posted October 03, 2013 02:06 AM            

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Originally posted by Violets:

Yeah, my Pluto transits have honestly been really enjoyable for me. I stopped acting like a d0uchy hipster, mellowed out a bit, found someone I truly loves who truly loves me, and we have a sweet little boy now. So yeah, life changed for sure, but in all good ways.

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Oh, well look how wonderful Pluto was to you!
"Hello violet, I come bearing gifts. Have a seat dear"
I mean the aftermath of what Pluto did for me, I do appreciate it. I love the person I am now, but did he have to beat me soo hard? Lol. Was Pluto aspecting your Venus or in your 7house when you met your significant other?

posted October 03, 2013 02:19 AM            

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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
Oh, well look how wonderful Pluto was to you!
"Hello violet, I come bearing gifts"
I mean the aftermath of what Pluto did for me, I do appreciate it. I love the person I am now, but did he have to beat me soo hard? Lol. Was Pluto aspecting your Venus or in your 7house when you met your significant other?

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Ha ha. No, it wasn't exact on the day that we met, it had already gone its first round. My Venus is in 9th, and my husband (who I had just met) and I actually moved to another state together, which is something I would normally *never* do with someone I had only known for two months...but I guess we knew there was something very meaningful there.

But then Pluto came around to my Venus again, and I ran for the hills back to where I'm comfortable, in a nice liberal city. So he came back after I did, but not until I had to have a bit of a crisis, realizing that this person really loved me, and I loved him, and I had no idea what to do with that.

So there were some things that were difficult.

posted October 03, 2013 02:27 AM            

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
^ What aspect did Pluto make with your Venus? conjunction? it currently sextiles my Venus and T. Saturn trines my Venus.

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posted October 03, 2013 02:47 AM            

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
^ Neptune enjoys 12th house. Don’t get too lost in fantasy world. Your dreams may be amazing. You may develop psychic abilities.

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I hadn't taken Neptune into account in regards to my awesome dreams lately haha. My dreams have been great actually. very vivid. And I can actually remember them after I wake up. ^_^. .. as for psychic abilities, I've always been some of that. But I had always been soo afraid of anything like that. I wanted no parts of it. Until recently. Some lady stopped me last saturday while i walked out of a strip club Lolol ,and told me "don't be stupid, use your gift".. Just like that....We spoke some more and she confirmed a lot of things for me about myself.. my mother is psychic too, and other things. so maybe it is time i dabble into that. It's weird because I've had a few psychics tell me about me (not like I ever asked). . And its like they were always angry at me for not 'embracing' it.

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Saturn is dangerous in 8th, take care of your sexual health. Pay your debts. What goes around, comes around in 8th.

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My god could you sound any scarier? Hahah. Thankfully I'm not sexually active at le moment..But still, I get what you mean.

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If we combine both, you may get STD(8th house saturn) from someone in your dream(12th house neptune) .

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posted October 03, 2013 03:15 AM            

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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
Lmfaoo what are y'all talking about?! I pressed submit too soon while editing my post. So I deleted it until I was ready to publish!

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posted October 03, 2013 03:16 AM            

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Originally posted by Violets:
@ Nahyt--
Sorry if that sounded smug or something, I didn't mean it that way. I'm glad that you're still intact after all that Pluto/Uranus action.

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posted October 03, 2013 03:17 AM            

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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
I didn't find your post smug at all lol! Sorry for the confusion. You have nothing to apologize for

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posted October 03, 2013 03:18 AM            

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
Did I p*ss you off Nahyt? I was just kidding .

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posted October 03, 2013 03:21 AM            

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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
Of course not! Lolol.

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posted October 03, 2013 03:28 AM            

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
I was just being cautious , my Mars makes some crappy aspects with your planets.

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posted October 03, 2013 03:34 AM            

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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
Some lady stopped me last saturday while i walked out of a strip club Lolol ,and told me "don't be stupid, use your gift".. Just like that....We spoke some more and she confirmed a lot of things for me about myself.. my mother is psychic too, and other things. so maybe it is time i dabble into that. It's weird because I've had a few psychics tell me about me (not like I ever asked). . And its like they were always angry at me for not 'embracing' it.

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posted October 03, 2013 05:14 AM            

Anyway, take some deep breaths and relax. It really does work! Close your eyes and at LEAST 10 good, long breaths.

One of the things that I know upsets you, about relationships. You're one step ahead already because you recognize your problem and want to fix it. Your good heart and your well meaning desire is there. You just have to find out how to make it come out in your life.
Not that I'm a special case, but I do have Pluto Conjunct Asc. Pluto, as I've read, is the planet of death, rebirth, cleansing, purging, regeneration. Myself, with it conjunct asc I am on this constant quest to change myself. I have an idea of the person that I want to be. I don't think that I'll ever get there, but I've made progress.
Dig deep, really deep, reflect objectively on your past relationships to understand yourself. I've never read the book, "The power of positive thinking", but I know that positive thinking works.
In the thread that you talked about this issue, you said "can't" a lot. "Why Can't I" or your fear, etc.
That needs to change. You WILL change what you want to change. You WILL conquer what you want to. You WILL become the person that you want. You are in charge of yourself, no one else.
I'm your age and in the same boat really. Different specific issues, but very single. LOL I'm hopeful though. I don't say that as to rub it in or anything like that. It's just, if I can be positive about defeating my issues, you can too!
You can do it!
You can defeat these things that bring you down.
Always think positive, apply strategy where you can, brute force where you can, to alter yourself. Meditate on those thoughts. I don't mean that you have to take some time out of your day, sit down, and meditate. Although you can if you want and that would be great!

But I keep those thoughts in the back of my head - ALWAYS.

Pluto is trying to transform you. It could be that the things that you want changed, are in fact changing.
You know... I don't know if this is a "saying" or not but I keep it in mind sometimes.
If you're drowning. Sometimes the best thing is to reach the bottom so that you have something solid to push off of.

You could emerge from this even better! The Caterpillar to the butterfly!
Stay strong!

I think writing will help get it out also. If it's eating away at you that bad, the issue that I know of or others. Return to your other thread in Sweat Peas and just release. I'll keep an eye out and meet you over there if you do.

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
That sounds so cool.

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posted October 03, 2013 06:05 AM            

Whoa, that's a lot of harsh transits hitting you all at once! Guess this is like everyone else said, please find something to do with all of that tension or you'll go crazy. Pluto's like that, turning you inside out, bringing up stuff you thought you'd finally gotten over. Eugh.

I have a Cap moon, too, so I totally understand wanting to just tuck it all away.

You don't have to talk about it if that's not your thing - though good thing you shared it here! Look at how many people opened up, that's amazing. But what kind of stuff do you do when you're mad? Focus on that whenever Pluto and Uranus are at it again. Could be arts or physical stuff like suggested, maybe even cleaning or work or putting that attention on someone else (to forget about it for a moment). Can you still run? Gah, really sorry your anger's scaring you so much. Or just the transits in general.

When the transits hit me, I went crazy. Just... ahhh it was bad. Actually, you sounded like me when they started. Still is. Accepting that it'll be over some day sort of worked. Maybe not for every day, but if it gave me just one day of not feeling so tense, it was a win. And letting the bad feelings and depression in turned out to be sort of healing. I guess that's what Pluto/the 8th house wants.