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I'm so cappy
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posted August 07, 2013 02:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Placements, aspects, you know the story

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teasel
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posted August 07, 2013 02:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I like both.

12th house Uranus, conjunct ascendant.
Moon conjunct Venus in Gemini/SN, too. Sextile Jupiter, trine Pluto.

Sun opposed Uranus, likes to do its own thing... Uranus also aspects my Moon, Venus, Mars, and so on...

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libraschoice77
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posted August 07, 2013 02:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for libraschoice77     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Prefer solitude to being social, have Moon in Cancer 12th and Sun in Libra 4th.

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m.blade
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posted August 07, 2013 02:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for m.blade     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I love to be social I love to talk to others and if I share same interests as someone we will be like best friends I literally can't stand being alone otherwise I'll be alone with that guy inside of me

Sun in Cancer trine ascendant in 8th.
Moon in Leo in 9th. Opposing uranus
Venus in Virgo 9th house sextile mars and trine jupiter

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visions
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posted August 07, 2013 02:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for visions     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i am a 12th saturn conjunct ascendant virgo but a good 11th jupiter in cancer yet.

socializing is a waste of time, you are blaberring with people leading to nothing.....i prefer to read a book or work talents than chatting and dancing. You can need people if you are afraid of solitude but with the age you are led one way to another to be alone so you cannot avoid the crisis and the later you will face the solitude you avoid the harder the crisis will be...taht's why saturnian have hard times when they are Young and good times when they are old because they are used to solitude. Then if you need people to expand your feeling, your thoughts i can understand but actually i don't need someone to express my feeling, or trade emotions etc. i am the self sufficient even in sexual way hum...

But if i met someone who is very original, intellectual, self sufficient, the very independant type with many layers i am really happy to met such people because we are of same meal.

almost all people are annoying, repetitive, harassing, toxic etc....

well, i am the saturnian type lol! i love solitude, read a book, no noise, no talk, just beautiful silence, i like to meditate in park, i like moutain, unreachable place where no one can stand etc...but i must confess somtimes i have the feeling of confinement too but consider avoiding gossip, liar, tiresome, annoying or intrusive people, fake smile, fake face, betrayal, unsaid thing, secret gibe, solicitor, beggar, emotional demanding pattern person, vampire, etc...and then you become soon very glad again. SO hey honey you miss the life people say to me then :"i tell no i am literally enjoying every second by consuming my time for myself". very egoistic though(t)?

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its_aqua
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posted August 07, 2013 02:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for its_aqua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Im vert sociable and have tons of acquintances, Im also a party animal, but I really need my daily space of alone time.
Also, I feel totally comfortable with being alone or doing activities alone. I like shopping alone and I even go to Starbucks or to grab a bite alone.

I would always choose a night out than staying inside for a movie, but I feel equally comfortable when I stay in.

I dunno which placements may do for this, Cappies are supposed to like solitude and Im Capricorn dominant with a Cappy stelium of Mercury,Uranus,Neptune in 7th, and also Saturn in Cap in 8th house conjunct Sun.

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Zander916
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posted August 07, 2013 02:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Zander916     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I'm so cappy
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posted August 07, 2013 02:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for the replies but people, read the title again :P

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Freesia
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posted August 07, 2013 02:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Freesia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by visions:

socializing is a waste of time, you are blaberring with people leading to nothing.....i prefer to read a book or work talents than chatting and dancing. ...taht's why saturnian have hard times when they are Young and good times when they are old...
i love solitude, read a book, no noise, no talk, just beautiful silence, i like to meditate in park, i like moutain, unreachable place where no one can stand etc...

Agree to the above. I like solitude. I beleive it must be my Moon in Virgo conjunct Saturn 10th house.
There are people I need to meet regulary but these are only close friends and my family. And I like them better to sit in the room next to me and not with me cause I usually spend my time alone in reading smtg lol
The difference to Visions post is that I love people in general, I don't think they are annoying, I just have no need to comunicate directly with unknown people. Friends, yes, strangers no.

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sunflower-moon
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posted August 07, 2013 03:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sunflower-moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Definitely prefer solitude to socializing. I generally don't like spending a lot of time talking about superficial things, or the latest gossip or whatever. Just bothers me.

Probably due to Mercury, Venus, Mars, and Jupiter being in the 12th house and maybe Moon opposite Saturn.

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visions
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posted August 07, 2013 03:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for visions     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
do you mean i am quite misanthropic ? hum yeah i am but i have said i love unique people, the insanely smart one like me etc..so i am not misanthropic or totally unsocial like you pretend i must be

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aquaguy91
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posted August 07, 2013 03:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have become alot more anti-social and withdrawn as I have gotten older. Sun conjunct saturn in the 12th house.

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posted August 07, 2013 03:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Violets     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Here are some placements that I think contribute greatly to how and where I socialize:

Aquarius Mercury
trine Pluto and Neptune

Virgo moon

The Aquarius Mercury is very chatty with random people (at the grocery store, when I go out to shows, etc.), and it's something that I absolutely have to have in my life.

The Virgo moon is very particular about who I call my friends (I can count them on one hand). These are trusted, trustworthy individuals who aren't petty and don't "play games" in a friendship.

I also prefer one-on-one conversations, as opposed to a group of people all talking to each other. If I'm at a show, I will talk one-on-one with whoever I'm talking to, even if it's some random person.

All of the aspects and placements combined make it so that I talk to very close friends and family about really "deep" stuff, spiritual stuff, music...also Pisces sun in 8th house probably contributes to that.

But yeah, I guess it goes without saying that probably a lot of air in a chart would make a person very sociable, whereas a lot of water or earth might make them prefer solitude.

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I forgot the part where I absolutely need time to myself. Preferably A LOT of time to myself to think, waste time on the internet, work in the garden, listen to music, or whatever. When my son goes down for a nap, or when everyone else has gone to bed, I have my mandatory ME time.

That's all I got.

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Doux Rêve
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posted August 07, 2013 03:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I like both.

And while I don't mind being alone, I must have some sort of contact with people - via the Internet or IRL.
I can't stay alone for too long (I definitely blame that on my Gemini ASC - the need to "make connections").

And I actually like socializing, even though most of the time I'm left disappointed because most people are shallow and kinda boring - talking about trivial stuff, sometimes completely idiotic topics.
That's why I don't like hanging out with people my age that much - really boring, they act like brainless kids and have nothing interesting to say. Yeah.. that's Saturn in the 11th for you.

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Violets
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posted August 07, 2013 03:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Violets     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I like both.

And while I don't mind being alone, I must have some sort of contact with people - via the Internet or IRL.
I can't stay alone for too long (I definitely blame that on my Gemini ASC - the need to "make connections").

And I actually like socializing, even though most of the time I'm left disappointed because most people are shallow and kinda boring - talking about trivial stuff, sometimes completely idiotic topics.
That's why I don't like hanging out with people my age that much - really boring, they act like brainless kids and have nothing interesting to say. Yeah.. that's Saturn in the 11th for you.


Oh, that gave me a nice laugh.

Saturn in 11th here, too.

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posted August 07, 2013 03:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mockingbird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Saturn in the 11th here, too, and many lulz

I enjoy socializing, but I'm pretty picky - in no small part because I tend to pick up whatever energy I'm around.
Because of that, I also need time to detox and recenter even from the people that I love.

This has taken me a while to learn.
I'm 33 this year, and it's only been recently that I've acknowledged this about myself. It seemed too weak and wishy-washy, but c'est la vie.

Pisces Sun in the 5th sq Neptune and Saturn
Aqua Moon in the 3rd
Scorpio Asc

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posted August 07, 2013 04:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm fairly typical in my Libra trait of needing time socializing AND time strictly to myself. If I don't get enough of BOTH balancing my scales then my scales get out of whack and I have to wrestle with the dark side of my Libra energies.

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chargeomentum
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posted August 07, 2013 04:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for chargeomentum     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i prefer solitude, but if there's no way to avoid socialising then so be it, tho according to astrology i should be the opposite, i dont know anything about placement or aspect things but theres this sun conjuction saturn thing if it has anything to do

btw sun aries moon sag and asc virgo so yes, quite contradicting

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StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted August 07, 2013 05:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarlightSmileSupreme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When I am with people, I want to be alone. When I'm alone, I want to be with people. That's the twelfth house for ya!

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I'm so cappy
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posted August 07, 2013 06:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
When I am with people, I want to be alone. When I'm alone, I want to be with people. That's the twelfth house for ya!


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meissieri
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posted August 07, 2013 06:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for meissieri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I prefer socializing, but do need a break eventually or else I go crazy. Too much soaking up everyone's problems and energy and I'm tired even before lunch, haha.

11th house sun & Mars, but also moon in the 4th and Venus/Mercury in the 12th.

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posted August 07, 2013 07:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I much rather be in solitude than to be socializing, but, I don't mind socializing here and there. I love to reflect and day-dream when I'm alone

Cancer sun 4th house; conjunct mercury/chiron/jupiter, opposite uranus/neptune

Scorpio moon 8th house sextile saturn

ASC Pisces; trine moon and jupiter, sextile saturn

Venus in gemini Third house UNASPECTED

Furthermore, with an 11th house Saturn, I don't have any friends.

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posted August 07, 2013 07:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MsPrism     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I like to be alone but every once in awhile I'll get this itch to party.

Though my party side goes haywire when it goes off and I end up dancing with everyone, laughing at everything, totally chilled out and make tons of fast friends.

THEN everyone thinks I'm like that all the time and I end up disappointing them. I also don't care that I disappoint them because you can't judge a book after reading the back cover.

Rather than that, I like to have a partner in life, whether it's romantic or platonic, it doesn't matter. They are the person that I am always around, even if we're not talking but near each other. That person becomes my everything and I love them infinitely.

I have Taurus Sun, Cap Moon, Aries Asc, Venus in Gem. I don't know what causes this but I'd say the last statement has to be my Pluto in the 7th in Scorpio.

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posted August 07, 2013 07:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I like people around me, even strangers.
I'm at a cafe right now.. I'll probably go home soon.

The barista likes my shoes, I told her there 5 years old...
and now she's making small talk.

She's 4 months pregnant, I wonder why she's working...?
I guess I have to tip her.

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Violets
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posted August 07, 2013 08:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Violets     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^^Always tip your barista, even for a drip!
(This random PSA has been brought to you by a former barista.)

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