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Topic: Scorpio Boyfriend Shocked Me
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Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 1093
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted September 26, 2013 06:27 PM
  
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Originally posted by vickymadness:
It sounds to me most people here in LL are sexually frustrated. There's a fine line between hot-rough and violent-obsessive.
Trust me, no one healthy would like the second.
Well i guess im unhealthy. I like a rough man. My ex scorpio and I would slap eachother and slam eachother hard on the bed and hair pulling too. Some people like that and i am one of them. Only a dull person would make a big deal out of it. Yeah sometimes i had light bruises. But he had bite marks too. Whatever floats our boats. Just like some people like dominatrix. IP: Logged |
crabbypatty
Knowflake Posts: 769
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 26, 2013 07:15 PM
I think, BeckyLee, that the bigger question is not whether this sort of behavior is characteristic of Scorpio men, but whether this particular man could pose a threat to you. Don't go on any trip with him. In fact, you might want to back away from him for a while altogether and see how he reacts. If he does anything psycho-ish, you'll know you were smart not to continue the relationship. If he is the kind of man who could become enraged after he sinks everything into you and you still talk about your ex, then you are digging yourself deeper into a hole with him. One day he might explode, out of frustration that he is not winning you over, and who knows how he explodes? Could be life threatening. I'm not kidding.Why don't you put up his birth details - if you have time of birth it would be most exact - and we can tell you if he has psycho tendencies jumping off of the chart. IP: Logged |
AscTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 715
From: Pretoria, Gauteng,South Africa
Registered: May 2009
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posted September 27, 2013 02:10 AM
I think its a "guy" thing i.e to be the one that "wins" instead of the other guy.To "fertilize" what was once belonging to another and claim it as yours etc. I see a lot of that on the Bachelorette: The guys compete to "win" the girls heart. But in actuality, the real competition is with each other;they want to outdo the other by being the one who takes the "prize". It's macho bull** It is much more sexually invigorating to "take" something that belongs to another(steal it per se) then it is to take something that is free and available. him(31):Scorpio Sun, Libra Moon, Capricorn Venus, Virgo Mars, Mercury scorpio, jupiter libra me(29): Scorpio sun, Aries moon, Libra venus, Virgo Mars, Mercury/jupiter saggittarius You have a Venus/Moon double whammy by sign. That's intense. IP: Logged |
Odette
Knowflake Posts: 2613
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Registered: May 2012
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posted September 27, 2013 02:36 AM
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last night during sex, he was kind of violent and said things like, ' if your ex saw you now, do you think he would talk to you again ?' and 'you can deny it but you are mine now, you can date him but I know you will come back to me in 3 days' and threatened me (kind of jokingly) with getting even more violent if I don't agree to this holiday !
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Oh... I don't know... I just don't know.
I would tell you to break things off.... but maybe he just said those things in the heat of the moment, and didn't mean it.
Obviously he is jealous over your ex.. so maybe pent up anger got the best of him. It depends on his general personality and how he treats you overall.
If you like him overall and you want to be with him - and you feel *safe* with him, then trust your instincts.
We don't know him. What he said sounds bad.
But I can't put myself in your shoes when I don't know him *shrug* IP: Logged |
Odette
Knowflake Posts: 2613
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Registered: May 2012
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posted September 27, 2013 02:45 AM
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I like a rough man.
Rough sex is one thing. Making cray cray psychotic comments and threats is another. But I don't want to jump on the bandwagon and say he is a potential 'axe murderer' or what not... because people say and do stupid things sometimes.
His overall behaviour towards her and what his general personality is like - is more important than this -one- particular event. IP: Logged |
crabbypatty
Knowflake Posts: 769
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 27, 2013 06:49 AM
It's true, none of us know him so we can't tell if he is an axe murderer..and only BeckyLee actually heard his half joking threat and knows in what manner he said it. With what expression, in what words. Regardless, it would be a good test to see what he does if she doesn't join him on the trip. That will demonstrate to BeckyLee what his reaction to perceived rejection is. If he takes it cheerfully and continues to be sweet, then whew. If he goes off the deep end, then that's BeckyLee's red flag.IP: Logged |
vickymadness
Knowflake Posts: 1233
From: Minnesota
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 27, 2013 07:19 AM
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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
Well i guess im unhealthy. I like a rough man. My ex scorpio and I would slap eachother and slam eachother hard on the bed and hair pulling too. Some people like that and i am one of them. Only a dull person would make a big deal out of it. Yeah sometimes i had light bruises. But he had bite marks too. Whatever floats our boats.Just like some people like dominatrix.
I was talking in general, not specifically sex, but an obsessive persona. And frankly my dear, I'm not interested in anyone's sex life.
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Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 1093
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted September 27, 2013 08:05 AM
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Originally posted by vickymadness:
I was talking in general, not specifically sex, but an obsessive persona. And frankly my dear, I'm not interested in anyone's sex life.
Obviously u are because u are replying. And anyways unless you are some type of sex therapist with a degree then i wouldnt go around diagnosing people with sexual frustration. IP: Logged |
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