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Topic: Are you better suited to living alone or with someone (roommate, lover, family, etc.)
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somethingexcellent
Knowflake Posts: 3484
From: vodka fine, I'm so divine
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 21, 2013 11:07 PM
  
Given that I'm really moody and I like being distanced and alone, I definitely think I'm better suited to living by myself...I've house sat before for a couple of months at a time and it was really enjoyable! I don't like living with others who feel the need to be present and interactive lmfao! I don't even really want pets because it's less responsibility.  I don't get lonely either and if I do, I could just go out.The exception I think would be living with a peer who has similar values to me. I could live with my sister because we're both loners in home environments. I could probably live with two of my friends too since they're unintrusive and open to sharing space - in fact I might be rooming with one for college soon! I am Aquarius Moon.
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Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 6400
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 21, 2013 11:13 PM
I don't like living alone but I've now evolved passed living with a friend. There's no way in hell I would live with a family member.
I'm way too intimate at home.
Walking around in the nude would be awkward for anyone but a lover, for whom I would just be eye candy..
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somethingexcellent
Knowflake Posts: 3484
From: vodka fine, I'm so divine
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 21, 2013 11:17 PM
LOL! No wayyyy...the habits of my family rubbed off on me. With my family, we're usually fully dressed sans shoes throughout the day. Even when alone, I'll probably sit around in boxers...if I'm feeling risky...and I haven't already put pants and socks on...IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1576
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 21, 2013 11:20 PM
I'm way better off living by myself.Unless it's my wife or a lover. (as in not married yet) I'll pass on living with a family member, friend or room-mate, I need my space and prefer to be a loner. Although I'd like a dog  I'm a Virgo Sun
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Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 6400
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 21, 2013 11:23 PM
HAAA... Maybe it's your scorpness too needing to feel protected at all times.I think being nude is an air thing.
I'm attracted to the idea that someone is spying on me and I'll have the blinds open... I guess that's because I'm a possible passive exhibitionist.  Plus it saves time doing so much laundry! IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1576
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 21, 2013 11:25 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
HAAA... Maybe it's your scorpness too needing to feel protected at all times.I think being nude is an air thing.
I'm attracted to the idea that someone is spying on me and I'll have the blinds open... I guess that's because I'm a possible passive exhibitionist. Plus it saves times doing so much laundry!
Maybe a preference of having less clothes on is a Libra thing because they're ruled by Venus, the planet of comfort. I'm the same way too of liking to wear boxers or the least clothes the better, haha. IP: Logged |
Zander916
Knowflake Posts: 1070
From: Midwest
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 21, 2013 11:30 PM
Alone. I love it. IP: Logged |
11nahyt
Knowflake Posts: 2488
From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted October 21, 2013 11:32 PM
Definitely living alone for me... I don't trust anyone enough to live with them. Ill never know if that person suddenly snaps and tries to kill me.. Or Rob me. Or become friends with someone who's malicious, and bringing them over to the house. Or them getting followed by someone who means harm, all the way into our place. And if I'm there I'm screwed lol..... I *must* live alone. I don't even have the desire to live with a romantic partner. I'd rather we have our own place individually.. He can come over and sleep over whenever. I can come over etc. but I need my own place to live, with at least a cat or dog (preferably both).Plus I like my house to look a certain way. and I can't stand when people touch my things. Or make a mess. I'm the only one allowed to make a mess, if anything  IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 6400
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 21, 2013 11:34 PM
It could be a venus thing.
Taurus for sure would loving being nude.I have prominent Venus.
Venus conjunct chart ruler
ascendant sun and moon It's funny I have vanity in between two large windows in my bedroom and I'll stand in front of it when I get ready.
My apartment is second story next to a main road. IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1576
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 21, 2013 11:34 PM
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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
Definitely living alone for me... I don't trust anyone enough to live with them. Ill never know if that person suddenly snaps and tries to kill me.. Or Rob me. Or become friends with someone who's malicious, and bringing them over to the house. Or them getting followed by someone who means harm, all the way into our place. And if I'm there I'm screwed lol..... I *must* live alone. I don't even have the desire to live with a romantic partner. I'd rather we have our own place individually.. He can come over and sleep over whenever. I can come over etc. but I need my own place to live. Plus I like my house to looks a certain way. and I can't stand when people touch my things. Or make a mess. I'm the only one allowed to make a mess, if anything
So if you get married, you two will live in separate places? IP: Logged |
11nahyt
Knowflake Posts: 2488
From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted October 21, 2013 11:35 PM
I'm not getting married mercurian -_-IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1576
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 21, 2013 11:35 PM
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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
I'm not getting married mercurian -_-
Aww, why not  IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 6400
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 21, 2013 11:37 PM
This turns into a marriage thread LMFAO...IP: Logged |
11nahyt
Knowflake Posts: 2488
From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted October 21, 2013 11:38 PM
Lmfao I was just going to say "I don't want to derail the thread. Stop tempting mehhh!"IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1576
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 21, 2013 11:38 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
It's funny I have vanity in between two large windows in my bedroom and I'll stand in front of it when I get ready.
My apartment is second story next to a main road.
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Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1576
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 21, 2013 11:40 PM
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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
Lmfao I was just going to say "I don't want to derail the thread. Stop tempting mehhh!"
Okay.
For the sake of the thread (I can't stop my curious mind  ) IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 6400
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 21, 2013 11:41 PM
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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
Definitely living alone for me... I don't trust anyone enough to live with them. Ill never know if that person suddenly snaps and tries to kill me.. Or Rob me. Or become friends with someone who's malicious, and bringing them over to the house. Or them getting followed by someone who means harm, all the way into our place. And if I'm there I'm screwed lol..... I *must* live alone. I don't even have the desire to live with a romantic partner. I'd rather we have our own place individually.. He can come over and sleep over whenever. I can come over etc. but I need my own place to live, with at least a cat or dog (preferably both).Plus I like my house to look a certain way. and I can't stand when people touch my things. Or make a mess. I'm the only one allowed to make a mess, if anything
Your venus in scorpio conjunct pluto was writing that.
I want someone to protect me from invisible axe murderers
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bIcgGEHzs90
I swear this is going to be me.... IP: Logged |
11nahyt
Knowflake Posts: 2488
From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted October 21, 2013 11:43 PM
I'm too moody. My mood swings are crazy lol. I really need lots of alone time. Plus i think its more exciting living separately. He can stay a my place for a few days at a time. But living with him permanently, does not appeal to me at all!. I'm complicated I know  IP: Logged |
11nahyt
Knowflake Posts: 2488
From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted October 21, 2013 11:50 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Your venus in scorpio conjunct pluto was writing that.
I want someone to protect me from invisible axe murderers
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bIcgGEHzs90
I swear this is going to be me....
 it's going to be hard to find a guy that fits my needs. I need him to be obsessed with me, but he needs to accept that I don't want to permanently live with him  .. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 6400
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 21, 2013 11:52 PM
If you date a serial killer he would be obsessed with you but not want to live with you because he hides all the dead bodies under the floorboards of his parents old home.Whatever you do don't go snooping around..... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RzG2n9KTTT0 IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 1622
From: Smalltown Pennsylvania
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted October 21, 2013 11:53 PM
Well coming from a person who's lived with an ex before, I'm used to it and miss waking up to a guy everyday or a boyfriend I should say  I'm a person who can be alone if I have to be but for the most part would rather not be. If it's not a guy over my best friends are always over. I'm too much of a people person to be alone. I'm a very private person yes but can't be alone. I'm with ya Kero about living with family. I'd rather live alone than with them lol. I do like my moments to myself but don't ever want to live alone. IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1576
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 21, 2013 11:58 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Well coming from a person who's lived with an ex before, I'm used to it and miss waking up to a guy everyday or a boyfriend I should say I'm a person who can be alone if I have to be but for the most part would rather not be. If it's not a guy over my best friends are always over. I'm too much of a people person to be alone. I'm a very private person yes but can't be alone. I'm with ya Kero about living with family. I'd rather live alone than with them lol. I do like my moments to myself but don't ever want to live alone.
I think wanting to live away from family members is definitely an air thing. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 1622
From: Smalltown Pennsylvania
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted October 21, 2013 11:59 PM
I've just always felt like an outsider with my family unfortunately and would rather not be with them than to make myself feel uncomfortable being around them. IP: Logged |
11nahyt
Knowflake Posts: 2488
From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted October 22, 2013 12:01 AM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
If you date a serial killer he would be obsessed with you but not want to live with you because he hides all the dead bodies under the floorboards of his parents old home.Whatever you do don't go snooping around..... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RzG2n9KTTT0
LMAO. IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1576
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 22, 2013 12:03 AM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
I've just always felt like an outsider with my family unfortunately and would rather not be with them than to make myself feel uncomfortable being around them.
Yeah, I'm that way too, not really sure why, they are nice to me, lol. I'm really close with my Mom, but I still like being alone. Air's detachment IP: Logged |
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