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Topic: Virgo Placements and Sex?
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cupcakes
Knowflake Posts: 78
From: USA
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted August 09, 2013 02:39 AM
  
I'm in a new relationship with this guy and it is great. However, I'm just getting a little sexually frustrated. Sex was great and he had the endurance. We're both are athletic and that's actually how we met. I introduced him to kickboxing and while it's great since its a huge part of my life, he has little energy to direct at me now because he is tired all the time. He has both Venus and Mars in Virgo. I definitely see it because he's a simple man who's very neat. I read somewhere that these placements in Virgo just look at sex as a bodily function. We have sex once a week, twice if I'm lucky. I don't want him to want to have sex more often just because I do. It doesn't seem natural to me. Do they tend to have low sex drives? Also, I guess it wouldn't hurt to know what their into. Here's the rest of his chart: http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/natal?member=&recalc=&name=H+N&sex=t&d1day=22&d1month=7&d1year=1991&d1hour=7&d1min=30&citylist=San+Jose%2C+CA+%286%29%2C+United+States& lang=en IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 9168
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 09, 2013 02:43 AM
It might just be that he's bored. Virgo can get bored really quickly. It starts out really intense, then fades after a few months. This has been my experience and I have sun in Virgo. I get bored really quickly so keep me entertained  IP: Logged |
Zander916
Knowflake Posts: 1070
From: Midwest
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 09, 2013 03:21 AM
I'm a guy, and I have Venus and Mars in Virgo.. 12th house. (also Mercury)
He has Leo ASC and I have Leo sun so there's SOME similarities but house placements are much different. I don't know enough about Astrology to tell you what exactly those differences mean. I know this though.
Sex is not always just a bodily function for us, but it certainly can be! Boredom is DEFINITELY a reality. But no one should feel bad about that like they are not interesting enough or good enough.
Also as you asked about - low sex drive. That also could very well be the case.
It's very difficult to explain though. The best advice that I have... is...
(and I don't WHAT you guys do LOL)
But if it generally always begins with kisses all over, switch it up.
Be freshly showered, smelling nice, in a comfortable, clean setting.
Very gently rake your nails over his skin working ever so slowly closer to his... umm... cash and prizes. LOL Then, just continue. Gently rake your nails there too!
Just things like that and once things start "looking up" you might be on your way! Like I said... I don't know what you guys do but I'm a Venus - Mars Virgo and that would probably work for me! I've heard some Virgos are pretty kinky too. My best friend is a Virgo Sun and he's a bit different! IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 9168
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 09, 2013 03:23 AM
Or give a good massage in erogenous zones. Massages are a great way to get in the mood. IP: Logged |
Zander916
Knowflake Posts: 1070
From: Midwest
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 09, 2013 03:30 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Or give a good massage in erogenous zones. Massages are a great way to get in the mood.
Yep! Any of that good stuff!  I've only gotten a professional massage once and it was this older Asian woman. I was like, "I'm feeling strangely attracted to this old woman. That's no right! Is it?!?!" LMAO! IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 9168
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 09, 2013 03:31 AM
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Originally posted by Zander916:
Yep! Any of that good stuff! I've only gotten a professional massage once and it was this older Asian woman. I was like, "I'm feeling strangely attracted to this old woman. That's no right! Is it?!?!" LMAO!
You should get your gf to do it lol. Much better from a partner you know than some stranger imo. I just wouldn't feel comfortable, but that's just me.
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charlie
Knowflake Posts: 3524
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Registered: Jun 2012
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posted August 09, 2013 03:34 AM
I have a Virgo mars conj Asc and will second the comment about starting "hot" and getting bored REAL quickly. I can also turn really cold when that happens. I do look at sex as a "bodily function" more so than a bonding experience between two people. The only thing that really works for me when I have entered boredom is to ignore me!! I'll come chasing you sooner or later..IP: Logged |
Zander916
Knowflake Posts: 1070
From: Midwest
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 09, 2013 03:36 AM
For sure! I wouldn't have done anything anyway. But I haven't REALLY had a gf in 3 years. There's been some complicated things in-between, but no really what I'd call a gf in the conventional sense. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 9168
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 09, 2013 03:36 AM
What works with me when I get bored is a lot of touching but I don't have Venus and Mars in Virgo, lol, just the sun. Still, how can you go wrong with touching? It's so natural and flawlessly perfect. Seems like all Venus and Mars signs would respond?IP: Logged |
Zander916
Knowflake Posts: 1070
From: Midwest
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 09, 2013 03:39 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
What works with me when I get bored is a lot of touching but I don't have Venus and Mars in Virgo, lol, just the sun. Still, how can you go wrong with touching? It's so natural and flawlessly perfect. Seems like all Venus and Mars signs would respond?
True! I pretty much agree with everything said here so far.
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StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 9168
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 09, 2013 03:40 AM
Well, good luck, Cupcakes. Hope everything goes your way IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 3524
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Registered: Jun 2012
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posted August 09, 2013 03:40 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
What works with me when I get bored is a lot of touching but I don't have Venus and Mars in Virgo, lol, just the sun. Still, how can you go wrong with touching? It's so natural and flawlessly perfect. Seems like all Venus and Mars signs would respond?
My Virgo Mars says that no touching is perfect and can be quite off-putting when I don't want to be touched. I'll just become really aloof at that point.. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 9168
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 09, 2013 03:41 AM
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Originally posted by charlie:
My Virgo Mars says that no touching is perfect and can be quite off-putting when I don't want to be touched. I'll just become really aloof at that point..
I thought you liked hugs  IP: Logged |
Zander916
Knowflake Posts: 1070
From: Midwest
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 09, 2013 03:47 AM
That could be where some other placements are affecting. I'll never turn down touching. lol IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 9168
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 09, 2013 03:51 AM
I have a Taurus moon and it's supposed to be quite tactile.IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 3524
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posted August 09, 2013 03:54 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I thought you liked hugs
Only if you're clean IP: Logged |
Zander916
Knowflake Posts: 1070
From: Midwest
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 09, 2013 03:54 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I have a Taurus moon and it's supposed to be quite tactile.
I'm nearly positive it's the Leo Sun for me. Kick back... get touched. Then, "Come hither, woman." LOL!! I'm kidding! Not EXACTLY like that. Hehehe IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 9168
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 09, 2013 03:55 AM
@ Charlie, your S.O. would be clean, wouldn't he Zander, maybe it's something to do with fixed signs? IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 3524
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Registered: Jun 2012
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posted August 09, 2013 04:02 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
@ Charlie, your S.O. would be clean, wouldn't he Zander, maybe it's something to do with fixed signs?
yes.......but there are issues on our front and some include what that pesky boredom issue...Is it a Mutable thing to just be done and not able to reverse it? IP: Logged |
Zander916
Knowflake Posts: 1070
From: Midwest
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 09, 2013 04:05 AM
StarlightSmileSurpremeI'm not great with Astrology to know exactly but now that you mention it. You may have a point there. How strong is your Taurus? I ask because Mercury is my strongest planet simply because there's so many placements of planets in the signs ruled by Mercury, plus aspects. Sun is my second, naturally from being in it's own sign and a very important planet at that. But when you said that, that's what made me think about that. Very good point IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 9168
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 09, 2013 04:07 AM
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Originally posted by charlie:
yes.......but there are issues on our front and some include what that pesky boredom issue...Is it a Mutable thing to just be done and not able to reverse it?
You gotta fall in love again, get excited, etc. Things can wane after a couple of months. It's easy to crush on other people, too. Sooo, it's important to not fall "out of love." IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 9168
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 09, 2013 04:10 AM
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Originally posted by Zander916:
StarlightSmileSurpremeI'm not great with Astrology to know exactly but now that you mention it. You may have a point there. How strong is your Taurus? I ask because Mercury is my strongest planet simply because there's so many placements of planets in the signs ruled by Mercury, plus aspects. Sun is my second, naturally from being in it's own sign and a very important planet at that. But when you said that, that's what made me think about that. Very good point
I have moon and Saturn there so it's pretty important. I also have a Libra dominant chart so Venus is the most important planet.
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cupcakes
Knowflake Posts: 78
From: USA
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted August 09, 2013 04:45 AM
Thanks for the help guys. (: It's weird because just the other night, he was afraid that I might get bored of him because we're so different. I have a Gemini moon and a Sagittarius venus so I'm very social and outgoing and he's a bit of a hermit. Another thing is that he stays in contact with me all day. He texts me all day with enthusiasm and goes out of his way to do me little favors which is how they show their affections (or so I have read). He still cuddles and kisses me a lot, he's very affectionate. I just don't think sex is on his mind as much as it is on mine. It's funny that you me mention gently raking the nails on the skin. My guy is a sucker for that, not even in a sexual way. It just feels great to him haha. IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 09, 2013 05:16 AM
Virgo placements makes someone sensual I think? I am very sexual in rlationships and I can't imagine having sex once a week...More like 3+ times a day if I have the time lol.IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 9168
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 09, 2013 05:17 AM
Yeah, true, at first. Virgo is an extremely sensual sign. IP: Logged |
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