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Topic: Your Virginity?
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Barbiegirl19
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posted September 23, 2013 09:11 PM
 
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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
Yeah, lol 
Aweeee you're so flippin sweet  IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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posted September 23, 2013 09:14 PM
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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
Yes, you're the Maid of Honor if we have a wedding Aries 
lol
Hahahaha aweeee only if that's okay with you you're such a sweetheart!! I feel sweetheart it's enough of a word for you!!! IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
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From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets, somehow.
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posted September 23, 2013 09:16 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Hahahaha aweeee only if that's okay with you you're such a sweetheart!! I feel sweetheart it's enough of a word for you!!!
Yep, it's alright with me and thanks, I feel that perfect is enough for you sweetie  Oh wait, I called you sweetie too sweetie, lol. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
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posted September 23, 2013 09:17 PM
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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
Yes, you're the Maid of Honor if we have a wedding Aries
lol
Yayyy!!! 
And I'm also coming along for the cake sampling. IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
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posted September 23, 2013 09:21 PM
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Yayyy!!! And I'm also coming along for the cake sampling.
Okay! IP: Logged |
11nahyt
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From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy
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posted September 23, 2013 09:26 PM
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Yayyy!!! And I'm also coming along for the cake sampling.
I'm coming with you! IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
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posted September 23, 2013 09:28 PM
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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
I'm coming with you!
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Barbiegirl19
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posted September 23, 2013 09:32 PM
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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
Yep, it's alright with me and thanks, I feel that perfect is enough for you sweetie Oh wait, I called you sweetie too sweetie, lol.
What's your favorite color!!? IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
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From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets, somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 23, 2013 09:41 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
What's your favorite color!!?
Blue, then Green then Pink, lol. Hbu?
Oh and I have to go to sleep for school tomorrow again, goodnight, have a nice sleep sweetie, talk to you tomorrow IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
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posted September 23, 2013 09:44 PM
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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
Oh and I have to go to sleep for school tomorrow again, goodnight, have a nice sleep sweetie, talk to you tomorrow
Awwah! You two & this 'sweetie talk' is the most adorable thing I've seen in ages!
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Barbiegirl19
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posted September 23, 2013 10:06 PM
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Awwah! You two & this 'sweetie talk' is the most adorable thing I've seen in ages!
Hahahahha he's just the cutest thing ever! IP: Logged |
11nahyt
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From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted September 23, 2013 10:49 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Hahahahha he's just the cutest thing ever!
 hopefully mercury doesnt mind being called cute IP: Logged |
orocairion
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posted September 24, 2013 12:51 AM
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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
Thanks you very much for the story Ami, I'm glad he has found his soul mate and is happy now
I'm 18, and I have so much bad luck with women and I seriously don't get why.
Every time I like a girl, I try everything in my power to get her to like me by doing nice things for her and being romantic, (not in a flirty way, but a gentleman way) but it always turns out bad and they never like me.
I guess my looks aren't good enough or I'm being too nice  (most likely both, especially looks)
I don't want to change being really nice, I feel happy when I can be really nice to people, especially the girl I like.
I'm the same way as your son, I just want to cuddle over sex too
It's a matter of striking a balance. Too much nice-ness, you get labeled as an "un-dateable"(and by extension, unfuckable) nice guy and get cast into the friendzone. Too much indifference, they'll see you as a heartless jerk or just not interested in them and they'll move on.
And too much overt sexual advances will get you put into the "desperate for sex. Ignore" box As such, this: quote:
Every time I like a girl, I try everything in my power to get her to like me by doing nice things for her
is a no-no. Doing that will have the opposite effect.
Be yourself, do stuff YOU like and invite her along for the ride. And of course, join her along her ride when she invites you as well.
Eventually, you two might end up sharing a new ride together.Doing stuff for the sake of pleasing another to get them to like you won't get you that far. As a personal anecdote, you are not the only one with rotten luck when it comes to girls. All my attempts at having a serious relationship(4) have failed so far, plus I lost my virginity really late(for the usual standards) when I was 24, so don't worry too much about it. Stereotypes would tell you that as a Sag, I should have had a bunch of flings and one night stands by now, lol.
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11nahyt
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From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy
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posted September 24, 2013 12:57 AM
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11nahyt
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posted September 24, 2013 12:59 AM
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Originally posted by orocairion:
is a no-no. Doing that will have the opposite effect.
Be yourself, do stuff YOU like and invite her along for the ride. And of course, join her along her ride when she invites you as well.
Eventually, you two might end up sharing a new ride together.Doing stuff for the sake of pleasing another to get them to like you won't get you that far.
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somethingexcellent
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posted September 24, 2013 02:31 AM
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Mercurian Intellect: Oh, and do I really give off a masculine vibe? Be honest, I won't mind the truth
Nah, I thought you were a guy right away but you gave off a neutral vibe to me. IP: Logged |
Xodian
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posted September 24, 2013 05:09 AM
Sun sign: Pisces.
Mars sign: Unknown. I was 16 at the time and we were both of same age. The physical and to a degree, the mental attraction was mutual so one thing led to anotehr I guess. The experience was good and soft as this was a moment reserved more for her than myself actually. The relationship itself did not last since we we had other ambitions and requirements we wanted in a partner. Sex with my wife however is a whole new experience of estacy . At times its precious, at times is perverse, at times its good fun, other times its deep and romantic... I guess its true what they say about Scorpios; Once you go Scorpio, you can never go back  . IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
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From: Pluto-Venusia
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 24, 2013 12:44 PM
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Originally posted by Xodian:
Sex with my wife however is a whole new experience of estacy . At times its precious, at times is perverse, at times its good fun, other times its deep and romantic... I guess its true what they say about Scorpios; Once you go Scorpio, you can never go back .
Sounds fantastic to me!!!  So she's a Scorpio? What are you?
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Xodian
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posted September 24, 2013 05:54 PM
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Sounds fantastic to me!!! So she's a Scorpio? What are you?
Libra . IP: Logged |
vickymadness
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From: Minnesota
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 24, 2013 05:55 PM
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
The guy who I *graced* with my virginity was a fellow Aries. He had Mars in Taurus. My First Time actually wasn't too bad. It was a fun day! I didn't hemorrhage to death, thank God. But after getting physically 'acquainted' with him over a 6-month period or so...I grew tired of him. I knew I was missing something LOL. He lacked true depth & his foreplay sucked!
what was his venus and moon ?
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LovelyAries86
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posted September 24, 2013 06:03 PM
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Originally posted by vickymadness:
what was his venus and moon ?
Virgo Moon, Aries Venus.
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Originally posted by Xodian:
Libra .
Niiice So as an Air sign...do you ever (or have you ever) feel somewhat overwhelmed by all of that intense Scorpio Water?
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ash20
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posted September 24, 2013 06:06 PM
My first was a charming libra with gemini mars.
At the time i didnt regret it but now i have come to because he was a lying, cheating S.O.B. He also still tries to throw it in my face that he was my first (even though it's been years!) And he thinks bc of that im always going to have feelings for him. IP: Logged |
Xodian
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From: Canada
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posted September 24, 2013 06:18 PM
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Niiice So as an Air sign...do you ever (or have you ever) feel somewhat overwhelmed by all of that intense Scorpio Water?
Not at all! In fact I love it! I guess her passionate placements resonate well with my own fire and air dominant placements. Most of my chart is heavily dominated with air and fire and that produces a combination that won't settle for anything less than total drive and passion.
Here is our synasty chart.
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/003628.html
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Mercurian Intellect
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From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets, somehow.
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posted September 24, 2013 08:27 PM
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Originally posted by orocairion:
It's a matter of striking a balance. Too much nice-ness, you get labeled as an "un-dateable"(and by extension, unfuckable) nice guy and get cast into the friendzone. Too much indifference, they'll see you as a heartless jerk or just not interested in them and they'll move on.
And too much overt sexual advances will get you put into the "desperate for sex. Ignore" boxAs such, this: [QUOTE]Every time I like a girl, I try everything in my power to get her to like me by doing nice things for her
is a no-no. Doing that will have the opposite effect.
Be yourself, do stuff YOU like and invite her along for the ride. And of course, join her along her ride when she invites you as well.
Eventually, you two might end up sharing a new ride together.Doing stuff for the sake of pleasing another to get them to like you won't get you that far. As a personal anecdote, you are not the only one with rotten luck when it comes to girls. All my attempts at having a serious relationship(4) have failed so far, plus I lost my virginity really late(for the usual standards) when I was 24, so don't worry too much about it. Stereotypes would tell you that as a Sag, I should have had a bunch of flings and one night stands by now, lol.[/QUOTE] Thanks for all the info, but I'm not interested in missing out on sex because I honestly don't care for it in the first place. I do however care about a relationship. If I be myself, then I be that person who tries to make them happy and pleases them. The stuff I like is talking about Astrology, Science, Psychology, Philosophy and Theology. Everyone likes Art, and I don't, so not much I can do there. I do however have another side of myself which is being heartless, cold, strictly logical and selfish (which by the way I'm very good a deceiving people to get what I want, but hate being that person) I feel that I am going to have no choice but to be that second person since no one is appreciating the first one. IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
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From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets, somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 24, 2013 08:27 PM
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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
hopefully mercury doesnt mind being called cute
No, I don't IP: Logged |
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