posted August 27, 2013 10:49 PM            

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posted August 27, 2013 11:15 PM            

I wanted to ask people to post the charts of sadists--people they know or famous people--- so we can see commonalities.

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posted August 27, 2013 11:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Violets:
I could offer the chart of someone (anonymous, of course) who I know for a fact is a sadist, if you would like. But it might take me a while to post it, as I have to sit down to dinner and then run to the grocery store...

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posted August 27, 2013 11:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Jkitty:
How about the chart of the Marquise de Sade since the term "sadism" is based on his escapades? They have the chart in the astro-databank here:
http://www.astro.com/astro-databank/Sade,_Marquis_de

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posted August 27, 2013 11:23 PM            

Yes, the way to find common traits is to look at a lot of charts.

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posted August 28, 2013 12:22 AM            

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Originally posted by Jkitty:
Both have Pluto in 12th conjunct Ascendant. That really jumps out. Both also have mutable moons.

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Interesting indeed. Planets in the 12th conjunct AC seem to be very interesting in general, don't they?

posted August 28, 2013 02:37 AM              

You've made a few threads about this...
Plus somethings you mentioned struck me...
Don't worry, most gems I know are a tad bit sadistic.
You have quite a bit a gemini in your chart.
I always find it amusing when I see people getting hurt.... sure I'll tend to their needs but I usually be amused by the situation.
I know I would get pleasure out of inflicting pain.. but I have no desire to actually explore that side of me. I try and repress it.

If you do have sadistic tendencies you don't have to feel bad about it, you don't have to explore it either if it's making you uncomfortable. It does not mean your sick in the head because that's all subjective and there's plenty of healthy ways to practice it.

posted August 28, 2013 02:56 AM              

I remember when I was young I ran into my sister crying (after she found out her boyfriend died) and I started laughing because I thought her face was silly..
Yeah that sounds horrible .. I had less self control.
I have a great poker face now... I can mask my amusement.

posted August 28, 2013 07:51 AM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Ami are you a sadist, secretly?

You've made a few threads about this...
Plus somethings you mentioned struck me...
Don't worry, most gems I know are a tad bit sadistic.
You have quite a bit a gemini in your chart.
I always find it amusing when I see people getting hurt.... sure I'll tend to their needs but I usually be amused by the situation.
I know I would get pleasure out of inflicting pain.. but I have no desire to actually explore that side of me. I try and repress it.

If you do have sadistic tendencies you don't have to feel bad about it, you don't have to explore it either if it's making you uncomfortable. It does not mean your sick in the head because that's all subjective and there's plenty of healthy ways to practice it.

If you want to talk about this privately than let me know.

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Thank you for your kind words, K.

I can feel that bond with you with your Sun and Moon conjunct my Venus. It feels so warm.

My mother is sadistic. I started on the journey to understand her a few years ago.

With my Cancer Moon, I am very tender or gentle as Kat likes to say

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posted August 28, 2013 07:52 AM            

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posted August 28, 2013 07:54 AM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
My mom is a gem too and I remember when my dad was really sick I could see her staring at him with an amused expression rolling her eyes...
She would help him with everything and clean everything but I could observe she was detached by the whole situation...

I remember when I was young I ran into my sister crying (after she found out her boyfriend died) and I started laughing because I thought her face was silly..
Yeah that sounds horrible .. I had less self control.
I have a great poker face now... I can mask my amusement.

It's not something I'm proud of but.... I have found one use..
I can help people go through some tough **** with out absorbing their pain and emotions.
Like helping drug addicts which can consume your entire life
I do feel bad for people who are suffering but if it's a funny situation I'll probably find it amusing.

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It is weird you say that because my son and I talk about the sick part of human nature.

When I am upset, he will start laughing and I want to kill him.

However, I do the same thing when he gets upset.

We came to the conclusion that human nature is sick

posted August 28, 2013 07:55 AM            

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posted August 28, 2013 07:59 AM            

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Originally posted by its_aqua:
Hey Ami, I was watching deadly women again so I will be back with some charts but they probably will be without an accurate TOB.

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Thank you, Friend.

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posted August 28, 2013 09:46 AM            

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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
Is it only considered sadism if the person (sadist) is unprovoked?.

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Ummm That is a good question. I am not sure. I am talking about unprovoked not like sexual sadism lol

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posted August 28, 2013 12:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Ummm That is a good question. I am not sure. I am talking about unprovoked not like sexual sadism lol

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Ha ha. That would have saved me chart post.
Yuck. I wonder what types of people you would have to look at as examples in order to gather that information...?

It seems like most people who are sadistic throughout history tend to channel it sexually (serial killers, etc.). Besides Hitler and Stalin, and a few people I think would simply be categorized as sociopaths. I assume that serial killers would also be considered sociopathic?

So what type of sadist are you looking for here, specifically?

posted August 28, 2013 12:52 PM            

By sexual sadist, I meant someone who did sexual sadistic things with the permission of the other, not as a way to hurt someone who did not agree.
You can see I don't know too much about it

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