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Venusincap89
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posted August 13, 2013 02:50 AM
  
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Venusincap89:
[b] Well in my earlier years, I definetely felt that I wasn't getting enough attention lol
hmmm these days I keep my distance with friends :s some friends say that I am wayy too picky xD I think I have built my self worth a little too high ha
I guess I answered my own question.. I gotta be a little more open minded I guess
but so hard :soh and does the fact that I have 2nd house in Virgo mean I should look for people who have 2nd house in capricorn or other virgo compatible signs?
You would be better off with a Saturn ruled person imo, and one who has Capricorn on the descendant that way your Venus would be in house seven. Do you find yourself drawn to those with Cancer rising? Such people might be more serious and you might need this sort of energy in your life, solid and stabilizing. Do you appreciate people with wry senses of humor? Saturn ruled people often have them. What about a partner with Aqua placements, like sun, moon or Venus? Maybe Aqua with some Capricorn or Pisces to go with your Venus in Cap? Capricorn or Aqua are good choices for you. Your ninth house has both Aries and Taurus. How do you get along with suns and moons of these signs? My moon is in your ninth house, btw. Your fifth is Sag and Cap so Capricorn planets would fall in either your fifth or sixth. Fellow Sags would fall in your fourth or fifth. Fourth house is good imo for personal relationships and really getting to know someone. [/B][/QUOTE] I feel that I didn't get enough chance to connect with people with cancer placements.. The one that I am dating at the moment has cancer rising but it seems her Gemeni Sun is dominating that placement hmm I often feel that Aries people are kind of selfish.. but then again I get along with them pretty well and I get along with taurus people as well hmmm so sun, moon, venus aqua and virgos... thank you!! I am gonna memorize this xD IP: Logged |
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posted August 13, 2013 02:51 AM
i think if ur a taurus dsc, which i am, the 2nd house is important for you. isn't that how lotis finds who we are attracted to?IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted August 13, 2013 03:02 AM
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Originally posted by Venusincap89:
hmmm so sun, moon, venus aqua and virgos... thank you!! I am gonna memorize this xD
You had trouble with the one Virgo :S
So...
Try to find someone who is serious and you be that way, too. Venus in Cap is a serious placement. Gemini can be serious, more so than Sag, In fact, I think of Gemini as the serious one, Sag is more likely to tell jokes and play around.IP: Logged |
Lava Flower
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posted August 13, 2013 03:20 AM
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Originally posted by Jkitty:
Take a look at this video clip:
http://newwayastrology.tumblr.com/page/8 You'll need to scroll down about 3/4 down to page. The clip is called "The most important thing in synastry is . . ." The surprise answer is THE SECOND HOUSE. This is not what I've come to expect, but after watching this, it makes so much sense. See what you think.
I whole-heartedly agree. I came across this video a while back, and it explained sooo much about me to me  It's definitely something I keep in mind when giving readings. IP: Logged |
Venusincap89
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posted August 13, 2013 03:27 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Venusincap89:
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hmmm so sun, moon, venus aqua and virgos... thank you!! I am gonna memorize this xD
You had trouble with the one Virgo :S
So...
Try to find someone who is serious and you be that way, too. Venus in Cap is a serious placement. Gemini can be serious, more so than Sag, In fact, I think of Gemini as the serious one, Sag is more likely to tell jokes and play around.[/B][/QUOTE] oh yeah that reminds me to update you on the status with the virgo one
I avoided her for about good 3 weeks
and now she is popping up almost every where I go... :s (the way she does it is pretty obvious)
how should i react to this? IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted August 13, 2013 03:29 AM
^^ You can avoid her still or just say "hi."
Does she try to talk to you? IP: Logged |
bumblebee
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posted August 13, 2013 03:32 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
The video gave me the impression it's about looking at each natal chart to see what the second house looks like, if there are planets inside, what sign is on the cusp, what condition is the ruler in, not necessarily what is in the second house in the synastry chart. So, in your natal chart, what sign rules the second house, is there anything inside and what is the ruler of the second house doing? Maybe you could look at the sign Taurus as well since it traditionally rules the second house. Anything going on in that sign could affect self worth maybe, along with the second house?
Ruler of my 2 house is peregrine, in fall, debilitated, burned by the sun and is in 8th house, also.So I have issues with my self worth, apparently.
You are right about mundane second house and taurus, in my chart taurus is 10th house and sucess in my proffesion is tightly connected to my feeling f self worth. IP: Logged |
Venusincap89
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posted August 13, 2013 03:34 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
^^ You can avoid her still or just say "hi."
Does she try to talk to you?
yeah she tries to talk to me but she makes an excuse to do so in a way that she can always deny that she was trying to talk to me
but I see a pattern here... haha
last time I paid a steep price for being naive so... IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted August 13, 2013 03:44 AM
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Originally posted by Venusincap89:
yeah she tries to talk to me but she makes an excuse to do so in a way that she can always deny that she was trying to talk to me
but I see a pattern here... haha
last time I paid a steep price for being naive so...
Haha, she's clever if she can manage that! Is she trying to accuse you of talking to her when really it's she who is talking to you?
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Venusincap89
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posted August 13, 2013 04:07 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Venusincap89:
[b] yeah she tries to talk to me but she makes an excuse to do so in a way that she can always deny that she was trying to talk to me
but I see a pattern here... haha
last time I paid a steep price for being naive so...
Haha, she's clever if she can manage that! Is she trying to accuse you of talking to her when really it's she who is talking to you? [/B][/QUOTE]Oh she doesn't accuse me orvanything like thar but she has played with my head very well in the past, misleading me to thinking that she is interested in me lol
She controls communication by not talking much
I give myself a credit though I forced alot out of her ha IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted August 13, 2013 04:09 AM
^^ Well, stick with the Gemini! Looks like you have her now so you aren't at the mercy of the Virgo any longer.IP: Logged |
Lunae
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posted August 13, 2013 04:15 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
There's no hope for natal Neptune in the second 
How about Chiron in the 2nd? Neptune sounds a bit better, imo. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted August 13, 2013 04:24 AM
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Originally posted by Lunae:
How about Chiron in the 2nd? Neptune sounds a bit better, imo.
The video in the link used a Neptune square as an example :S
Why oh why do they always use Neptune?
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felicity
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posted August 24, 2013 04:53 AM
What if I have a Mars in Pisces in the 2nd house? It is also in exact sextile with my Saturn retrograde in the 1st house. Mars also is sextile with my Moon in the 4th house and in trine with Pluto retrograde in the 10th house. And most of my planets are in the northern hemisphereIP: Logged |
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