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Topic: I think I'm understanding h12 synastry
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Ceridwen
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posted October 11, 2013 07:05 AM
  
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Originally posted by Gabby:
12th house relationships never really go away...you can ignore them for years at a time, then they pop back up like they never ended....because they never leave your heart and mind, even if you wish they would!!  Sadly both people are usually equally affected, so its a life long bond for better or for worse...they will be the person you think about when you feel alone because they made you feel like you were not alone!
It has some haunting quality (though not in the obsessive 8th house sexual kind of way).
I am just experiencing my Moon and Jupiter in someone else`s 12th house. Not sure how he experiences it, but it seems like he is just "on my path"
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ash20
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posted October 11, 2013 08:36 AM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
12th house relationships never really go away...you can ignore them for years at a time, then they pop back up like they never ended....because they never leave your heart and mind, even if you wish they would!! Sadly both people are usually equally affected, so its a life long bond for better or for worse...they will be the person you think about when you feel alone because they made you feel like you were not alone!
So true!
For both of the guys who had planets in my 12th i definitely feel they were more special to me than the rest. Although they hurt me waay more than anybody else could, i still long for them and find it easy to forgive over and over again. And just when i think they're gone forever, they come back into my life.
Honestly sometimes i wish they would stay away. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 11, 2013 08:49 AM
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Originally posted by ash20:
So true!
For both of the guys who had planets in my 12th i definitely feel they were more special to me than the rest. Although they hurt me waay more than anybody else could, i still long for them and find it easy to forgive over and over again. And just when i think they're gone forever, they come back into my life.
Honestly sometimes i wish they would stay away.
That's so typical of the twelfth house. You want them to be near and far at the same time. Sometimes, memories are all you can have.
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Lioness
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posted October 11, 2013 12:08 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
You say you are over fishy yet you keep bringing him. up. just saying.....
Well h
What I have said is I'm working on getting over him... I do feel much better, but at the same time it's difficult.
Things keep pulling us back to one another for one reason or another...
We aren't back together, not even discussing it..
But the air needed to be clear...
Regardless we always seem to go back to some sort of communication with each other. It's very rocky between us, not not stable at all, but we have some freaky bond... Idk...
I know it's sounds weird....
Anyways, he's not going to let me just walk away forever..
I'm starting to think we will always be a pain in the azz to each other.... I am moving forward, even started dating, but that doesn't mean, I won't post about him anymore..
Or about something's I'm going through due to my contact with him... IP: Logged |
blueskiez06
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posted October 11, 2013 12:14 PM
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Originally posted by jjj:
misunderstandings... it is difficult to avoid these though. 2 people just seem to approach things differently. They may even want to be direct with one another, but somehow one doesnt seem to get what the other says or interprets it completely differently. Argggghhhh!
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Gabby
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posted October 11, 2013 01:28 PM
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
It has some haunting quality (though not in the obsessive 8th house sexual kind of way).
I am just experiencing my Moon and Jupiter in someone else`s 12th house. Not sure how he experiences it, but it seems like he is just "on my path"
Mmmmmmmmm, 8th house! My favorite relationship, my 12th was in his 8th....his 12th was in my 4th, omg...wow, what a bond! VERY deep! IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted October 11, 2013 01:35 PM
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Originally posted by ash20:
So true!
For both of the guys who had planets in my 12th i definitely feel they were more special to me than the rest. Although they hurt me waay more than anybody else could, i still long for them and find it easy to forgive over and over again. And just when i think they're gone forever, they come back into my life.
Honestly sometimes i wish they would stay away.
They hurt us more because they touch us so much deeper...everything is more intense! I think we freak them out and they respond in typical guy manner, shut down, run or do anything to break the bond that is so deep it terrifies them. They cant deal with their emotions on a normal level, how can they deal with the emotions a bond like this makes? I think its pretty typical for a 12th house relationship to begin with some kind of pain because of this. They have no idea how much they can crush us, if they did i doubt they would allow it to happen!
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ash20
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posted October 11, 2013 04:13 PM
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