posted October 18, 2013 07:15 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
off topic: I agree with your belief in Draconic astrology.

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Thats good, more people need to start using it!

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posted October 18, 2013 07:16 PM            

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posted October 18, 2013 08:06 PM            

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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
I think it also helps if you're (almost) Water Void like me - I only have Pluto in Scorpio.

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posted October 18, 2013 08:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
Doesn't this make u more plutonian bc you hv a singleton in Pluto? It would mean more intense emotions I think.

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posted October 18, 2013 09:10 PM            

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Originally posted by ash20:
I think virgo or people with virgo placements. From my own personal experience.

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posted October 20, 2013 06:52 AM            

To me you only keep in touch if there's unfinished business and, if that's the case, then finish it and then move on. I don't believe a person is 100% true to their current partner if they're stick acknowledging an ex.

posted October 20, 2013 08:16 AM            

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Originally posted by VirGuy:
Virgo sun, definitely. I read that Virgos can simply switch off to the fact that someone exists once they've moved on. This is certainly true of me. I'd never keep in touch with an ex. I've seen mention of Scorpio too. I have a Scorpio Moon so maybe that's also a factor in my resolute ability to switch off from someone.

To me you only keep in touch if there's unfinished business and, if that's the case, then finish it and then move on. I don't believe a person is 100% true to their current partner if they're stick acknowledging an ex.

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I don't think this is true You can be friends with an ex if you just seemed to have a nice friendship with the person and you had something together that was nice, but just didn't function in a relationship... not that I, myself have contacts with my exes (and Im a virgo) but that wasn't because I didn't wanted too, it was them

posted October 20, 2013 08:53 AM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
I don't think this is true You can be friends with an ex if you just seemed to have a nice friendship with the person and you had something together that was nice, but just didn't function in a relationship... not that I, myself have contacts with my exes (and Im a virgo) but that wasn't because I didn't wanted too, it was them

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The only reason I'd keep in touch with an ex is if I'd never wanted to let go of them in the first place and was still hoping to get them back... and if that was the case I wouldn't have moved on and met someone new.

posted October 20, 2013 09:21 AM            

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The only reason I'd keep in touch with an ex is if I'd never wanted to let go of them in the first place and was still hoping to get them back... and if that was the case I wouldn't have moved on and met someone new.

I'd argue that if you're loyal to your partner then you move on and cut off from your exes totally, such that your current partner knows that you're committed to them and not still partially harboring some secret hope of a reconciliation with the ex. Maybe this is a loyalty thing (as much as a cutting off thing) arising out of certain parts of my chart - I'd be interested to find out what kind of placements/aspects might cause this.[/B][/QUOTE]

There are many different kinds of relationships... but I think that if both agrees that there is no sexual attraction anymore and it is pure friendship, then why end that just because one of them gets a new boyfriend/girlfriend? I think it's such a poor thing to do... friendship is often stronger than a relationship, and you can't know exactly how other peoples relationship was, maybe there wasn't especially much attraction and maybe it faded away...
I think that being able to maintain a friendship with an ex indicates how developed and mature your social skills are... the other thing is a bit childish... actually I think that when you HAVE to quit the contact it is because you still have some feelings... if you maintain it, then you actually moved on...

posted October 20, 2013 10:15 AM            

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i'm a stelluim in Virgo and couldn't DISAGREE with you more.

if the person was an A**hole to u, then yeah by all means cut them out.

But if they came in and out of your life just because things didn't work out, then wish them well go looking for a new relationship encourage them to do the same, but don't cut them out as if they are worthless and this new girl is made of diamonds or something.

specially that you probably have female friends, who is to say that none of them have home wrecker potential, while your ex's are just ex's....treat people like dirt, or like your old dirty laundry if you want, but people aren't static (or stationary no moving none feeling?) objects like an old shirt.
They move have their own troubles so when someone that showed them something good in the world turns and just basically 'drops' them down showing them a very bad side to....well expect the unexpected even if not soon after you do it, even if after 5 or ten years, you don't know how you left those people, and if there was a lot of resentment, deal with it when it happens. Peace is the hard thing to maintain with others, wrecking a person that is already a wreck, which is where all are when we break up....is easy stuff, and inconsiderate and i just don't subscribe to that type of behaivour.

posted October 20, 2013 10:54 AM            

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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
I agree with fixed. Fixed moon or fixed Venus. At least in my case it's true,

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posted October 20, 2013 02:14 PM              

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Originally posted by Zander916:
Ohhh. My Venus Mars are Virgo. Maybe that's it combined with Leo sun.

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I have this position too.
@Zander: You seem to have a very similar chart. Also Leo, right?

posted November 17, 2022 08:28 PM            

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Originally posted by FruitTreeFresh:
Fixed signs especially Scorpio as its my ascendant. When it's over, never go back.

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posted November 17, 2022 08:29 PM            

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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
Well, it's complicated... I also have Mars in Aries, therefore am also Martian, and my main dispositor is Venus in Leo, which I feel strongly as well, so I can be considered Venusian too... Haha

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posted November 17, 2022 08:33 PM            

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Originally posted by NoRainNoRainbows:
i'm a stelluim in Virgo and couldn't DISAGREE with you more.

if the person was an A**hole to u, then yeah by all means cut them out.

But if they came in and out of your life just because things didn't work out, then wish them well go looking for a new relationship encourage them to do the same, but don't cut them out as if they are worthless and this new girl is made of diamonds or something.

specially that you probably have female friends, who is to say that none of them have home wrecker potential, while your ex's are just ex's....treat people like dirt, or like your old dirty laundry if you want, but people aren't static (or stationary no moving none feeling?) objects like an old shirt.
They move have their own troubles so when someone that showed them something good in the world turns and just basically 'drops' them down showing them a very bad side to....well expect the unexpected even if not soon after you do it, even if after 5 or ten years, you don't know how you left those people, and if there was a lot of resentment, deal with it when it happens. Peace is the hard thing to maintain with others, wrecking a person that is already a wreck, which is where all are when we break up....is easy stuff, and inconsiderate and i just don't subscribe to that type of behaivour.

on the other hand i have cut people out totally from my life, i see them in my face and i look through them or don't say hi, or any signs of existence...some were previous family members,(so not always an ex or so) but for me to do that to anyone, they'd have to have crossed a very VERY thick red line. not simply broke up with me....

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posted November 17, 2022 08:34 PM            

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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
I have Aqua venus, i will forgive them, but there is no way that i will reconcile the relationship, once it's over, then that's it. I'll probably be abit more cold and aloof depending on what they did, but i do forgive easily and usually forget, but my attitude might change towards them.

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posted November 18, 2022 02:36 AM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
Yesterday I blocked my husband's number and on social media. I had my last straw moment with him a few weeks ago. I drove 11 hours straight with one Dollar General parking lot car nap on the eclipse.

Scorpio Moon, Pluto, Lilith, Juno
8th house Uranus and Neptune

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I was just thinking about you. I'm sorry.

posted November 18, 2022 11:12 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
I was just thinking about you. I'm sorry.

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