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Topic: Are you better suited to living alone or with someone (roommate, lover, family, etc.)
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Barbiegirl19
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From: Smalltown Pennsylvania
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted October 22, 2013 12:05 AM
  
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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
Yeah, I'm that way too, not really sure why, they are nice to me, lol.I'm really close with my Mom, but I still like being alone. Air's detachment.
I'm not really close with any of mine lol. Sad I know. My family are my best friends. IP: Logged |
12muddy
Knowflake Posts: 791
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted October 22, 2013 12:08 AM
I find living alone ok, I lived by myself for a while and didn't feel lonely or anything like that. But I *prefer* living with other people. I like seeing "traces" of another person, like their clothes, their unwashed dishes, shoes, their stuff in the bathroom..etc.. It just makes the house feel like "home". Taurus mars in the 4th house lol. IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1576
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 22, 2013 12:11 AM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
I'm not really close with any of mine lol. Sad I know. My family are my best friends.
Aw, that's okay, not everyone is  I'm not either but only with my Mom. IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1576
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 22, 2013 12:11 AM
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Originally posted by 12muddy:
I find living alone ok, I lived by myself for a while and didn't feel lonely or anything like that. But I *prefer* living with other people. I like seeing "traces" of another person, like their clothes, their unwashed dishes, shoes, their stuff in the bathroom..etc.. It just makes the house feel like "home". Taurus mars in the 4th house lol.
I just noticed your posts are at 777
Lucky number  IP: Logged |
12muddy
Knowflake Posts: 791
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted October 22, 2013 12:13 AM
^ Lol yeah I've just noticed. I didn't notice when my post count turned 666 either. LOl another member told me and I was like "That's the devil number". IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent
Knowflake Posts: 3484
From: vodka fine, I'm so divine
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 22, 2013 12:14 AM
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11nahyt: I'm too moody. My mood swings are crazy lol. I really need lots of alone time. Plus i think its more exciting living separately. He can stay a my place for a few days at a time. But living with him permanently, does not appeal to me at all!. I'm complicated I know
Yeah I like that idea too! Hell, you may not marry someone, but I love the idea of my spouse not even knowing where my house is...it sounds so different and strange,  IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1576
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 22, 2013 12:16 AM
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Originally posted by 12muddy:
^ Lol yeah I've just noticed. I didn't notice when my post count turned 666 either. LOl another member told me and I was like "That's the devil number".
 Hmm, I noticed 777, another member noticed 666. There's has to be something too that, right?
And now I have 1500
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Violets
Knowflake Posts: 950
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Registered: Apr 2011
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posted October 22, 2013 12:30 AM
With Aquarius Mercury in my 7th and Merc conjunct my DC, I like living by myself in apartment buildings where I have neighbors I get along with, who share similar tastes and interests. That way I still have my own space, but people around to chat or hang out with if I just feel like it.My husband and I are both people who do vastly better living by ourselves, so we just have to make adjustments and compromises (even if it takes a while to get to the compromise part). I have my own room, haha. IP: Logged |
11nahyt
Knowflake Posts: 2488
From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted October 22, 2013 12:34 AM
Violet, you and him live in the same apt/house, but have separate rooms? IP: Logged |
11nahyt
Knowflake Posts: 2488
From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted October 22, 2013 12:36 AM
Kero, you walk around completely nude? No boxers/briefs on? Like your balls actually sticking to the chairs/couches when you sit? BruhhhhIP: Logged |
Violets
Knowflake Posts: 950
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Registered: Apr 2011
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posted October 22, 2013 12:41 AM
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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
Violet, you and him live in the same apt/house, but have separate rooms?
Heh. We own a house together, and we share the master bedroom. But I've claimed the extra bedroom as my personal space when we don't have guests. It's where I go to burn sage, meditate, think, or whatever if I need to. That way I don't keep him up late with my typing or smudging (although sometimes he smudges the house), and I can focus. I sleep in our shared bedroom about 50/50. Not because we're not close or don't like each other, just...we like our space. He likes the room freezing cold, and I like it like an oven, etc. IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
Knowflake Posts: 3376
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Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 22, 2013 12:41 AM
Alone, I don't wanna absorb their crappy energy. IP: Logged |
12muddy
Knowflake Posts: 791
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted October 22, 2013 12:41 AM
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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
walk around completely nude?
^ I tried that for a month (at home) and when I decided to renounce my cave-man ways, I found it difficult to feel comfortable with clothes on. IP: Logged |
Violets
Knowflake Posts: 950
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Registered: Apr 2011
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posted October 22, 2013 12:44 AM
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
Alone, I don't wanna absorb their crappy energy.
Yeah, that too. If one of us is having an absolute sh*t day, there's no need to make the other person feel all toxic if we can help it. So occasionally, one of us will just go into our own separate space and deal with our crap energy. IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1576
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 22, 2013 12:50 AM
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Originally posted by 12muddy:
^ I tried that for a month (at home) and when I decided to renounce my cave-man ways, I found it difficult to feel comfortable with clothes on.
Really? A whole month?
Or are you joking? IP: Logged |
11nahyt
Knowflake Posts: 2488
From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted October 22, 2013 12:50 AM
@violets its good that you at least have your own space, for your "me" time. I like my place to be cold too lol. you're a Pisces too right? Is your ascendant in water as well? Or are most of your placements in water houses? I find people like that tend to be 'sponges' .. Picking up on other people's energies, and usually affecting us if we don't find a way to stay away from them. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 6400
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 22, 2013 12:52 AM
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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
Kero, you walk around completely nude? No boxers/briefs on? Like your balls actually sticking to the chairs/couches when you sit? Bruhhhh
Lmfaoooooo OMFG my balls are not dirty and don't ooze out blood every month... calm ya **** . &&& It's my ******* apartment, I could do what I want! besides I've have sex on my couch.... the dinning table the counters..
This one table in the foyer.
It's already and unholy environment. Besides I make sure everything is spotless.
I clean my upholstery, it's leather! LOL..
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Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1576
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 22, 2013 12:53 AM
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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
Ahh i see.I like my place to be cold too lol. Violets you're a Pisces too right? Is your ascendant in water as well? Or are most of your placements in water houses? I find people like that tend to be 'sponges' .. Picking up on other people's energies, and usually affecting us if we don't find a way to stay away from them.
I have a Gemini Moon so if I hang with them even for a day I will start to pick upon some of their mannerism, lol. But they will have to do that certain thing enough times if it only took a day. IP: Logged |
Violets
Knowflake Posts: 950
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Registered: Apr 2011
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posted October 22, 2013 12:55 AM
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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
Ahh i see.I like my place to be cold too lol. Violets you're a Pisces too right? Is your ascendant in water as well? Or are most of your placements in water houses? I find people like that tend to be 'sponges' .. Picking up on other people's energies, and usually affecting us if we don't find a way to stay away from them.
Yep, I'm a Pisces. But I have Leo AC and a fairly evenly dispersed chart as far as elements and qualities go.
But I am very in tune with the energies around me, and it does affect me, so I try to do a lot of energy clearing--mine as well as others'. IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
Knowflake Posts: 3376
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Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 22, 2013 12:56 AM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Lmfaoooooo OMFG my balls are not dirty and don't ooze out blood every month
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11nahyt
Knowflake Posts: 2488
From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted October 22, 2013 12:58 AM
LMFAO @kero! I'm seriously tearing right now.i justIP: Logged |
12muddy
Knowflake Posts: 791
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted October 22, 2013 12:59 AM
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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
Or are you joking?
It was nice to just go home and get naked. I stopped that time because my cousin wasn't cool with seeing me walking around in the nude. Now I can do that whenever I want lol. My husband doesn't mind. IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
Knowflake Posts: 3376
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Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 22, 2013 01:00 AM
"I just"??? continue Nahyt IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 6400
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 22, 2013 01:02 AM
Nahty thinks every guys balls are sweaty and salty..
It gets sweaty when it's tucked away in boxers on a hot summer day!!!!IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1576
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 22, 2013 01:03 AM
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Originally posted by 12muddy:
It was nice to just go home and get naked. I stopped that time because my cousin wasn't cool with seeing me walking around in the nude. Now I can do that whenever I want lol. My husband doesn't mind.
Well that's cool that you and your husband are fine with it  IP: Logged |
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