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Topic: Attracting jelousy
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NeptunianSag
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From: Your imagination
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 02, 2013 02:36 PM
  
What aspects would indicate this? Mars-Pluto aspects? I have mars trine pluto. My pluto and mars are on my midheaven and people sometimes try to start a drama with me and seem jelous.IP: Logged |
IrisRainbow
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posted October 02, 2013 02:41 PM
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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
What aspects would indicate this? Mars-Pluto aspects? I have mars trine pluto. My pluto and mars are on my midheaven and people sometimes try to start a drama with me and seem jelous.
I have Moon Square Pluto and I mostly attract Scorpio-like men but nothing dramatic.Maybe a seventh house pluto would make the partners possessive and jealous?Maybe venus/pluto aspects would play a role too IP: Logged |
chargeomentum
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posted October 02, 2013 02:43 PM
Do you mean that your talks or actions (aspects) are somehow attracting drama and things like that? Same thing to me.If actions relate to Mars, then talks relate to Mercury? If so, I have Mercury trine Pluto. IP: Logged |
chargeomentum
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posted October 02, 2013 02:44 PM
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Originally posted by IrisRainbow:
I have Moon Square Pluto and I mostly attract Scorpio-like men but nothing dramatic.Maybe a seventh house pluto would make the partners possessive and jealous?Maybe venus/pluto aspects would play a role too
Venus square Pluto I do have, not sure what this aspect mean. IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 02, 2013 02:53 PM
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Originally posted by IrisRainbow:
I have Moon Square Pluto and I mostly attract Scorpio-like men but nothing dramatic.Maybe a seventh house pluto would make the partners possessive and jealous?Maybe venus/pluto aspects would play a role too
It's usually from un-known people, people trying to play mind games with me, the people close to me are not jealous that i know of. I too, attract scorpio like men, which of course have no problem with, since i'm also attracted to them (Scorpio in my 2nd house, with pluto in that house) IP: Logged |
IrisRainbow
Knowflake Posts: 358
From: Pluto
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted October 02, 2013 03:34 PM
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Originally posted by chargeomentum:
Venus square Pluto I do have, not sure what this aspect mean.
They say that people with Venus/Mars or Asc square Pluto are magnetic but I suppose it has its downsides as well. IP: Logged |
BellaFenice
Newflake Posts: 7
From: Phoenix, AZ, USA
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 02, 2013 04:26 PM
Possibly a natal sun square pluto or sun square mars? I have these aspects and tend to attract possessive, intense men that often deals with jealousy. Which makes me run 50 miles the other direction! Lol. To be fair, I do have my moments of jealousy so it definitely can work both ways. Pluto-Moon and Pluto-Venus often are good indicators of attracting intense partners depending on the type of aspect. IP: Logged |
ScorpioMoon
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From: Atlanta. Georgia, United States
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted October 02, 2013 04:26 PM
Well, I've got:sun/mercury/Jupiter trine Pluto
Pluto sesquiqudrate asc
Pluto in the 8th house I tend to attract very bitter, spiteful, sometimes jealous, hateful people. They make me want to run and hide. These hateful people will try to get me to feel bad about myself by criticizing every little thing about me, bullying me physically, and so on. D: IP: Logged |
Bluejay
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posted October 02, 2013 06:33 PM
I have read that people with Moon/Pluto contacts tend to attract jealousy. I think this is very true. I have a 1 degree Moon/Pluto conjunction that is also conjunct Lilith in the 8th house. I have had "friends" that have acted very jealous towards me, and women tend to not like me when they first meet me. At my last job I worked with over 30 women, but only a few men. The women there were not welcoming, and downright hostile towards me when I first started. Even though the average age was around 50, it was a very clique atmosphere reminiscent of highschool. Most of the employees were in commission only sales, so there was a very competitive atmosphere to begin with, but I was in a different department so I really didn't understand what the deal was. I just killed everyone with kindness, and went out of my way to help everyone, even the people that I didn't like. Eventually I was accepted, and although I'm sure not everyone liked me, they respected me, and quit acting so b*tchy towards me. I have been told that I come across as a bit standoffish(I'm a Scorpio), but when people get to know me they see that I'm very compassionate, kind, and open minded towards everyone that I meet. The only type of people I really tend to have a problem with are people with big egos, or those that refuse to see anyone's point of view other than their own. That could be because I have 5 planets in 8th house Libra. I can always see situations from different points of view, and I find self centered people very annoying.
My ex had a Moon/Pluto opposition and during the years we were together, I saw many of his friends and coworkers get very jealous towards him. He's a very happy go lucky type of guy, so I always thought it was weird that so many guys were jealous of him. Guys tend to be more openly competitive, but he seemed to bring out catty rather than competitive behavior in a lot of guys. It was like they wanted to see him fail, and I've seen friends of his get mad when he accomplished something, rather than being happy for him as a friend should be. I think Moon/Pluto tends to bring the hater out in others. IP: Logged |
Zander916
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From: I visit a lot of planets, but the Sun is my home.
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posted October 02, 2013 07:48 PM
I think the houses involved can really make a difference too IP: Logged |
elixir
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From: United States
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted October 02, 2013 08:46 PM
i have sun and jupiter trine my pluto. My pluto is in the eighth house. I attract jealous people too. I think that my sun conjunct jupiter may do it as well because I am pretty "lucky" in life. People think that I don't deserve it. quote:
Originally posted by ScorpioMoon:
Well, I've got:sun/mercury/Jupiter trine Pluto
Pluto sesquiqudrate asc
Pluto in the 8th house I tend to attract very bitter, spiteful, sometimes jealous, hateful people. They make me want to run and hide. These hateful people will try to get me to feel bad about myself by criticizing every little thing about me, bullying me physically, and so on. D:
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DialecticLady
Knowflake Posts: 104
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Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 02, 2013 08:53 PM
Do you talk jealousy=envy? because if it, I tend to attract envy too or something like this,as my presence bother some people. I have asc square pluto and moon square pluto. IP: Logged |
Enigma9
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posted October 03, 2013 01:11 AM
omg i want to cry, i understand everything you wrote quote:
Originally posted by Bluejay:
I have read that people with Moon/Pluto contacts tend to attract jealousy. I think this is very true. I have a 1 degree Moon/Pluto conjunction that is also conjunct Lilith in the 8th house. I have had "friends" that have acted very jealous towards me, and women tend to not like me when they first meet me. At my last job I worked with over 30 women, but only a few men. The women there were not welcoming, and downright hostile towards me when I first started. Even though the average age was around 50, it was a very clique atmosphere reminiscent of highschool. Most of the employees were in commission only sales, so there was a very competitive atmosphere to begin with, but I was in a different department so I really didn't understand what the deal was. I just killed everyone with kindness, and went out of my way to help everyone, even the people that I didn't like. Eventually I was accepted, and although I'm sure not everyone liked me, they respected me, and quit acting so b*tchy towards me. I have been told that I come across as a bit standoffish(I'm a Scorpio), but when people get to know me they see that I'm very compassionate, kind, and open minded towards everyone that I meet. The only type of people I really tend to have a problem with are people with big egos, or those that refuse to see anyone's point of view other than their own. That could be because I have 5 planets in 8th house Libra. I can always see situations from different points of view, and I find self centered people very annoying.
My ex had a Moon/Pluto opposition and during the years we were together, I saw many of his friends and coworkers get very jealous towards him. He's a very happy go lucky type of guy, so I always thought it was weird that so many guys were jealous of him. Guys tend to be more openly competitive, but he seemed to bring out catty rather than competitive behavior in a lot of guys. It was like they wanted to see him fail, and I've seen friends of his get mad when he accomplished something, rather than being happy for him as a friend should be. I think Moon/Pluto tends to bring the hater out in others.
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Enigma9
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posted October 03, 2013 01:13 AM
it's the moon square pluto and i have it too. we look and we are so powerful, it hurts them. quote:
Originally posted by DialecticLady:
Do you talk jealousy=envy? because if it, I tend to attract envy too or something like this,as my presence bother some people. I have asc square pluto and moon square pluto.
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IrisRainbow
Knowflake Posts: 358
From: Pluto
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted October 03, 2013 04:03 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Bluejay:
I have read that people with Moon/Pluto contacts tend to attract jealousy. I think this is very true. I have a 1 degree Moon/Pluto conjunction that is also conjunct Lilith in the 8th house. I have had "friends" that have acted very jealous towards me, and women tend to not like me when they first meet me. At my last job I worked with over 30 women, but only a few men. The women there were not welcoming, and downright hostile towards me when I first started. Even though the average age was around 50, it was a very clique atmosphere reminiscent of highschool. Most of the employees were in commission only sales, so there was a very competitive atmosphere to begin with, but I was in a different department so I really didn't understand what the deal was. I just killed everyone with kindness, and went out of my way to help everyone, even the people that I didn't like. Eventually I was accepted, and although I'm sure not everyone liked me, they respected me, and quit acting so b*tchy towards me. I have been told that I come across as a bit standoffish(I'm a Scorpio), but when people get to know me they see that I'm very compassionate, kind, and open minded towards everyone that I meet. The only type of people I really tend to have a problem with are people with big egos, or those that refuse to see anyone's point of view other than their own. That could be because I have 5 planets in 8th house Libra. I can always see situations from different points of view, and I find self centered people very annoying.
My ex had a Moon/Pluto opposition and during the years we were together, I saw many of his friends and coworkers get very jealous towards him. He's a very happy go lucky type of guy, so I always thought it was weird that so many guys were jealous of him. Guys tend to be more openly competitive, but he seemed to bring out catty rather than competitive behavior in a lot of guys. It was like they wanted to see him fail, and I've seen friends of his get mad when he accomplished something, rather than being happy for him as a friend should be. I think Moon/Pluto tends to bring the hater out in others.
This is SO true!I have moon sq pluto and there are only a few women that I get along with well.Most dislike me or smth,but I feel welcome around men and like sharing ideas with them but women always think I am flirting -.- IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted October 03, 2013 04:17 AM
I use to attract jealously but ever since I stopped taking myself seriously people seem to find me more relatable. IP: Logged |
AriesLilith
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posted October 03, 2013 08:25 AM
I know a friend that has Scorpio Moon, and she often had issues with jealousy from other people. Thought what I could perceive was that her way of being - too shy and lack of social skills - seems to be the main reason why it seems to irritate others in some way. And then she seems to think too much as in being a bit paranoid and interpret even innocent actions as having negative intent/feelings behind.Sometimes, I feel that some people might attract jealousy due to their own energy/behavior, although of course it is not alright for people to be jealous and act it out. And they are jealous due to their own insecurity or other issues too. Personally I have a packed 8th house, thought the only issue I have is that I can't seem to naturally get along with women, aside of my social skills lacking too. But I rarely have jealousy issues, and then when a friend is jealous of me, usually I don't care and I can understand their feelings. They also never really acted out negatively, they are nice people just with some insecurity issues. IP: Logged |
lucie
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posted October 03, 2013 09:09 AM
hey all!i have libra pluto-mercury conjunct in my natal first house....it is very often that females get jalous about my person...and i get irritated because they are jalous...i therefor prefer being in company of males IP: Logged |
milly
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posted October 03, 2013 09:20 AM
Hi, I relate with some of your comments. I attract jealousy and power struggles, women do no befriend with me easily but men do.I have pluto in 7th, very close to 8th house sextile to venus. I am also pisces asc with neptuno in sag 10th house. Pluto and venus form a yod with my asc. IP: Logged |
DialecticLady
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posted October 04, 2013 12:55 AM
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Originally posted by Enigma9:
it's the moon square pluto and i have it too. we look and we are so powerful, it hurts them.
But I can't understand what kind of power they see...Like I have power to do what? Can't understand this! IP: Logged |
DialecticLady
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posted October 04, 2013 12:56 AM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
I use to attract jealously but ever since I stopped taking myself seriously people seem to find me more relatable.
Very true! IP: Logged |
AriesKat
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From: Brooklyn, NY USA
Registered: May 2011
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posted October 04, 2013 08:45 AM
Venus pluto and maybe pluto in the 7th I had a friend who would try to evoke jealousy from me she was a virgo. And lets not even get started with love relationships. Jealousy is always present. I was never jealous of my friend tho..I was happy for her in whatever she did. IP: Logged |
lioninash
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From: new england!
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted October 04, 2013 04:46 PM
I too have moon square pluto (pluto in the first, scorpio) and i have to agree. Growing up i would always have other girls HATING me for no reason, when i never did anything wrong to them. Nowadays, i get along pretty well with females UNLESS there are males around. Its like once girls see that a male is giving me attention, they do anything in their power to insult me like talking sh*t, or making fun of me constantly, or talking badly about me to the rest of the guys there. All because of attention im RECIEVING from a guy. B*tches i tell you -_-IP: Logged |
Enigma9
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posted October 04, 2013 10:48 PM
they r quote:
Originally posted by lioninash:
I too have moon square pluto (pluto in the first, scorpio) and i have to agree. Growing up i would always have other girls HATING me for no reason, when i never did anything wrong to them. Nowadays, i get along pretty well with females UNLESS there are males around. Its like once girls see that a male is giving me attention, they do anything in their power to insult me like talking sh*t, or making fun of me constantly, or talking badly about me to the rest of the guys there. All because of attention im RECIEVING from a guy. B*tches i tell you -_-
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Enigma9
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posted October 04, 2013 10:49 PM
i'm tying to find it myself. quote:
Originally posted by DialecticLady:
But I can't understand what kind of power they see...Like I have power to do what? Can't understand this!
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