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Topic: Who prefers solitude to socializing?
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I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 1832 From: Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 07, 2013 02:17 PM
Placements, aspects, you know the story ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 5481 From: teaselb@gmail.com Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 07, 2013 02:23 PM
I like both. 12th house Uranus, conjunct ascendant. Moon conjunct Venus in Gemini/SN, too. Sextile Jupiter, trine Pluto. Sun opposed Uranus, likes to do its own thing... Uranus also aspects my Moon, Venus, Mars, and so on... IP: Logged |
libraschoice77 Knowflake Posts: 978 From: past, present, and future Registered: Aug 2010
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posted August 07, 2013 02:26 PM
Prefer solitude to being social, have Moon in Cancer 12th and Sun in Libra 4th. IP: Logged |
m.blade Knowflake Posts: 152 From: I don't know myself yet Registered: Mar 2013
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posted August 07, 2013 02:30 PM
I love to be social I love to talk to others and if I share same interests as someone we will be like best friends I literally can't stand being alone otherwise I'll be alone with that guy inside of me Sun in Cancer trine ascendant in 8th. Moon in Leo in 9th. Opposing uranus Venus in Virgo 9th house sextile mars and trine jupiter IP: Logged |
visions Knowflake Posts: 101 From: france Registered: Feb 2010
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posted August 07, 2013 02:31 PM
i am a 12th saturn conjunct ascendant virgo but a good 11th jupiter in cancer yet.socializing is a waste of time, you are blaberring with people leading to nothing.....i prefer to read a book or work talents than chatting and dancing. You can need people if you are afraid of solitude but with the age you are led one way to another to be alone so you cannot avoid the crisis and the later you will face the solitude you avoid the harder the crisis will be...taht's why saturnian have hard times when they are Young and good times when they are old because they are used to solitude. Then if you need people to expand your feeling, your thoughts i can understand but actually i don't need someone to express my feeling, or trade emotions etc. i am the self sufficient even in sexual way hum... But if i met someone who is very original, intellectual, self sufficient, the very independant type with many layers i am really happy to met such people because we are of same meal. almost all people are annoying, repetitive, harassing, toxic etc.... well, i am the saturnian type lol! i love solitude, read a book, no noise, no talk, just beautiful silence, i like to meditate in park, i like moutain, unreachable place where no one can stand etc...but i must confess somtimes i have the feeling of confinement too but consider avoiding gossip, liar, tiresome, annoying or intrusive people, fake smile, fake face, betrayal, unsaid thing, secret gibe, solicitor, beggar, emotional demanding pattern person, vampire, etc...and then you become soon very glad again. SO hey honey you miss the life people say to me then :"i tell no i am literally enjoying every second by consuming my time for myself". very egoistic though(t)? IP: Logged |
its_aqua Knowflake Posts: 586 From: Mars Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 07, 2013 02:33 PM
Im vert sociable and have tons of acquintances, Im also a party animal, but I really need my daily space of alone time. Also, I feel totally comfortable with being alone or doing activities alone. I like shopping alone and I even go to Starbucks or to grab a bite alone.I would always choose a night out than staying inside for a movie, but I feel equally comfortable when I stay in. I dunno which placements may do for this, Cappies are supposed to like solitude and Im Capricorn dominant with a Cappy stelium of Mercury,Uranus,Neptune in 7th, and also Saturn in Cap in 8th house conjunct Sun. IP: Logged |
Zander916 Knowflake Posts: 25 From: Iowa City, Iowa, United States Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 07, 2013 02:36 PM
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I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 1832 From: Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 07, 2013 02:41 PM
Thanks for the replies but people, read the title again :P------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Freesia Knowflake Posts: 150 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted August 07, 2013 02:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by visions:
socializing is a waste of time, you are blaberring with people leading to nothing.....i prefer to read a book or work talents than chatting and dancing. ...taht's why saturnian have hard times when they are Young and good times when they are old... i love solitude, read a book, no noise, no talk, just beautiful silence, i like to meditate in park, i like moutain, unreachable place where no one can stand etc...
Agree to the above. I like solitude. I beleive it must be my Moon in Virgo conjunct Saturn 10th house. There are people I need to meet regulary but these are only close friends and my family. And I like them better to sit in the room next to me and not with me cause I usually spend my time alone in reading smtg lol The difference to Visions post is that I love people in general, I don't think they are annoying, I just have no need to comunicate directly with unknown people. Friends, yes, strangers no.
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sunflower-moon Knowflake Posts: 140 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted August 07, 2013 03:00 PM
Definitely prefer solitude to socializing. I generally don't like spending a lot of time talking about superficial things, or the latest gossip or whatever. Just bothers me.Probably due to Mercury, Venus, Mars, and Jupiter being in the 12th house and maybe Moon opposite Saturn. IP: Logged |
visions Knowflake Posts: 101 From: france Registered: Feb 2010
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posted August 07, 2013 03:02 PM
do you mean i am quite misanthropic ? hum yeah i am but i have said i love unique people, the insanely smart one like me etc..so i am not misanthropic or totally unsocial like you pretend i must beIP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Knowflake Posts: 7028 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 07, 2013 03:03 PM
I have become alot more anti-social and withdrawn as I have gotten older. Sun conjunct saturn in the 12th house.IP: Logged |
Violets Knowflake Posts: 137 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted August 07, 2013 03:13 PM
Here are some placements that I think contribute greatly to how and where I socialize:Aquarius Mercury trine Pluto and Neptune Virgo moon The Aquarius Mercury is very chatty with random people (at the grocery store, when I go out to shows, etc.), and it's something that I absolutely have to have in my life. The Virgo moon is very particular about who I call my friends (I can count them on one hand). These are trusted, trustworthy individuals who aren't petty and don't "play games" in a friendship. I also prefer one-on-one conversations, as opposed to a group of people all talking to each other. If I'm at a show, I will talk one-on-one with whoever I'm talking to, even if it's some random person. All of the aspects and placements combined make it so that I talk to very close friends and family about really "deep" stuff, spiritual stuff, music...also Pisces sun in 8th house probably contributes to that. But yeah, I guess it goes without saying that probably a lot of air in a chart would make a person very sociable, whereas a lot of water or earth might make them prefer solitude. <edit> I forgot the part where I absolutely need time to myself. Preferably A LOT of time to myself to think, waste time on the internet, work in the garden, listen to music, or whatever. When my son goes down for a nap, or when everyone else has gone to bed, I have my mandatory ME time. That's all I got. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 5379 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted August 07, 2013 03:22 PM
I like both.And while I don't mind being alone, I must have some sort of contact with people - via the Internet or IRL. I can't stay alone for too long (I definitely blame that on my Gemini ASC - the need to "make connections"). And I actually like socializing, even though most of the time I'm left disappointed because most people are shallow and kinda boring - talking about trivial stuff, sometimes completely idiotic topics. That's why I don't like hanging out with people my age that much - really boring, they act like brainless kids and have nothing interesting to say. Yeah.. that's Saturn in the 11th for you. IP: Logged |
Violets Knowflake Posts: 137 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted August 07, 2013 03:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: I like both.And while I don't mind being alone, I must have some sort of contact with people - via the Internet or IRL. I can't stay alone for too long (I definitely blame that on my Gemini ASC - the need to "make connections"). And I actually like socializing, even though most of the time I'm left disappointed because most people are shallow and kinda boring - talking about trivial stuff, sometimes completely idiotic topics. That's why I don't like hanging out with people my age that much - really boring, they act like brainless kids and have nothing interesting to say. Yeah.. that's Saturn in the 11th for you.
Oh, that gave me a nice laugh. Saturn in 11th here, too.
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mockingbird Knowflake Posts: 1954 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted August 07, 2013 03:44 PM
Saturn in the 11th here, too, and many lulz I enjoy socializing, but I'm pretty picky - in no small part because I tend to pick up whatever energy I'm around. Because of that, I also need time to detox and recenter even from the people that I love. This has taken me a while to learn. I'm 33 this year, and it's only been recently that I've acknowledged this about myself. It seemed too weak and wishy-washy, but c'est la vie. Pisces Sun in the 5th sq Neptune and Saturn Aqua Moon in the 3rd Scorpio Asc ------------------ If I've included this sig, it's because I'm posting from a mobile device. Please excuse all outrageous typos and confusing auto-corrects. IP: Logged |
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 2679 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 07, 2013 04:48 PM
I'm fairly typical in my Libra trait of needing time socializing AND time strictly to myself. If I don't get enough of BOTH balancing my scales then my scales get out of whack and I have to wrestle with the dark side of my Libra energies. IP: Logged |
chargeomentum Newflake Posts: 19 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted August 07, 2013 04:49 PM
i prefer solitude, but if there's no way to avoid socialising then so be it, tho according to astrology i should be the opposite, i dont know anything about placement or aspect things but theres this sun conjuction saturn thing if it has anything to dobtw sun aries moon sag and asc virgo so yes, quite contradicting IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 3086 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 07, 2013 05:57 PM
When I am with people, I want to be alone. When I'm alone, I want to be with people. That's the twelfth house for ya!IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 1832 From: Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 07, 2013 06:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: When I am with people, I want to be alone. When I'm alone, I want to be with people. That's the twelfth house for ya!
------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
meissieri Knowflake Posts: 395 From: The Netherlands Registered: Feb 2013
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posted August 07, 2013 06:23 PM
I prefer socializing, but do need a break eventually or else I go crazy. Too much soaking up everyone's problems and energy and I'm tired even before lunch, haha. 11th house sun & Mars, but also moon in the 4th and Venus/Mercury in the 12th. IP: Logged |
ScorpioMoon Knowflake Posts: 149 From: Atlanta. Georgia, United States Registered: Jan 2013
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posted August 07, 2013 07:10 PM
I much rather be in solitude than to be socializing, but, I don't mind socializing here and there. I love to reflect and day-dream when I'm aloneCancer sun 4th house; conjunct mercury/chiron/jupiter, opposite uranus/neptune Scorpio moon 8th house sextile saturn ASC Pisces; trine moon and jupiter, sextile saturn Venus in gemini Third house UNASPECTED Furthermore, with an 11th house Saturn, I don't have any friends.
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MsPrism Knowflake Posts: 665 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted August 07, 2013 07:16 PM
I like to be alone but every once in awhile I'll get this itch to party.Though my party side goes haywire when it goes off and I end up dancing with everyone, laughing at everything, totally chilled out and make tons of fast friends. THEN everyone thinks I'm like that all the time and I end up disappointing them. I also don't care that I disappoint them because you can't judge a book after reading the back cover. Rather than that, I like to have a partner in life, whether it's romantic or platonic, it doesn't matter. They are the person that I am always around, even if we're not talking but near each other. That person becomes my everything and I love them infinitely. I have Taurus Sun, Cap Moon, Aries Asc, Venus in Gem. I don't know what causes this but I'd say the last statement has to be my Pluto in the 7th in Scorpio. IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 3889 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 07, 2013 07:20 PM
I like people around me, even strangers. I'm at a cafe right now.. I'll probably go home soon.The barista likes my shoes, I told her there 5 years old... and now she's making small talk. She's 4 months pregnant, I wonder why she's working...? I guess I have to tip her.
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Violets Knowflake Posts: 137 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted August 07, 2013 08:08 PM
^^Always tip your barista, even for a drip! (This random PSA has been brought to you by a former barista.) IP: Logged |