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Topic: Post synastry charts of important relationships
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Doux Rêve
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posted August 18, 2013 10:42 AM
  
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Originally posted by its_aqua:
It sucks! It is like a roller coaster. I love her and hate her at the same time. In a few words, I cant really express my feelings freely to her. It is like a burden. I could also admit that I always feared her reactions, cause she has a really short temper. It has just begun to be a tiny little bit better now that Im growing up, but I certainly dont have many happy memories with her.
That totally sounds like me and my mother.. wow.
Our synastry has some good things but then there's that awful T-square with her Sun and my Saturn, Mars and Pluto.. ahem.
And she has an Aries Moon + Mars conjunct ASC and her temper has got to be one of the scariest things on Earth!
I feel you!
Astro keen,
Yes, yes! Exactly.
It makes perfect sense.
You guys should try to talk about things honestly, whenever something upsets you for example, don't let it build up - talk!
Otherwise that 12th house Pluto can really turn out badly - resentment and secrecy! IP: Logged |
Astro keen
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 18, 2013 10:51 AM
I think, butting heads with a mum is a fact of life. It would be odd if you didn't.Doux, Thank you so much for your input. Or misunderstood astrology can become self-fulfilling. IP: Logged |
its_aqua
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 18, 2013 10:53 AM
@LunaeHehe really I doubt most people get on well with their parents, now matter how good the synastry is! IP: Logged |
its_aqua
Knowflake Posts: 708
From: Mars
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 18, 2013 11:08 AM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
That totally sounds like me and my mother.. wow.
Our synastry has some good things but then there's that awful T-square with her Sun and my Saturn, Mars and Pluto.. ahem.
And she has an Aries Moon + Mars conjunct ASC and her temper has got to be one of the scariest things on Earth!
I feel you!
I feel for you Doux!
I'm an Aries mooner too, but mine is afflicted! However, I love her Aries moon when she stands up for me!
I also love the fact that through her actions good and bad, Ive became so independent. I really prefer it that way than being spoiled or clinging on my mum.
She has a rough natal really, I think like 3 T-squares if im not mistaken? But she has achieved so many things in her life, like a hard-working Cappy she is. Started from the bottom and made it to the top. Its not that I dont love my mum, you see..I would just rather not live with her. IP: Logged |
Lunae
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posted August 18, 2013 11:18 AM
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Originally posted by its_aqua:
@LunaeHehe really I doubt most people get on well with their parents, now matter how good the synastry is!
My sister is one of the exceptions. She and my mom are like best friends. lol 
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Doux Rêve
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posted August 18, 2013 11:27 AM
Astro keen,You're welcome!
I wish you the best of luck with everything ~ And yeah, parents are usually quite a sensitive topic for a lot of people, especially in youth. ((( its_aqua ))) & ((( Lunae ))) IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
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From: Uranus
Registered: May 2011
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posted August 18, 2013 12:24 PM
Synastry and Composite of both my 2 year relationship with my boyfriend. His Psyche-Dejanira conjuncts my Sun and I do notice he acts pretty vulnerable to me and I can easily victimize him and I see right through him, but I won't. I think its sweet and charming.
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KarkaQueen
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From: Uranus
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posted August 18, 2013 12:27 PM
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Zander916
Knowflake Posts: 340
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 18, 2013 12:31 PM
My chart was of a very abusive relationship that I had. Yes, I'm a guy and was twice her size but still. It was the words that went with it. I am the outside. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted August 18, 2013 12:36 PM
Zander,I thought it was a passionate relationship..
The Pluto squares, and the Sun square Mars double whammy, are the culprit. Pluto is about power and when in hard aspect to another's planets, it can create a lot of trouble. Sun and Mars in square can create a lot of tension, and when it goes both ways, it's easy to get on each other's nerves and "bully" each other. I hope you're okay now. IP: Logged |
Zander916
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From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 18, 2013 03:51 PM
@DouxStupid phone isn't quoting. Anyway, yep. All good. It taught me a lot about jumping into things, signs to look out for and now I can check charts a bit. Hopefully with some better know how. That was crazy. I was kicked, punched in the face, threatened... All kinds of things. Everyone either didn't know how to help or couldn't. I kind of know somewhat what battered women go through psychologically - sort of. I knew if I were to make a move to rid myself of her it would have to work or hell would be unleashed. I used some tactics I learned online from a psychologist.
It worked. 
I was left with intense hatred for about 6 months. All good now. That was a few years ago. Looking back, I'm not sure what I was thinking in the first place. Oh well... I learned a lot. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted August 18, 2013 04:35 PM
Dang.. that's terrible, Zander.
I'm sorry that happened to you.I think Ami once said that men with Venus in the 12th house can attract abusive women.. seems to be true for you. Hmm.. wonder why that is. Anyway, I'm glad you're better now and it's over.
Not all women are like that. IP: Logged |
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