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Topic: How easy is it for you to say "I Love You"?
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Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 5648 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted August 16, 2013 05:42 PM
meissieri,*nods* Agreed. SE,
lmaooo! I guess so! IP: Logged |
Zander916 Knowflake Posts: 173 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 16, 2013 05:48 PM
I'm probably viewed as obnoxious when drunk, trying to make people laugh which succeeds quite a bit. My Gemini moon loses any brain to mouth filter. I only drink a couple times a year usually. I don't care for it too much. No smoking... Nothing. I suppose I would say I love you to just about anyone. I love people deep in my heart, just not always in my mind. My humor is difficult online. It's how I say things and I'm very animated. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 5648 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted August 16, 2013 06:05 PM
Zander,Why do you keep self-deprecating / justifying yourself? Don't be so hard on yourself. You're totally fine. The fact that you don't smoke and rarely drink is very admirable. I wish I could do that! IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent Knowflake Posts: 2335 From: vodka fine, I'm so divine Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 16, 2013 06:08 PM
^He's got Virgo Mars/Mercury/Venus! His basic consciousness is "I am excellent but I don't feel excellent! If I just keep believing though, I'll feel it eventually"!IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 1934 From: Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 16, 2013 06:12 PM
I guess if I ever had a boyfriend and it was clear that we love each other I would have no problem with it. Anyway, I'm pretty sure I could never confess it first.Currently there's no one I love so I don't say it. Libra Moon ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 5648 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted August 16, 2013 06:14 PM
SE,Oh man, yeah, the Virgo.. Right, I do that too. *smh* quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: Currently there's no one I love so I don't say it.
Not even me?  IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 1934 From: Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 16, 2013 06:21 PM
Doux, I adore you, isn't it enough? Gimme some time to get to love you, you know I'm the ice queen  ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 5648 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted August 16, 2013 06:42 PM
Alrighty, happy-cappy!I shall give you some time to deeply fall in love with me.  IP: Logged |
ail221 Moderator Posts: 3665 From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon Registered: Feb 2012
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posted August 16, 2013 06:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: STOP BEING SO TSUNDERE.
ITS MY NATURE! IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 2368 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted August 16, 2013 07:14 PM
It's very easy for me and I say it often.. I like telling people I care. I'm very emotionally expressive. This is probably because of my Pisces Merc sextile my Moon (in Capricorn)  Scorpy - If you had a late Capricorn Moon - Would you have a Moon square Mercury aspect in your chart? MsPrism - quote: Easy peasy lemon squeezy! I say it to anyone and everyone because I do love everyone, all the time, no matter what.As for significant partners, I have more specific phrases to express my connection to them.
Didn't you have a Cap Moon also? What aspects does it make? Kero -
quote: I love you at least to 1 person a day and to pets... 50 times over lmfao. Love is really an important thing in my important in my life. I want to spread love and I want to be loved. Even from cold heart reptiles that would probably eat me if they had the chance... lol
I relate so much to this! I'm basically the same lol Doux Reve - quote: I definitely agree with Astro keen here, it's a cultural thing more than anything. Where I live, no one really says such things, especially not to friends. So I usually don't tell people I care about them - it kinda goes without saying. But it's kinda sad though.
Actually I live in Australia but my background is Central European. Aussie people are very friendly but I wouldn't say they are all that emotionally expressive. However - I am making a concerted effort not to be 'in Rome and do as the Romans'.. so I am sticking to my own personality - which is 'out there' emotionally. I don't actually care whether it is considered socially appropriate or not... and usually people seem to change over time - if you are very open and honest with them - they end up being more open as well. IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 2368 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted August 16, 2013 07:15 PM
quote: way to play with words, dude. totally not up a fixed scorpio's alley. they dont know how to play with words
.... There is this thing... It's called a - Mercury. IP: Logged |
Zander916 Knowflake Posts: 173 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 16, 2013 07:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by somethingexcellent: ^He's got Virgo Mars/Mercury/Venus! His basic consciousness is "I am excellent but I don't feel excellent! If I just keep believing though, I'll feel it eventually"!
Exactly. I'm not so hard on others as myself. I'd rather talk myself down and over achieve than the opposite. Even if I'm the only one that knows about it. I can't stand not meeting my own expectations. I'm pretty sure I've already gotten to one member here and they are subtly avoiding me. My intuition doesn't lie, never has. Anyway, I'm disrupting the topic. Game on! IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent Knowflake Posts: 2335 From: vodka fine, I'm so divine Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 16, 2013 07:49 PM
quote: Odette: Scorpy - If you had a late Capricorn Moon - Would you have a Moon square Mercury aspect in your chart?
My Mercury sits at 28 Libra, so yaya, I would. Even if my Moon was in an earlier degree: out of sign square. Y'know, I've thought about if maybe my mum is giving me the right time... I would also accept Gemini rising trine Mercury. We don't have my birth certificate, and ordering one in the mail costs moneyyyy and requires going to city hallll. Remember when I had a Libra rising?  quote: .... There is this thing... It's called a - Mercury. [/B]
Haha! Oh Odette, you're like 4th or 5th person to come to my defense today in LL! I feel so loved.  IP: Logged |
MsPrism Knowflake Posts: 834 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted August 16, 2013 08:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: MsPrism - Didn't you have a Cap Moon also? What aspects does it make?
Hey there, Odette!
I do have a Cap Moon. It's only aspects are A 9°s trine to the Sun. An 8°a trine to Mercury. A 0°a quincunx to Venus/Chiron A 3°a square to the ASC. Does that tell you anything in particular, may I ask?  IP: Logged |
freebrainstorms Knowflake Posts: 973 From: Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 17, 2013 12:26 AM
quote: Originally posted by Astro keen: I see this as a cultural thing. Americans are thought to be more expressive - Virgo moon/ Pisces Venus (??) as suggested by the last person who had no qualms about saying the dreaded 3 words out loud and often. The British, on the other hand, are more the Aqua Moon variety, i.e., my variety. One could easily state cultural stereotypes as a set of astrological aspects.
annnd what makes you think I'm necessarily American.... lol I'm just a very affectionate person who also likes to rave, which generally tends to make people even more expressively affectionate in their day to day life. IP: Logged |
lessica Knowflake Posts: 46 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 17, 2013 01:35 AM
quote: Originally posted by somethingexcellent: How easy is it for you to tell someone that you love them? Be it family, friends, your paramour...For me, I'm not very comfortable with it. Not even to my cat haha! I'm pretty distant and chilly, but I am an Aquarius Moon. It's just not my jive, yo... How about you? 
I am a virgo sun, aquarius moon, and I show very very little affection. Cringe saying 'i love you' to anyone lol.
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