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Topic: Men: Not hung up on Gender Roles/Stereotypes
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Kerosene
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From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 20, 2013 01:28 AM
  
My dad is strongly leo,virgo, and libran influenced and he's fine with my mother being the breadwinner.
- Leo is entitled.
- Virgo loves money
- Libran men are lazy and like being dominated.IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 20, 2013 01:30 AM
There's a degree of laziness in all Libras.IP: Logged |
Cynnared
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posted August 20, 2013 03:03 AM
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Originally posted by hikoro:
ok, so, this is my interpretation as to the most open-minded moons in men to the least open-minded.
sorry if the term 'open-minded' is not the correct one, i thought this was the most accurate terminology to use.
now, what i really mean is: guys who truly respect a woman that is intelligent, dont mind if she is confident, if she makes more money that he does, tomboyish, and he doesnt expect her to be obedient and submissive. i dont know if it is the moon or mars that counts...but, im starting to think that it is the moon...
what other placements do you think is relevant? very open-minded, dont care much for stereotypical gender roles:
libra moon
pisces moon
gemini moon in the middle:
leo moon: this one depends, because the leo moon man wants to be king, so, he may expect a princess, on the other hand, if his woman happens to be a badass queen and makes him look good, he won't mind at all.
sagittarius: so, this sign is open to different cultures, and whatnot, but, i still find them traditional and wanting to be served and with certain entitlement issues.
scorpio: i dunno about this one, on one hand, can come across as controlling, on the other, there are scorpio mooners who adore a strong woman that will challenge him.
aquarius: i thought this one would be open, because i used to think aqua = uranus, but nope, aqua, like scorpio, is a fixed sign and sort of similar to scorpio, so, it can go both ways. ive seen aquas who are very proud of their independent partners, and others who are the complete opposite. not open-minded:
aries moon
taurus moon
virgo moon
cancer moon
capricorn moon: i see capricorn moon at least, more respectful than the others. as in, you have your role and even if it is different than mine, i respect it.
ive found aries/taurus/virgo mooners as being very condescending...and always whining about how "good the old days were", aries and taurus being the most pushy and virgo tearing the woman's self-esteem into pieces.
cancer moon: employs manipulation to get the woman to obey. what say you?
My male spouse has an Aries moon and I'm not the typical born female person - I am actually translite/genderqueer - I don't fit or identify on the binary scale of things. I have my freedom and live my life on my own terms, so does he. Sometimes he does that female stereotype and I'm fine with that....
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ail221
Moderator Posts: 3673
From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted August 20, 2013 07:11 PM
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Originally posted by hikoro:
wow....just like my op.
curious....what a coincidence!
and to think that gem and libra are air signs and pisces squares gem and quincunx libra...
any other patterns involving these three?
Well Pisces & Gemini are both mutable there not necessarily focused on "leading" as most Cardinal moons are nor are they "fixated" on their emotions or ideals.
Which Libra I find their focused on keeping balance and maintaining neutrality until forced to do so,but they generally tend to see & consider both side of the pendulum. IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
Knowflake Posts: 2578
From: Uranus
Registered: May 2011
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posted August 20, 2013 07:37 PM
my bf strongly prefers traditional women and hes a pisces moon but he likes eccentricityIP: Logged |
Brendan34
Knowflake Posts: 50
From: Albany, NY, USA
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 21, 2013 06:46 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Yes! very pushy... OMG.
Avoid. Avoid. Avoid lol
Never try to teach these guys better behaviour or get combative with them.
Being put in time-out is the only way they will learn (because they hate being ignored).- Men with harsh Mars/Saturn or Mars/Pluto aspects - Men with Aries planets that are debilitated... or retrograde.
Most of the Pisces men I know are the least sexist, most feminist minded men I know, including myself. More sexist men I've encountered are Aries, Sagittarius, Leo men. IP: Logged |
hikoro
Knowflake Posts: 979
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 21, 2013 03:33 PM
quote:
Originally posted by ail221:
Well Pisces & Gemini are both mutable there not necessarily focused on "leading" as most Cardinal moons are nor are they "fixated" on their emotions or ideals.
Which Libra I find their focused on keeping balance and maintaining neutrality until forced to do so,but they generally tend to see & consider both side of the pendulum.
ok, so why arent virgo and saggie (also mutables) like pisces and gemini?
and libra is a cardinal sign...'leading'
so, what gives?
im not trying to be annoying...i just want to know if you come up with
other interesting ideas as to the reasons pisces, gemini and libra seem to be the coolest in
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hikoro
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posted August 21, 2013 03:35 PM
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Originally posted by Brendan34:
Most of the Pisces men I know are the least sexist, most feminist minded men I know, including myself. More sexist men I've encountered are Aries, Sagittarius, Leo men.
so agree...the countless of pisces mooners ive met who do ballet, surrounded
by girls, by gay men...
and they dont care at all...even if others assume they're gay...doesnt bother them...
and...they def. dont mind dominant-agressive women. yes, the fiery moons are more sexist, prolly has to do with being masculine signs, so imagine, a man having a masculine moon, and adding to that, masculine moons dont seem to gel well with what the moon corresponds too, so, imo...it
exacerbates all of that testosterone and sexism. IP: Logged |
mockingbird
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posted August 21, 2013 04:20 PM
^ I dunno.The one Pisces Mooner boy I dated told me that I was "too independent".
He was a Taurus Sun, though. ------------------
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Odette
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Registered: May 2012
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posted August 21, 2013 04:33 PM
Pisces can be highly mysoginistic with enough Aries in combination. IP: Logged |
CatMote
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From: New Britain, CT, United States
Registered: Apr 2013
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posted August 21, 2013 04:34 PM
pisces moon here. yeah youre correct about us not caring lol.
i often get labeled gay because i tell people my major is theatre. some of my closest friends are gay. and im also fine with women being independent, because usually they just have the urge to want to take care of me haha so im fine with that...------------------
Sun Aries Moon Pisces
Mars Pisces Venus Pisces
Mercury Aries Jupiter in Virgo
Saturn in Aquarius Pluto in Scorpio
Neptune and Uranus in Capricorn
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Vradec
Knowflake Posts: 216
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Registered: Mar 2013
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posted August 21, 2013 05:01 PM
I would say Venus in Aquarius and/or Mars and Uranus contacts.IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
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From: Pleasanton, CA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 21, 2013 08:06 PM
I'm a Virgo Moon male, and I don't mind acknowledging my feminine Sun, Moon, Mars in relation to my wife's masculine Sun, Neptune, Pluto, Uranus, and Rising. She is the primary breadwinner. I am the trophy wife (we joke).I don't whine about the good old days. IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
Knowflake Posts: 2578
From: Uranus
Registered: May 2011
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posted August 21, 2013 08:36 PM
There's a difference between being "sexist" and knowing a feminine womanIP: Logged |
Brendan34
Knowflake Posts: 50
From: Albany, NY, USA
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 24, 2013 11:32 AM
quote:
Originally posted by hikoro:
so agree...the countless of pisces mooners ive met who do ballet, surrounded
by girls, by gay men...
and they dont care at all...even if others assume they're gay...doesnt bother them...
and...they def. dont mind dominant-agressive women.yes, the fiery moons are more sexist, prolly has to do with being masculine signs, so imagine, a man having a masculine moon, and adding to that, masculine moons dont seem to gel well with what the moon corresponds too, so, imo...it
exacerbates all of that testosterone and sexism.
That's a really good point. IP: Logged |
chargeomentum
Knowflake Posts: 51
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Registered: Jun 2013
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posted August 24, 2013 12:05 PM
it is true. I don't like women who try to prove that they are stronger than me. I have nothing against them if they are but the whole idea of proving it makes me kinda angry and want to put them in their place.i'm sagg moon, i also have some of aries planets, like someone mentioned sun, saturn, mercury. BUT Im totally fine if women are better at something than me, but hate it when they want to prove it in my face. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 7282
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 24, 2013 02:20 PM
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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
There's a difference between being "sexist" and knowing a feminine woman
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