESC-ruler is opposite Neptune (in the 6th house).

It is noteable that ALL signs invlved are MUTABLE, so he would fare well with a partner who is openminded and flexible and adaptable (and yes, also to him).

The aspect to Neptune also brings a bit of a dreamy flair into the equation; while he probably will not genuinely like it or understand it, as he himself is not Neptunian at all (and a Gemini ASC is usually curious, but not really understanding of the mysticism and spirituality often coming with Neptune aspects), he probably will find himself drawn to these people.

But while he might feel attracted (at least to a degree) to this, it will not suffice to satisfy his needs.

He has a tremendous need for being appreciated and will probably seek to fulfil it in sensual sexual ways (Venus-Mars-conjunction in Taurus in 11th house, with them ruling the 5th and 11th house).
So an unearthly, not physical relationship will never be enough for him.
Even though it should be noted that this is squared by Saturn, ruler of the 8th ouse, suggesting some tension when trying to transfer his sexual needs into a relationship and sexual connection (involving a partner).
It also shows even more how important that area is for him.

(One reason it is so important is, that he gains self value from it, or at least strives to; there seem to be some insecurities present with Saturn in 2nd house as ruler of 8th house, squaring the Venus-mars-conjunction in 11th and also involving Moon, as ruler of 2nd house. Big stress on the succedent cross of sexuality and value system.
Big stress doesn`t mean everything is bad and crap, just that it is an important theme, and may actually distract from the 7th house needs because it is just SO prominent).

While we might find what he is looking for in a partner through the 7th house, we never should ignore what he really NEEDS. Emotional needs. They are the basis of everything.
And that leads us to his Moon in Scorpio in the 5th house and ruling the 2nd house (btw is he quite sexy or handsome?).
This Scorpio Moon is also backed up by the Cancer Sun, showing that he has a great emotional depth.
With the Scorpio Moon in 5th, there needs to be a deep intensity, passion and absolute devotion (not to mention determination) for him to feel like he "belongs".
Posessiveness and jealousy as well as powergames and manipulation could play a role, if things donīt work out as he wants them to.

However this Moon is also in a challenging or challenged position, by the opposition to Venus and Mars in 11th house. Very strong emotions there, volatile at times, unless he projects one of the ends of the opposition onto the external world. (or possible girlfriends).

But more importantly Moon is squared by Saturn, and it all focuses on the 2nd, 8th and 5th house (and 11th through Venus and Mars).
Values.

I`d say he absolutely needs a partner he can feel safe with, a partner whom he trusts that she appreciates him and values him immensely.
At the same time he might at times push her away and acting cold and controlling. A Moon-Saturn-square never is easy to integrate.

However, I think what is most important is that he would never be able to be satisfied with a partner who has a triney- blueish horoscopes.

With that I mean that her chart will show some tensions as well, so she can understand the internal struggles. However hopefully she offers some relieving factors as well. In this case I definitely would opt for some nice tight trines or sextiles of her inner planets to his Moon, Saturn, Venus and Mars, while showing a similiar intensity of feeling natally.

posted August 04, 2013 01:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
It`s possible that he doesn`t know himself or that there is some confusion surrounding relationships. Things that may be different than they seem on first glance (7th house ruler in 12th house opposite Neptune).
It`s possible that at least until he finds a mature way of expressing (maybe he already has, I donīt know that aobut him naturally), he will find himself drawn to unavailable partners and relationships; this could also imply partners that literally live across the ocean, so geographic distant.

HOwever, qualities he might be looking for definitely have to do with the thought processes, communication and opinionatedness. DESC is in Sagittarius with DESC-ruler in Gemini.
This is the "information/ communication/l earning" axis.
So a partner will need to be able to have a witty talk and who will be able to form their own opinion as well as appreciate HIS opinions.
This DESC-ruler is opposite Neptune (in the 6th house).

It is noteable that ALL signs invlved are MUTABLE, so he would fare well with a partner who is openminded and flexible and adaptable (and yes, also to him).

The aspect to Neptune also brings a bit of a dreamy flair into the equation; while he probably will not genuinely like it or understand it, as he himself is not Neptunian at all (and a Gemini ASC is usually curious, but not really understanding of the mysticism and spirituality often coming with Neptune aspects), he probably will find himself drawn to these people.

But while he might feel attracted (at least to a degree) to this, it will not suffice to satisfy his needs.

He has a tremendous need for being appreciated and will probably seek to fulfil it in sensual sexual ways (Venus-Mars-conjunction in Taurus in 11th house, with them ruling the 5th and 11th house).
So an unearthly, not physical relationship will never be enough for him.
Even though it should be noted that this is squared by Saturn, ruler of the 8th ouse, suggesting some tension when trying to transfer his sexual needs into a relationship and sexual connection (involving a partner).
It also shows even more how important that area is for him.

(One reason it is so important is, that he gains self value from it, or at least strives to; there seem to be some insecurities present with Saturn in 2nd house as ruler of 8th house, squaring the Venus-mars-conjunction in 11th and also involving Moon, as ruler of 2nd house. Big stress on the succedent cross of sexuality and value system.
Big stress doesn`t mean everything is bad and crap, just that it is an important theme, and may actually distract from the 7th house needs because it is just SO prominent).

While we might find what he is looking for in a partner through the 7th house, we never should ignore what he really NEEDS. Emotional needs. They are the basis of everything.
And that leads us to his Moon in Scorpio in the 5th house and ruling the 2nd house (btw is he quite sexy or handsome?).
This Scorpio Moon is also backed up by the Cancer Sun, showing that he has a great emotional depth.
With the Scorpio Moon in 5th, there needs to be a deep intensity, passion and absolute devotion (not to mention determination) for him to feel like he "belongs".
Posessiveness and jealousy as well as powergames and manipulation could play a role, if things donīt work out as he wants them to.

However this Moon is also in a challenging or challenged position, by the opposition to Venus and Mars in 11th house. Very strong emotions there, volatile at times, unless he projects one of the ends of the opposition onto the external world. (or possible girlfriends).

But more importantly Moon is squared by Saturn, and it all focuses on the 2nd, 8th and 5th house (and 11th through Venus and Mars).
Values.

I`d say he absolutely needs a partner he can feel safe with, a partner whom he trusts that she appreciates him and values him immensely.
At the same time he might at times push her away and acting cold and controlling. A Moon-Saturn-square never is easy to integrate.

However, I think what is most important is that he would never be able to be satisfied with a partner who has a triney- blueish horoscopes.

With that I mean that her chart will show some tensions as well, so she can understand the internal struggles. However hopefully she offers some relieving factors as well. In this case I definitely would opt for some nice tight trines or sextiles of her inner planets to his Moon, Saturn, Venus and Mars, while showing a similiar intensity of feeling natally.

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posted August 04, 2013 02:02 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
It`s possible that he doesn`t know himself or that there is some confusion surrounding relationships. Things that may be different than they seem on first glance (7th house ruler in 12th house opposite Neptune).
It`s possible that at least until he finds a mature way of expressing (maybe he already has, I donīt know that aobut him naturally), he will find himself drawn to unavailable partners and relationships; this could also imply partners that literally live across the ocean, so geographic distant.

HOwever, qualities he might be looking for definitely have to do with the thought processes, communication and opinionatedness. DESC is in Sagittarius with DESC-ruler in Gemini.
This is the "information/ communication/l earning" axis.
So a partner will need to be able to have a witty talk and who will be able to form their own opinion as well as appreciate HIS opinions.
This DESC-ruler is opposite Neptune (in the 6th house).

It is noteable that ALL signs invlved are MUTABLE, so he would fare well with a partner who is openminded and flexible and adaptable (and yes, also to him).

The aspect to Neptune also brings a bit of a dreamy flair into the equation; while he probably will not genuinely like it or understand it, as he himself is not Neptunian at all (and a Gemini ASC is usually curious, but not really understanding of the mysticism and spirituality often coming with Neptune aspects), he probably will find himself drawn to these people.

But while he might feel attracted (at least to a degree) to this, it will not suffice to satisfy his needs.

He has a tremendous need for being appreciated and will probably seek to fulfil it in sensual sexual ways (Venus-Mars-conjunction in Taurus in 11th house, with them ruling the 5th and 11th house).
So an unearthly, not physical relationship will never be enough for him.
Even though it should be noted that this is squared by Saturn, ruler of the 8th ouse, suggesting some tension when trying to transfer his sexual needs into a relationship and sexual connection (involving a partner).
It also shows even more how important that area is for him.

(One reason it is so important is, that he gains self value from it, or at least strives to; there seem to be some insecurities present with Saturn in 2nd house as ruler of 8th house, squaring the Venus-mars-conjunction in 11th and also involving Moon, as ruler of 2nd house. Big stress on the succedent cross of sexuality and value system.
Big stress doesn`t mean everything is bad and crap, just that it is an important theme, and may actually distract from the 7th house needs because it is just SO prominent).

While we might find what he is looking for in a partner through the 7th house, we never should ignore what he really NEEDS. Emotional needs. They are the basis of everything.
And that leads us to his Moon in Scorpio in the 5th house and ruling the 2nd house (btw is he quite sexy or handsome?).
This Scorpio Moon is also backed up by the Cancer Sun, showing that he has a great emotional depth.
With the Scorpio Moon in 5th, there needs to be a deep intensity, passion and absolute devotion (not to mention determination) for him to feel like he "belongs".
Posessiveness and jealousy as well as powergames and manipulation could play a role, if things donīt work out as he wants them to.

However this Moon is also in a challenging or challenged position, by the opposition to Venus and Mars in 11th house. Very strong emotions there, volatile at times, unless he projects one of the ends of the opposition onto the external world. (or possible girlfriends).

But more importantly Moon is squared by Saturn, and it all focuses on the 2nd, 8th and 5th house (and 11th through Venus and Mars).
Values.

I`d say he absolutely needs a partner he can feel safe with, a partner whom he trusts that she appreciates him and values him immensely.
At the same time he might at times push her away and acting cold and controlling. A Moon-Saturn-square never is easy to integrate.

However, I think what is most important is that he would never be able to be satisfied with a partner who has a triney- blueish horoscopes.

With that I mean that her chart will show some tensions as well, so she can understand the internal struggles. However hopefully she offers some relieving factors as well. In this case I definitely would opt for some nice tight trines or sextiles of her inner planets to his Moon, Saturn, Venus and Mars, while showing a similiar intensity of feeling natally.

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posted August 05, 2013 05:40 AM            

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posted August 05, 2013 07:26 AM            

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Originally posted by astrolog:

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posted August 05, 2013 11:30 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Ręve:
I think so, though maybe not many.

Saturn square Moon, Vertex conjunct SN.

That synastry looks more promising but definitely has a red flag - the Neptune opposition to the Sun DW! Can be very, very deceptive.

But there are many indicators for attraction and chemistry - angle conjunctions to planets, Moon opposite Moon, Moon conjunct Venus & Mars, Pluto square Sun & Mercury (can be obsessive but destructive), Venus trine Jupiter & Moon! that one's sweet. Mars trine Venus, sextile Moon.. 8th house Mars DW! That's really hot.

Looks absolutely great for a passionate affair but may not be very long-lasting, and can create a lot of hurt feelings / ego conflicts.

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posted August 17, 2013 03:51 PM            

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posted September 04, 2013 04:20 PM            

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