posted January 26, 2016 12:26 AM            

He's rough, dominant, and talks dirty.
but then he has this other side to him, where he wants to be spooned at night. I'm the big spoon. I seriously think he would be totally cool with me spooning him the whole night, but it's kind of hard for me to fall asleep sideways. (I can sometimes.)

What do you know, my boyfriend likes the nails on his back too. Not always in a sexual way? And try doing that WHERE?...lol

I feel like 50% of the time wrestling leads to it.
Also when I decide to lay in bed and look at phone rather than worship him, sets him off.
And being curled up in a ball on the blanket on the couch most recently.

Ugh, and he likes acting like he's not in the mood when he is sometimes. He told me once it's foreplay to him. wtf. I don't get it, to me that's like crying wolf. How am I suppose to know when he actually means it? And it kind of makes me feel like crap. Like if other circumstances in my life are testing my self esteem, and then...at the very end of the night he needs to announce that he is not in the mood, even if I'm not trying to have sex with him. It's kind of like thanks for the cherry on top, to the things that are making me feel like crap right now sundae. He use to flat out say "I'm not in the mood" and then attack. I've expressed how that makes me feel sometimes, and he no longer flat out says I'm not in the mood.

But yeah a few nights ago, he pulled the "I'm tired" line and I was just thinking "yeah that's why we went bed" and guess what happened next.

posted January 26, 2016 12:37 AM            

I am very sensual, slightly kinky, CAN be dominant. I detest talking during sex!!!!! It's such a huge turn off for me :-/

posted January 26, 2016 01:08 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Stawr:
talks dirty.

What do you know, my boyfriend likes the nails on his back too.

---

ah yesss...

posted January 26, 2016 01:16 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Stawr:
My boyfie has Venus and Mars in Virgo too! He is very dominant. He needs more recover time after sex. And yeah it does drive me nuts sometimes.
I ideally like to have sex 5-7 times a week.
I don't like how I get when I go more than a few days with out it.

He's rough, dominant, and talks dirty.
but then he has this other side to him, where he wants to be spooned at night. I'm the big spoon. I seriously think he would be totally cool with me spooning him the whole night, but it's kind of hard for me to fall asleep sideways. (I can sometimes.)

What do you know, my boyfriend likes the nails on his back too. Not always in a sexual way? And try doing that WHERE?...lol

I feel like 50% of the time wrestling leads to it.
Also when I decide to lay in bed and look at phone rather than worship him, sets him off.
And being curled up in a ball on the blanket on the couch most recently.

Ugh, and he likes acting like he's not in the mood when he is sometimes. He told me once it's foreplay to him. wtf. I don't get it, to me that's like crying wolf. How am I suppose to know when he actually means it? And it kind of makes me feel like crap. Like if other circumstances in my life are testing my self esteem, and then...at the very end of the night he needs to announce that he is not in the mood, even if I'm not trying to have sex with him. It's kind of like thanks for the cherry on top, to the things that are making me feel like crap right now sundae. He use to flat out say "I'm not in the mood" and then attack. I've expressed how that makes me feel sometimes, and he no longer flat out says I'm not in the mood.

But yeah a few nights ago, he pulled the "I'm tired" line and I was just thinking "yeah that's why we went bed" and guess what happened next.

---

I found this post so Hilarious, because like Yeah/wow dejavu. Unbelievable, weird weird but so long ago