posted September 23, 2013 11:29 AM            

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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
I think I'm a bit asexual since I do not really care for it. I'm really into romance rather than sex. If she wants it, I'll be happy to please her and enjoy it as well
Don't get me wrong, I get the feeling of arousal like every person, but I feel that a relationship is so much more than sex.

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Please elaborate on this. Help me understand LOL.

I *totally* get that sex is about MORE than sex - it's about the connection, chemistry & romance.

But you cannot be asexual *AND* then claim that you get aroused just like everyone else. You Virgo/Scorpio people are confusing me!!!

And "the above is you?" was just me clarifying that this combo wasn't of one of your Lovers.

posted September 23, 2013 11:34 AM            

I'm a gemini sun taurus moon, she's a pisces sun and a taurus moon like myself.

did i enjoy it? well yeah but since i had taken her for some drinks before i was kinda drunk so i didn't even ejaculate :P

posted September 23, 2013 11:36 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:

Please elaborate on this. Help me understand LOL.

I *totally* get that sex is about MORE than sex - it's about the connection, chemistry & romance.

But you cannot be asexual *AND* then claim that you get aroused just like everyone else. You Virgo/Scorpio people are confusing me!!!

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posted September 23, 2013 11:37 AM            

And "the above is you?" was just me clarifying that this combo wasn't of one of your Lovers.

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posted September 23, 2013 11:39 AM            

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LovelyAries86: But you cannot be asexual *AND* then claim that you get aroused just like everyone else.

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posted September 23, 2013 11:41 AM            

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Originally posted by PeterPan:

did i enjoy it? well yeah but since i had taken her for some drinks before i was kinda drunk so i didn't even ejaculate :P

however she seemed to enjoy blowing me hahahha pardon my vulgarity

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posted September 23, 2013 11:46 AM            

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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
I See what you mean, haha.
I meant like I can live without sex, it is not even close to a priority to me.
I view sex as a physical pleasure for me, that's all. I view romance as the ultimate intellectual, emotional, soul connection between me and my partner.
To be technical, I'm a Hetero-romantic, which is a sub-class of Asexuality.
Oh also, I don't really get aroused sexually by the normal things straight guys do, hehe.

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So what is it *exactly* that arouses you that isn't typical?? I won't judge.

posted September 23, 2013 11:56 AM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:

Of course you can get them aroused, it's called stimulation lmfao

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If a bear stimulates a man's penis, yes it will become erect But that does NOT mean that his *mind* is aroused or that he personally wants to sleep w/ the bear!

Asexuality is about lacking desire...ever, I thought. So if you are truly "asexual", arousal is not really something you engage in.

Am I wrong?

posted September 23, 2013 12:13 PM            

I shouldn't laugh but I can't help myself

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posted September 23, 2013 12:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
He may lack the innate sexual desire but they could have sex to please a partner or for the sake of doing it

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I'm aware of that. And this ^^ is my main point!

I'd never want someone to have sex with me that did not sexually DESIRE me - where sex is a favor rather than a genuine need at the time.

Get what I'm saying?

I'm not saying that there's anything WRONG with asexuals. Just saying that I'd never be a match for them.

posted September 23, 2013 01:08 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
So what is it *exactly* that arouses you that isn't typical?? I won't judge.

Also...when finally in a *truly* deep & passionate love affair...does YOUR sex drive go up? Do you personally desire sex a lot more once a connection has been made? Or...do you *still* put intellectual/romantic needs above sexual ones at that point?

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posted September 23, 2013 01:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
I never had a relationship before, so I'm not sure. Probably not though, since I'm not wanting sex now at all. While having sex, I will be happy because I'm making her happy, not for the sexual stimulation it gives me. I know this is hard to believe, but I'm not like most people.
The non-typical thing is that I have a Foot Fetish. Don't judge

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I'm not judging!

posted September 23, 2013 02:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
I See what you mean, haha.
I meant like I can live without sex, it is not even close to a priority to me.
I view sex as a physical pleasure for me, that's all. I view romance as the ultimate intellectual, emotional, soul connection between me and my partner.
To be technical, I'm a Hetero-romantic, which is a sub-class of Asexuality.
Oh also, I don't really get aroused sexually by the normal things straight guys do, hehe.

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posted September 23, 2013 02:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
I thought you were female.

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posted September 23, 2013 02:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
Lol.
You weren't the first person who thought that.
I don't know why I'm perceived as a female.

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posted September 23, 2013 02:34 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
The guy who I *graced* with my virginity was a fellow Aries. He had Mars in Taurus.

My First Time actually wasn't too bad. It was a fun day! I didn't hemorrhage to death, thank God. But after getting physically 'acquainted' with him over a 6-month period or so...I grew tired of him. I knew I was missing something LOL. He lacked true depth & his foreplay sucked!

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posted September 23, 2013 02:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
Because you give off a female vibe.

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posted September 23, 2013 03:57 PM            

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Originally posted by redshoes:
Hello LovelyAries~can you explain a bit more about the aries/taurus mars guy? what did you mean about the lacking depth thing and did he actually do any foreplay at all..it is just that myself and a friend of mine were with guys with these placements and when i read what you wrote, i nearly fell of my chair Can you remember where is venus and moon were too?

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Hey Redshoes!

Here's his breakdown:
-Aries Sun
-Virgo Moon
-Aries Venus
-Taurus Mars

He was a selfish lover - same shyt he wanted to do every time, nothing that *I* wanted. Very friendly & fun guy, but not very thoughtful or considerate!

Maybe we were too young....but even still, it sucked after awhile LOL. I'be always been rather mature for my age, so I wanted MORE. He couldn't offer deeper conversation or sexual activity. Just blahhhh!!!

He even tried to reach out to me (after several years apart) for a date on FB earlier this year. I said ugggghhhh no thanksss!!! Not reliving any of that mess.

posted September 23, 2013 04:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
Thanks Ami and Aries

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Your Welcome, sweetie.

posted September 23, 2013 04:49 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Your Welcome, sweetie.

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